[BlackLusterSoldier]

Ok so.

Basically, I started fucking a girl last february. I was fucking a bunch of girls then and I let her know this.

She didn't say anything, I'd go back to uni and deal with other girls and too my knowledge everything was cool with her.

In the summer I'm back home and banging her... she lets me know she went back to her ex for sex twice while I was at university. (During the time she didn't mention it)

She also told me I was the 3rd guy she slept with.

Me thinking she was real hot and being naive took this at semi face value but my gut told me she way probably lying since I fucked her on the second date, I did kind of put in work in hindsight I guess...

Then a couple months pass since I come back form uni

August, it's her birthday, the week earlier I told her I fucked two girls between the period of time I saw her and that day (about a week). She was pissed,

A few days later I see a bunch of guy friends on her snap in her flat messing about, apparently she didn't do anything, I believe her. Because on her birthday a few days after that she fucked someone... another ;ex' that actually went to the party when I didn't bother, I was actually busy tbf.

The whole time she was asking me what are we and I was like chill I don't trust you (body count of 3? Lol)

Then she came clean about this I stopped fucking her for like a week then got bored but also found out her real body count. 7. 7 including me.... or so she says up till this point.

This whole time she's aware I'm fucking other girls (probably a dumb move in hindsight)

Then I start to catch feelings and a month later made her my girlfriend

in hindsight I should have manned up when it was time and ended things for good.

But now at the stage I'm at it's difficult? I blocked her from social media for a week and her number but left my key at her house, went around there and she was telling me how her sister suggested she come to my house to look for me (lol)

What should I do?

She went to a hotel with some guys last week. I have no evidence anything happened... She also brought me to the hotel the second night... Can I break up with her for this?

Am I being a pussy, should I just break up with her anyway?

Edit: her ex also treated her like shit and had other girls, although while i was treating her like shit he kept trying to poach her back, he's also older then me and has been to jail

[RatInTheWoods]

Its all very unhygeinic all this cum swapping you youngsters are getting up to.

Probably best top double wrap, and avoid going down - no one likes a box of assorted creams.

Other than that, fill your boots!

[frenchcorporation]

Yeah dump her. Not just because of what she did, but you're in university, having a girlfriend during that period is like leaving the nightclub at 8pm

Also, you'll get better responses in the newbie section forum-20.html

[kaotic]

You fucked up so many times here.

Don't tell girls who you're fucking, and don't ask who they're fucking.

That's why she's lashing out on her social media to make you jealous.

If they want commitment, they need to know they need to earn it.

You wifed her up even after you KNEW she was fucking other dudes on the side.

Anytime you hear a girls notch count, multiply it by at least 3 times.


If you don't have anything of yours at her house then you're fine.

Secondly, knock that pussy off the pedestal, downgrade her to just a fuck buddy (you don't need to tell her this).

Afterall, she's fucking other dudes, she isn't GF material.

Thirdly, stop catching feelings for this hoe, and hit up other girls.

[Jetset]

"break up with her"

It sounds like she's just a sketchy plate who bangs everybody and lies constantly. Do you even think you're "together" enough to "break up"?

I'd keep banging and not worry about any of this. You're away at university. If you, for some inexplicable reason, want her to be your girlfriend (please tell me you do not), she's going to cheat while you're away anyway.

With that in mind, the ex is in the picture is a bigger problem than she is. He does want her to be his girlfriend, and is a known idiot. She obviously likes drama and will eventually orchestrate a run-in between the two of you.

[The Alpha Virgin]

DUMP HER.

Several red flags here.

1. NOTHING says she's not lying to you again. 7 might aswell be 78 (she might not even count the guys that fucked her up the ass).
2. Seven guys in itself is far too many either way.
3. She lied to you, not only once, and she can't be trusted.
4. She fucked someone else after she had met you. A sane girl would not have risked fucking another guy while knowing she has a chance with a guy she's really into. If she was a "good" girl and was into you enough, she would not have fucked another guy.
5. She's been with a guy who has been to jail.
6. She has a lot of guy friends.

And by the way, english is my 3rd language and I still spell better than you do, fix that.
Also, blocking someone from social medias etc. is not something a mentally healthy and an emotionally stable man does.
That's just immature, don't do shit like that again.

[BlackLusterSoldier]

I've graduated in the summer, part of the reason I probably ended up liking her so much i because I was just chilling and visiting her more often now. If we put all this mess aside I feel like she could be committed, The ex I can let slide because I barely even spoke to her at that point.

The birthday 'ex' is what pisses me off until now, having not been in a serious relationship before I didn't see the *game over* bell ring there and carried on until a couple months later I made her my girlfriend.

The day i got that news I had literally just banged another girl, it was only once the dust had settled and I looked back I'm thinking wtf.

7... including me? So it was originally 2 other guys, I struggled to get my head around it but i managed. Then surprise surprise x 3 = 6 other guys lol. She's an attention whore so I feel like that contributed to the body count. If you had asked me to begin with I would have said too high but I'm in deep enough to deal with that now :/

And I hear that, but blocking her is the only way to disrupt contact with her tbh.

Birthday 'ex' was basically that guy friend that fucked her. Met some of the other guy friends they claim she's a 'good' girl and was more of a good girl when they met, which based off what she's told me is true.

The main ex is a huge red flag to me tbh considering he began by treating her better then me (he publicly claimed her as his girl) but ended up in a fwb situation with her... where as I just started in that situation

[questor70]

In a nutshell:

[BlackLusterSoldier]

(01-04-2018 05:34 PM)Jetset Wrote:  

"break up with her"

It sounds like she's just a sketchy plate who bangs everybody and lies constantly. Do you even think you're "together" enough to "break up"?

I'd keep banging and not worry about any of this. You're away at university. If you, for some inexplicable reason, want her to be your girlfriend (please tell me you do not), she's going to cheat while you're away anyway.

With that in mind, the ex is in the picture is a bigger problem than she is. He does want her to be his girlfriend, and is a known idiot. She obviously likes drama and will eventually orchestrate a run-in between the two of you.

Haha! I didn't think of this, very true she's going to get my ass beat

[BlackLusterSoldier]

(01-04-2018 05:56 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

In a nutshell:

Hmmmm

[Rhyme or Reason]

(01-04-2018 05:34 PM)Jetset Wrote:  

Do you even think you're "together" enough to "break up"?

Pretty much this. OP just charge this to the game and consider it a very basic lesson learned, with basically no long term damage caused...pretty good outcome I'd say. Walk away now before it gets messier.

[Atlanta Man]

She is having sex right now with someone else telling him everything about you. It is not a nice conversation either, she is telling him how gullible you are and how much smarter than you she is. Downgrade her and have sex with her friends.

[BlackLusterSoldier]

She seems like a nice homely girl besides all off this.

[bgbusiness]

1. Been there and done that. Don't stress too much that you committed, it's just another relationship that you will have in your life. You can easily break it of, it's not marriage.

2. I highly recommend you to watch this video by Roosh V on his youtube.
Here is the link -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwVF_T_E1rk
It shows the red flags signs that you want to watch out in a girl to screen them out.

3. Also read this article by Roosh V, "7 Things I Require In The Future Mother Of My Child". (Even though you are just looking for a relationship and not a wife, this article helped ME A LOT.)
http://www.rooshv.com/7-things-i-require...f-my-child

Anyways, I am also in a university and I have had 4 gfs already. All of them didn't last more than 3months, lol. 3 of them were because the girls were being shady. My last gf, I thought I screened super hard, but committed since I started catching some feelings even though she lied to me about her n-count, it was 4, not 3. She said it was just a one time, so it doesn't count. My logical brain told me not to commit, but my heart told me to commit. lol.

Now your girl has over 3 lays...for me that's a HUGE red flag and I will never commit to a girl with over 3 lays...I just can't. I really prefer a virgin girl especially now days...It just makes everything easier. Call me hypocritical or whatever, but I been blessed to find some virgin girls.

In addition, she has lied to you, she using social media to make you jealous, and just a lot of behaviors on her part seems like she is just fucking around and playing around. Doesn't take relationships seriously.

After you fucked her, if she has fucked other dudes, she is not LTR material at all....

Draw HARD CORE boundaries, dump her ass and get a new one and focus on school. I see a lot of behaviors that you been fucking up like tolerate small shit that she shows disrespecting you. You should not have. Grab your balls & GTFO.

[Leonard D Neubache]

One of the benefits of age is that you finally see all THOTs as completely 100% replaceable.

Does she lactate heroin? No. Is she a bona-fide 10? No. Replaceable.

You're at Uni. The very worst thing you can do for your prospects is to suffer what we could term "defeat" at the hands of a local woman. This will cause the rest of the females in the herd to look upon you as a diseased leper.

Ditch her semi-publicly and move the hell on.

[Off The Reservation]

(01-04-2018 05:17 PM)BlackLusterSoldier Wrote:  

everything was cool

She also told me

Me thinking

but my gut told me

she way probably lying s

a bunch of guy friends on her snap

she didn't do anything

I believe her.

Because

she fucked someone

and I was like chill

I don't trust you

Then she came clean

later made her my girlfriend

in hindsight

I blocked her

What should I do?

She went to a hotel

with some guys

I have no evidence

anything happened

Am I being a pussy

been to jail

[PapayaTapper]

I'm curious now...What do they call trailer parks in UK?

[Jetset]

(01-04-2018 05:58 PM)BlackLusterSoldier Wrote:  

Haha! I didn't think of this, very true she's going to get my ass beat

She'll love it, too. She's playing you both for attention and drama, and one man going to jail and another man going to the hospital fighting over her is every silly bitch's fantasy. Seeing men sacrifice themselves on her altar is probably her only source of self-worth.

I had something like this happen once. The first time she got into a big fight with her "ex" over her sending me nudes and stopping off at my place to suck dick, she texted me in a panic about how he'd looked at her phone and they'd had a big fight, begging me to tell him she'd said they were together the whole time if he contacted me to ask.

Bullshit. She'd told me about a breakup, but didn't warn me about their reconciliation. I warned her that I'm not getting involved and don't care about her boyfriend but to start locking her phone properly if she's going to fuck around. She says all this stuff about how she can't jeopardize her relationship and needs to make it work, then is texting me and back on her knees a month later.

Sure enough, he gets into her phone again. At this point, it was obvious she liked it and was letting it happen to mess with him, and that he's just as messed up for trying to be her boyfriend as she is for running around behind his back. Stopped responding to her before he starts blaming me for his life. Older and wiser, I wouldn't even bother with a second chance over stupidity like that. If you want to cheat, get organized.

[H1N1]

(01-05-2018 04:21 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

I'm curious now...What do they call trailer parks in UK?

Traveler encampments.

[Dulceácido]

Reading this OP was like watching a red flag competition.

[BlackLusterSoldier]

I'm seeing hella red flags with her and my friends keep going in on me for still dealing with her but I feel like she deserves the benfit of the doubt you know?

[Dulceácido]

Bail out.

[General Stalin]

If she's hot and the sex is good then keep fucking her as well as other girls.

But she's not your "girlfriend"

[Kona]

(01-04-2018 05:17 PM)BlackLusterSoldier Wrote:  

She went to a hotel with some guys last week.

How many is some?

I hate to tell you this, but I smell a filthy British gangbang.

Aloha!

[Leonard D Neubache]

Cor blimey! This twat is up for it, lads!

Hey, OP. I want you to say this out loud, three times.

"That whore is a dirty slut, and I'm going to fuck her dirty slut holes with a rubber because I don't know where that dirty slut whore has been in the last five slut-whoring minutes!"

Are you "making love" to her, or are you force-fucking her like the dirty whore slut she is?

Change her name on your phone to DSW. It stands for "Dirty Slut Whore". When you're going to meet her say out loud, "blimey! It's time to go fuck me dirty littl' 'ore of a slut!"

It's all about keeping perspective.