One hour after I have sex I'm horny again. If I'm honest I have to say it interferes with other areas of my life. Trying to lower testosterone is not a solution, as it would mean throwing the baby with the bath water.
Too much libido
I’ll give you the same advice I give chicks who complain about getting hitting on by men: just wait a few years.
Look at Google Images of Hillary Clinton and her supporters. I guarantee that will cure your problem.
John Michael Kane's Datasheets: Master The Credit Game: Save & Make Money By Being Credit Savvy
Boycott these companies that hate men: King's Wiki Boycott List
Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value. -Albert Einstein
Channel it into something productive. It's what the rest of the human race has to do.
Quote: (10-03-2017 12:19 PM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:
One hour after I have sex I'm horny again. If I'm honest I have to say it interferes with other areas of my life. Trying to lower testosterone is not a solution, as it would mean throwing the baby with the bath water.
It's a good thing my friend. Cherish it while it lasts.
Take propecia - it will not only lower your libido, but provide you with a sexy full head of hair allowing you to conquest well into your old age.
Quote: (10-03-2017 07:53 PM)TooFineAPoint Wrote:
Quote: (10-03-2017 03:42 PM)scotian Wrote:
I’ll give you the same advice I give chicks who complain about getting hitting on by men: just wait a few years.
Quote of the year.
Close down all comments on the forum, wait til 2018. It's not getting any better than this.
Haha so true. Not that long out of college and the girls I knew are already showing signs of wear.
High class problem.
Quote: (10-03-2017 10:20 PM)qwertyuiop Wrote:
Quote: (10-03-2017 07:53 PM)TooFineAPoint Wrote:
Quote: (10-03-2017 03:42 PM)scotian Wrote:
I’ll give you the same advice I give chicks who complain about getting hitting on by men: just wait a few years.
Quote of the year.
Close down all comments on the forum, wait til 2018. It's not getting any better than this.
Haha so true. Not that long out of college and the girls I knew are already showing signs of wear.
It's fair to say a high percentage of bitches leave college fatter than they were when they started. College is one big fatty factory.
Quote: (10-03-2017 04:07 PM)churros Wrote:
Channel it into something productive. It's what the rest of the human race has to do.
Totally echoe this advice, start a business or something. If you have endless time to just fuck all day you need something else to do, plus you can channel that energy into something else
Get you a girl that fucks more
How old are you? I'm 28...
2013, one of my FBs told me I was a sex...That had immense self-control (would fuck 6-8x in a night)
Fast forward, at 28 I realize I am multi orgasmic...Depending on how immersed I am in a sex frenzy can cum 2-4x back to back to back.
I learnt in 2014, I can't go 2-4 days without sex or I go insane. Have done no fap at most 30 days 1 time and a maybe 3-4x 7 to 15 days...
Just other day had to fap 10+ times just to CHILL OUT...
Only way I found to be successful is keep yourself busy, challenging your mind and when out socially have sed as a destressor.
I never considered myself to have high libido till I really thought about it and looked into it. Reason being is because it's hard to FAP to porn, I can legit just watch it. Apparently studies found those with high libido can easily just watch porn without fapping.
My festishes are really specific, sexy amauters, lingerie, passionate sextapes, webcams of women teasing/stripping/masturbating, amauter cumshot compilations, voyuerism/exhibitionist, public sex, people at work place having sex, etc.
I genuinely enjoy looking at women...
Nonetheless, I've found no solution other than trying to harness it. From a 1950s sexuality book apparently us men who are sex addicts have issues with our eneegetic sensitivity so were always tense in need of release or transmutation...We NEED physical touch...
Problem with orgasm is your cock becomes relaxed temporarily BUT now our whole body is tense...In need of more and more release trying.to get the relaxation.
Things I found that helped...
- Physical touch/cuddling
- Sex without ejaculation/orgasm (this is the best high)
- streching whole body (overload yourself with all sorts of endorphins release)
I now know why I can go deep with rough sex. Chicks have slapped me, moments have been filled with animalistic almost borderline psychotic passion...However, I'm always low key letting the woman draw the line as I still don't know where my line is...
For instance in my younger days almost had sex in time square during a thunder storm, no one around, no fucks given if cctv caught us...Anytime I see time square I recall that day.
I have to be careful though as I can see how my mind can get me in trouble. Once banged an FB on edge of a roof while drunk. I was literally looking at my death as the only thing keeping us from falling off the roof was me holding her...However, it was hot as fuck & chick agreed as she would later use her vibrator as soon as I left to continue indulging in that whole day. (When comes to rough limits, this gal was all for it total contrast to her demeanor hahah)
One influential male pornstar "rocco sifferdi" mentioned he had a sex addiction. In his documentary I've seen similar patterns with high libido dudes who indulge in the psychological aspects of sex.
Your mind is being fucked, becomes addicting, only way is to consciously get a hold on it. For me meditation gave me SOME control....
I can recall, one time deciding to go home because I was too drunk. Seen an woman in 50s-60s who oozed sex appeal. The whole time I'm trying my hardest not to do anything as my mind already played out a fantasy...She is looking and I am begging for universe that she doesn't interact with me.
Next thing I know she speaks...And I'm switching trains with her to go the other way (she missed her stop)
For a moment of clarity, I had to tell myself STOP as I have had a habit of randomly meeting people and just going back to their place to fuck. That moment I was going to devour that oldie.
Past 2.5 years I was in a relationship so self-control got better in ACTUALITY...But it was weird because we'd have a good amount of sex despite us barely seeing each other BUT...I've probably fapped more times while in relationship than single (maybe due to lack of variety I was used to in past and my sexual interest is kind of like a stock market "fluid")
I'd fap/fuck until I physically couldn't BUT my mind would still be horny. Actually physically injured my cock due to alot of fapping & sex...Before & after leaving ex gf apt would have to fap. If I don't orgasm through sex though I get a full body glow and the craving would ease. Opposite when orgasming... (Oddly if no orgasm from fapping & would have blue balls)
Overall, I never labeled myself as high libido BUT I have self-diagonosed myself as a hypomanic which includes hypersexuality & risk taking.
To me, my sex life was normal BUT if ever watch movie shameless, my sex life for better or worst was kind of like that. I didn't say anything to anyone I'd just DISAPPEAR and end up in some random situation. Once almost jumped down into a hole in a construction site on an avenue as I was heading to grand central to fuck a chick there...Ended up in stairwell of my boy apartment (That chick was down to fuck anywhere no matter who was around)
Because of her, I catch myself noting even the slightest public areas to have sex, lift a chick skirt to eat her pussy, pull cock out, or finger a chick.
What's crazier...I just had a memory come to me...
There was a chick I banged in soho right infront of the storefront doorway. I recall while fucking her from behind someone passed by and she greeted him. I simply didn't care and kept fucking her. (I have no memory of how or where I met this woman, I only remember because we were gonna record POV-style in that moment because the spot was "good enough" but essentially right in the open.
Looking back, all this was deemed normal to me. There are countless similar situations, upward to 75+ times public sex related despite having actually "dick n puss" in low 100s. (Hard estimste, I have no idea how many chicks i banged blackedout) I've never had good logistics (live with parents) but even so I used to be addicted to public sexual encounters.
Not once did I view this as abnormal, writing this post makes me realize my FB was right, low key sexual addict.
P.S...Most chicks were ONS, FBs I saw maybe 1x every 2 weeks to 6 months. That said, I flaked a shit ton. Chicks used to hit me up everyday yet I'd generally be somewhere with someone doing something...Past 2.5 years was 1st and last girlfriend.
P.S.S...The years I've been in relationship the quality of women in my presence had dropped significantly, so if want to lower libido just move to a city where majority of women you won't find attractive...There is a certain STATE I go into when I see certain women & the last time I can think of feeling that was while in prague. In order for me to TRULY be inspired to have sex I need to have the urge to devour the womans soul...She can be universally attractive but that isn't enough for me
2013, one of my FBs told me I was a sex...That had immense self-control (would fuck 6-8x in a night)
Fast forward, at 28 I realize I am multi orgasmic...Depending on how immersed I am in a sex frenzy can cum 2-4x back to back to back.
I learnt in 2014, I can't go 2-4 days without sex or I go insane. Have done no fap at most 30 days 1 time and a maybe 3-4x 7 to 15 days...
Just other day had to fap 10+ times just to CHILL OUT...
Only way I found to be successful is keep yourself busy, challenging your mind and when out socially have sed as a destressor.
I never considered myself to have high libido till I really thought about it and looked into it. Reason being is because it's hard to FAP to porn, I can legit just watch it. Apparently studies found those with high libido can easily just watch porn without fapping.
My festishes are really specific, sexy amauters, lingerie, passionate sextapes, webcams of women teasing/stripping/masturbating, amauter cumshot compilations, voyuerism/exhibitionist, public sex, people at work place having sex, etc.
I genuinely enjoy looking at women...
Nonetheless, I've found no solution other than trying to harness it. From a 1950s sexuality book apparently us men who are sex addicts have issues with our eneegetic sensitivity so were always tense in need of release or transmutation...We NEED physical touch...
Problem with orgasm is your cock becomes relaxed temporarily BUT now our whole body is tense...In need of more and more release trying.to get the relaxation.
Things I found that helped...
- Physical touch/cuddling
- Sex without ejaculation/orgasm (this is the best high)
- streching whole body (overload yourself with all sorts of endorphins release)
I now know why I can go deep with rough sex. Chicks have slapped me, moments have been filled with animalistic almost borderline psychotic passion...However, I'm always low key letting the woman draw the line as I still don't know where my line is...
For instance in my younger days almost had sex in time square during a thunder storm, no one around, no fucks given if cctv caught us...Anytime I see time square I recall that day.
I have to be careful though as I can see how my mind can get me in trouble. Once banged an FB on edge of a roof while drunk. I was literally looking at my death as the only thing keeping us from falling off the roof was me holding her...However, it was hot as fuck & chick agreed as she would later use her vibrator as soon as I left to continue indulging in that whole day. (When comes to rough limits, this gal was all for it total contrast to her demeanor hahah)
One influential male pornstar "rocco sifferdi" mentioned he had a sex addiction. In his documentary I've seen similar patterns with high libido dudes who indulge in the psychological aspects of sex.
Your mind is being fucked, becomes addicting, only way is to consciously get a hold on it. For me meditation gave me SOME control....
I can recall, one time deciding to go home because I was too drunk. Seen an woman in 50s-60s who oozed sex appeal. The whole time I'm trying my hardest not to do anything as my mind already played out a fantasy...She is looking and I am begging for universe that she doesn't interact with me.
Next thing I know she speaks...And I'm switching trains with her to go the other way (she missed her stop)
For a moment of clarity, I had to tell myself STOP as I have had a habit of randomly meeting people and just going back to their place to fuck. That moment I was going to devour that oldie.
Past 2.5 years I was in a relationship so self-control got better in ACTUALITY...But it was weird because we'd have a good amount of sex despite us barely seeing each other BUT...I've probably fapped more times while in relationship than single (maybe due to lack of variety I was used to in past and my sexual interest is kind of like a stock market "fluid")
I'd fap/fuck until I physically couldn't BUT my mind would still be horny. Actually physically injured my cock due to alot of fapping & sex...Before & after leaving ex gf apt would have to fap. If I don't orgasm through sex though I get a full body glow and the craving would ease. Opposite when orgasming... (Oddly if no orgasm from fapping & would have blue balls)
Overall, I never labeled myself as high libido BUT I have self-diagonosed myself as a hypomanic which includes hypersexuality & risk taking.
To me, my sex life was normal BUT if ever watch movie shameless, my sex life for better or worst was kind of like that. I didn't say anything to anyone I'd just DISAPPEAR and end up in some random situation. Once almost jumped down into a hole in a construction site on an avenue as I was heading to grand central to fuck a chick there...Ended up in stairwell of my boy apartment (That chick was down to fuck anywhere no matter who was around)
Because of her, I catch myself noting even the slightest public areas to have sex, lift a chick skirt to eat her pussy, pull cock out, or finger a chick.
What's crazier...I just had a memory come to me...
There was a chick I banged in soho right infront of the storefront doorway. I recall while fucking her from behind someone passed by and she greeted him. I simply didn't care and kept fucking her. (I have no memory of how or where I met this woman, I only remember because we were gonna record POV-style in that moment because the spot was "good enough" but essentially right in the open.
Looking back, all this was deemed normal to me. There are countless similar situations, upward to 75+ times public sex related despite having actually "dick n puss" in low 100s. (Hard estimste, I have no idea how many chicks i banged blackedout) I've never had good logistics (live with parents) but even so I used to be addicted to public sexual encounters.
Not once did I view this as abnormal, writing this post makes me realize my FB was right, low key sexual addict.
P.S...Most chicks were ONS, FBs I saw maybe 1x every 2 weeks to 6 months. That said, I flaked a shit ton. Chicks used to hit me up everyday yet I'd generally be somewhere with someone doing something...Past 2.5 years was 1st and last girlfriend.
P.S.S...The years I've been in relationship the quality of women in my presence had dropped significantly, so if want to lower libido just move to a city where majority of women you won't find attractive...There is a certain STATE I go into when I see certain women & the last time I can think of feeling that was while in prague. In order for me to TRULY be inspired to have sex I need to have the urge to devour the womans soul...She can be universally attractive but that isn't enough for me
« Next Oldest | Next Newest »
Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)