Let me explain what I mean by that. For example if you own a successful business then you have a lot of institute. You have clients and employees and people depend on you and need you. If you have a big social circle or a solid follower/fan base then you have institute too. Having institute is the opposite of being lean (I'm not talking about body fat). Even having a decent family (parents and/or siblings) gives you some institute.
Now if you are like me and don't have much institute (or at least it appears that you don't) then everybody who gets in touch with you, male or female, will notice it. You'll look "lean" and eager to interact and so your value will decrease. It even shows in your body language and tone of voice. There is so much talk in the manosphere on SMV however it seems it's usually neglected that having value is one thing and projecting it is another. For example I get a near 6-figure salary and dress decently but people usually think I'm a student. I remember when I was teaching classes I was more confident compared to now that I work in an office.
So my question is how one can have more "institute". Seems like I should develop a hobby or side hustle in which I have clients. Also taking responsibilities that'd put me in charge of others would help too. Lastly it may help not to think about this shortage too much (fake it till you make it). Other ideas?
Now if you are like me and don't have much institute (or at least it appears that you don't) then everybody who gets in touch with you, male or female, will notice it. You'll look "lean" and eager to interact and so your value will decrease. It even shows in your body language and tone of voice. There is so much talk in the manosphere on SMV however it seems it's usually neglected that having value is one thing and projecting it is another. For example I get a near 6-figure salary and dress decently but people usually think I'm a student. I remember when I was teaching classes I was more confident compared to now that I work in an office.
So my question is how one can have more "institute". Seems like I should develop a hobby or side hustle in which I have clients. Also taking responsibilities that'd put me in charge of others would help too. Lastly it may help not to think about this shortage too much (fake it till you make it). Other ideas?
A whore ain't nothing but a trick to a pimp. (Iceberg Slim)
Beauty is in the erection of the beholder. (duedue)
Grab your life by the pussy.
A better question to ask is "What EXACTLY do I want out of life and what EXACTLY am I doing to get EXACTLY that? If you can answer that question truthfully you will be the most Alpha motherfucker you will ever need to be. (PapayaTapper)