[MaceTyrell]

(09-29-2017 05:14 AM)kosko Wrote:  

You'll go broke chasing pussy. Never a free lunch. The pauper mentality of PUA culture stems from this truth. You can still get good returns in pussy if you learn to be disciplined with your time and your money.

The old saying is that more guys have money versus guys who have game. Going for the money game is stupid when you can literally learn to pick up girls with $0 down and just the commitment of your time to make it happen. It isn't being cheap, it is being smart. Why pay for something you can get for "free" (the time has value, never a free lunch)?

Chasing pussy is resource intensive as you need to devote lots of time and or money to get returns. Once you improve your game you get more effective and efficient to manage both. To me game is a very detailed level of resource management and prioritizing as you become methodical in how to best devote time towards getting the most abundance of women.

This is why you notice young guys who are still in school, or late blooming professionals with bankroll who can afford the time and money sink towards strict learning and practicing of game. The seasoned nature's don't need method approaches to women and they navigate life fine without the need to pick up tools and seek out materials for assistance. But the naturals are cheap as well. Why would the drop tons of cash on pussy? Might as well light your money on fire. Better to spend that money on yourself and or reinvest it into something that becomes much bigger versus sending it into the black hole of pussy.

This is a key attraction of mine to the game community. My biggest regret is devoting extensive time & money towards getting subpar pussy/women. Even in my deep blue pill days, nothing gave me more satisfaction than a time/money efficient notch.

[Zerdame]

I would like to contribute to this thread because I feel like my personal experience reflect greatly on the topic as I go through this every single day. I am essentially a poor young guy. I am in my early twenties, serving in the Singapore military. It is compulsory to do 2 years for citizens and they pay you SGD700 (about USD515) a month. Prior to enlisting, I did an internship in Tokyo where I had spending money of about USD1000 a month. Not alot to work with in two of the most expensive cities in the world. I started game about the time when I went to Japan which was in February of 2015, for a young dude with the financial constraints wanting to get laid, I knew it wasn't going to be easy.

I had shit logistics that would turn any potential girls the other direction running for the densha(train) home and I had probably less spending money a month than the average Japanese college kid. But I felt like those scenarios only made me more self reliant and resourceful. I learnt to budget for my night outs and knowing that bringing girls to love hotels(around 50bucks for 3 hours) was my best bet for getting laid, I learnt to spend minimally on girls and yet still being able to build comfort. I learn to memorize and navigate unfamiliar roads without using Google Maps so I could do rambling game while leading them towards the love hotels to maintain the plausible deniability. Or I would also target girls who have their own apartments(rich girls from other cities but studying/working in Tokyo who can afford their own place)

All of these made my year in Japan much more fruitful than it would have been if I had just strolled in with daddy's bank account. My 1000 a month was a result of my intern allowance and my own savings. That year long trip in Japan wiped out whatever savings I had in high school but it was again, worth every single cent for all the valuable life lessons it taught me.

Admittedly, all of that was all hard to adapt to when I was enlisted into the military and suddenly had even lesser money to work with. I was in my home country but my logistics were even worse because I am staying with my parents(or in base lol) and while Japan had a huge love hotel industry and little stigma of going to one, the situation in Singapore leaves much to be desired. I got laid alot lesser back home due to time constraints and again, the thinning of the wallet but still, I acknowledge this is one phase of my life that I must get by. Being poor now means I would be alot more cautious when I do eventually have much more disposable income.

While P2P is a huge thing among my peers in the military, I have resisted that temptation. I got into game because I wanted to sleep with beautiful women. Over time, that was override by the thrill of the chase and I just can't seem to get myself into the mood knowing I paid for this woman to be flaunting all over me, no matter how beautiful she may be.

Sorry if this got alittle off tangent but I feel like this topic really resonates with me because I simply don't have the money to even afford to think of being alittle more extravagant haha. With my financial situation, I have banged girls from over 7 different countries, all of which I have shared on this forum and proved by RVF members I have met located in the different parts of the world that I've been to. Not too bad I hope, for a dude rolling with 500 bucks a month.