Well, I'm officially single again. This one lasted four years. I was looking back at our texts, saw a lot of animosity and I can see how that amped up after she saw my "dark side" on a seduction forum where I basically detailed how I was seeing two women at the same time, like I was some kind of boss dropping major knowledge *cringe*
Fuck, I really thought she was the one, I'm now single with nothing lined up. I wanted kids by now. Or soon.
Gotta charge it to the game. I couldn't keep taking the amount of shit that I was getting from her. Sneaking through my phone, went through my Dropbox to find some evidence that I was getting some on the side (I wasn't), even into my chats with family where I was talking about the ring I wanted to get her. I felt like I couldn't say anything to her because after all I did behave badly at the beginning. But it ate away at me. The last time she checked my phone after months of me studiously being the best boyfriend I could be, I h had enough.
Its been a month since I told her I couldn't handle her shit and she's been begging me to take her back, I think the fights will just continue after some short post-fight honeymoon period. Either that or she won't trust me to not leave her again, further exacerbating the trust issues we have... Err had. I think she's better off with some dude without the sour history.
Sucks though, I'm not much of a player. Every time I end up single it's like learning game for the first time. Maybe after a certain point of knowing there'll always be another girl, it reduces your ability to forgive things you otherwise would. The blame game. Blame the Game.
Fuck, I really thought she was the one, I'm now single with nothing lined up. I wanted kids by now. Or soon.
Gotta charge it to the game. I couldn't keep taking the amount of shit that I was getting from her. Sneaking through my phone, went through my Dropbox to find some evidence that I was getting some on the side (I wasn't), even into my chats with family where I was talking about the ring I wanted to get her. I felt like I couldn't say anything to her because after all I did behave badly at the beginning. But it ate away at me. The last time she checked my phone after months of me studiously being the best boyfriend I could be, I h had enough.
Its been a month since I told her I couldn't handle her shit and she's been begging me to take her back, I think the fights will just continue after some short post-fight honeymoon period. Either that or she won't trust me to not leave her again, further exacerbating the trust issues we have... Err had. I think she's better off with some dude without the sour history.
Sucks though, I'm not much of a player. Every time I end up single it's like learning game for the first time. Maybe after a certain point of knowing there'll always be another girl, it reduces your ability to forgive things you otherwise would. The blame game. Blame the Game.