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09-08-2011, 09:52 AM
I am not trying to be overly critical, I've only been a member of this forum for a few days. I am not the internet forum type usually, but I am slowly coming to one realization about forums like this:
People like to talk out their ass.
A lot of the posts I am reading are full of, forgive me for saying, bullshit. I just feel like I am being lied to in 90% of the posts I read on here.
Is it the anonymity factor?
I don't want to quote anything or anyone in particular, but come on guys--let's cut down on the embellishments and flat out bullshit.
I know this sounds like I'm trying to be a dick, but I'm definitely not. I know other people HAVE GOT TO BE thinking the same thing as me.
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09-08-2011, 10:08 AM
I doubt 90% of the posts are lies. However virtually all dudes exaggerate and sometimes outright lie about how much sex they get. Just like dudes exaggerate how tall they the are or how much they can bench press or how important their jobs are. I take everything I hear with a grain of salt.
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09-08-2011, 10:10 AM
I hear you (though I think you can work on the delivery). I'm usually very suspicious of posters who talk tall and claim their "system" rewards you with streets paved with pussy ...but offer very little, real applicable advice.
While it's good to be selective and critical it's often the least time consuming to just ignore these blowhards.
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09-08-2011, 10:12 AM
This is the internet. Take it with a grain of salt.
I have found that certain posters will say things that ring true with my experience, and that begins to build trust with what they say about subjects I know less about. Mixx's dead-on descriptions of Colombian women, for example, makes me trust him more when he talks about women from other places. The utility is the thing. If a guy is telling you a lot of stories and not really telling you anything useful or applicable to your own life, that's when the alarm bells should go off.
Still, compared to most online communities, this one seems a lot less full of the flame wars and exaggerating that bogs down most of the internet. It's why I check in regularly.
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09-08-2011, 11:30 AM
IMO, there's a strong correlation between BS and bad grammar/spelling/syntax. Guys who can't bother to write properly tend to be full of shit. Nearly all the highest quality posters respect the forums, and write well.
I guess it doesn't bother most people, but it does me. Writing like crap is disrespectful to yourself and to everyone else. It's like showing up to a nice party in sweatpants and a wifebeater.
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09-08-2011, 11:42 AM
Quote: (09-08-2011 11:30 AM)basilransom Wrote:
IMO, there's a strong correlation between BS and bad grammar/spelling/syntax. Guys who can't bother to write properly tend to be full of shit. Nearly all the highest quality posters respect the forums, and write well.
I guess it doesn't bother most people, but it does me. Writing like crap is disrespectful to yourself and to everyone else. It's like showing up to a nice party in sweatpants and a wifebeater.
Thats a bit harsh. I´m not a native speaker so my grammar may suck from time to time, doesnt mean i write lies.
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09-08-2011, 12:14 PM
Like any community, I feel like there's a share of bullshitters and exaggerators. I think in an attempt to impress the rest, some guys invariably pump up their experience, knowledge, or successes. That said, I think the solid, core guys are pretty reliable and honest about their failures and shortcomings.
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09-08-2011, 12:32 PM
I got a kick out of guys posting Hawiian Tropic models on the Pics of girls you banged thread and some of the Hotties in the beginning of the 5 thread.
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09-08-2011, 12:34 PM
The obvious ones who the ones who in others' threads act "alpha", and then start their own thread asking how to re-open some chick that hasn't bothered to hit them up in seven months or how to ask a girl for her phone number while at the club.
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09-08-2011, 12:49 PM
Yeah, some guys act like they're only fucking models and look down on the "rest of us". I let it be known that ill fuck an ugly bitch in drought season and strike out plenty.
I hope y'all aren't talking about me because I always try to keep it real online and in the real world.
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09-08-2011, 02:07 PM
You've been a member not even a month and already you caused me work scrubbing your mistake in the POF thread. And now you're disparaging the entire forum while providing no evidence.
Take a break, and if you still think the forum is "bullshit" then don't come back. Problem solved.
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09-08-2011, 02:56 PM
I think men and women will embellish until the end of time. That is a given, but what separates this site from others is the quality of posts and the willingness of members to contribute their knowledge to other guys.
Read a few posts from a number of guys on here and you can see the good from the bad. This is the reason for the rep point system.
Nonetheless, as Roosh says, if you're not happy you know where the door is.
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09-08-2011, 04:34 PM
It doesnt even matter if here are some bullshitters around. You said yourself that you spot them easily and so probably does the rest of us. Where's the problem? I think that you can benefit from this forum in a great way, while reading some punks lying and bragging about some bullshit may annoy you, but its not really a big deal, or is it?
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09-08-2011, 05:29 PM
I'm on here mainly for entertainment and to learn a thing or two from men with more experience. If I can gain advice/experience from someone else' lies, then so be it, the advice is still the same. Every man in the history of being a dude has lied about some aspect of their dating life to other guys, myself included.
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10-01-2011, 11:41 PM
i have enjoyed every post ive read on this forum weather it sounded like b/s or not.
there is a lot to learn from the more experienced playas on this site and its pretty obvious who really has game and who doesnt.
bigups to everyone sharing their stories of success and failure.
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10-02-2011, 04:29 AM
Thanks for sharing that.quite the situation you were in there.....