[MRG1946]

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A recent thread here, started by a young man from Sweden, who is a virgin, asks for advice on meeting girls via Internet apps. (Link below)

I think he's going about this in the wrong way, so, I expect, he'll find a wrong solution.
With respect to him, I will open this new thread offering an opportunity for advices from other men here.

His first approach is to use Internet apps to meet women.
Even for an experienced man, that is a "crap shoot" with unknown odds and some dangers.

But our man is going to Bangkok!
And in Bangkok he has unlimited opportunities to "engage" with Thai women who are a bit older, a lot more experienced, and who will be eager to help him get past virgin status.

I suggest he go to a large brothel.
(Often called a "soapie", but there are many styles of brothels in Bankgok and "soapie" is just one style.)

At the brothel he will be in a safe place.
No worry about scams, drugs, or theft.
The girls/women will be clean of any disease, and they will know what to do.
Yes, he will be expected to pay for this level of service.

Best to go mid-day when his arrival will be most appreciated, rather than after dark when there will be lots of customers.

Yes, he will be invited to order a drink - for himself and for the lady.
I've never had a problem ordering, "I'll have a Pepsi."

Further, I suggest, he explain to the "Papa-san" (the manager who will great him) that he is a virgin.
The Papa-san is almost sure be kind and helpful in the manner of an older brother.

Ask Papa-san to select a "teacher" from among the girls available.
The "teacher" will be a senior girl in the brothel, with enough experience that the newer girls go to her for training and advice.
It is a position of respect in any brothel.
This teacher won't be young, likely age 30-40, but she will be kind and patient.
And our young man must be prepared to tip the teacher generously.

It would be a very good beginning for a 20-year-old man.

(09-12-2017 02:43 PM)Travelalone Wrote:  

I will be going to Thailand for a month ... so I signed up on Thaifriendly about two weeks ago ... I'm also a 20 year old virgin and I now feel like I need to do something about that ...

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[scotian]

If you're a 20 year old virgin from a country with slutty women like Sweden then going to Thailand isn't going to solve your problems.

[Frenchie]

It's just my opinion, but honestly going to a brothel or prostitutes is "bad" (to stay polite), that's what desperate old men do. Also it's not "earned".
I think it's better to earn your first time, or else he might get trapped into a "brother spiral".

My advice: work hard on going on many REAL DATES, fail many times it's ok, but when you finally succeed you have learned a lot and earned it.

[NKD]

My first time was with an escort, no biggie. If he's over 18 and a virgin in Sweden then he must not be 1- attractive 2- below 0 game. If he starts working on himself, it'll take him some time so I would suggest thailand to get it over with and once he's back home in Sweden then he can work on himself

[DarkTriad]

Mr. G, I respect you the Thailand knowledge you've shared on this forum, but I think you're forgetting how hard it is to be a lonely young man that has been given the worst advice possible most of his life

If he's in Europe, and he wanted to go to a brothel, he could just take a train. Going to a pro is a very different thing than learning to make the magic happen on your own. A whole lot of things are based on confidence etc., and if you have too many confidence breaking things happen when you're young, it's going to just keep getting harder for you. Going to someplace that's "easy mode" is a great way to break the cycle. A kid is better off learning to ride a bike with training wheels than staying home and playing the coolest BMX bike videogame.

[Bienvenuto]

If Im going through a dry spell heading to Thailand is a good way to Kickstart game.
Thaifriendly is shit.
He just needs to get on Tinder and like like like. Sure lose it and get experience in brothels and he will get a tonne more positive interactions than he seems to be getting in Sweden currently.
It's not a panacea but it is a start and getting momentum. I applaud his initiative