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A recent thread here, started by a young man from Sweden, who is a virgin, asks for advice on meeting girls via Internet apps. (Link below)
I think he's going about this in the wrong way, so, I expect, he'll find a wrong solution.
With respect to him, I will open this new thread offering an opportunity for advices from other men here.
His first approach is to use Internet apps to meet women.
Even for an experienced man, that is a "crap shoot" with unknown odds and some dangers.
But our man is going to Bangkok!
And in Bangkok he has unlimited opportunities to "engage" with Thai women who are a bit older, a lot more experienced, and who will be eager to help him get past virgin status.
I suggest he go to a large brothel.
(Often called a "soapie", but there are many styles of brothels in Bankgok and "soapie" is just one style.)
At the brothel he will be in a safe place.
No worry about scams, drugs, or theft.
The girls/women will be clean of any disease, and they will know what to do.
Yes, he will be expected to pay for this level of service.
Best to go mid-day when his arrival will be most appreciated, rather than after dark when there will be lots of customers.
Yes, he will be invited to order a drink - for himself and for the lady.
I've never had a problem ordering, "I'll have a Pepsi."
Further, I suggest, he explain to the "Papa-san" (the manager who will great him) that he is a virgin.
The Papa-san is almost sure be kind and helpful in the manner of an older brother.
Ask Papa-san to select a "teacher" from among the girls available.
The "teacher" will be a senior girl in the brothel, with enough experience that the newer girls go to her for training and advice.
It is a position of respect in any brothel.
This teacher won't be young, likely age 30-40, but she will be kind and patient.
And our young man must be prepared to tip the teacher generously.
It would be a very good beginning for a 20-year-old man.
A recent thread here, started by a young man from Sweden, who is a virgin, asks for advice on meeting girls via Internet apps. (Link below)
I think he's going about this in the wrong way, so, I expect, he'll find a wrong solution.
With respect to him, I will open this new thread offering an opportunity for advices from other men here.
His first approach is to use Internet apps to meet women.
Even for an experienced man, that is a "crap shoot" with unknown odds and some dangers.
But our man is going to Bangkok!
And in Bangkok he has unlimited opportunities to "engage" with Thai women who are a bit older, a lot more experienced, and who will be eager to help him get past virgin status.
I suggest he go to a large brothel.
(Often called a "soapie", but there are many styles of brothels in Bankgok and "soapie" is just one style.)
At the brothel he will be in a safe place.
No worry about scams, drugs, or theft.
The girls/women will be clean of any disease, and they will know what to do.
Yes, he will be expected to pay for this level of service.
Best to go mid-day when his arrival will be most appreciated, rather than after dark when there will be lots of customers.
Yes, he will be invited to order a drink - for himself and for the lady.
I've never had a problem ordering, "I'll have a Pepsi."
Further, I suggest, he explain to the "Papa-san" (the manager who will great him) that he is a virgin.
The Papa-san is almost sure be kind and helpful in the manner of an older brother.
Ask Papa-san to select a "teacher" from among the girls available.
The "teacher" will be a senior girl in the brothel, with enough experience that the newer girls go to her for training and advice.
It is a position of respect in any brothel.
This teacher won't be young, likely age 30-40, but she will be kind and patient.
And our young man must be prepared to tip the teacher generously.
It would be a very good beginning for a 20-year-old man.
Quote: (09-12-2017 02:43 PM)Travelalone Wrote:.
I will be going to Thailand for a month ... so I signed up on Thaifriendly about two weeks ago ... I'm also a 20 year old virgin and I now feel like I need to do something about that ...