I will be the first to admit that I have boned many a man's wife/girlfriend. However, I don't bone friends'/acquaintances' girlfriends/wives. Aside from not wanting to hurt people that I consider friends, the biggest reason being that I don't want to destroy my own social circle. If you get a reputation of boning your boys' women, you can expect to get ostracized by other dudes pretty quick. You can bone your best friend's ex-wife the day after they get divorced and fewer people will hold that against you than fucking a friend's girlfriend behind his back. I don't know any man that wants to be friends with a dude that does that.
I also don't disrespect a guy's home when he invites me there. This is a personal quirk of mine. I have no problem going over to a chick's house while her hubby is away (although these days I avoid it for safety reasons), but if A MAN INVITES ME INTO HIS HOME then I treat the invitation, and his home with respect.
I mentioned the safety aspect. I have grown really leery of banging/getting blown by some dude's chick in areas that I don't have control. Not saying that I haven't done it (including fingering a chick really quickly in a public restaurant while she was away from the table that her husband and kids were at), but I have just grown leery of it.
Folks in this thread have mentioned that the beta type dudes aren't the type to actually fight you when confronted. What you have to remember is that a lot of betas don't know how to channel their anger. Whereas a non-beta guy can have different escalating levels of aggression (going from stare down, to loud voices, to chest bumping, to wrestling, to punching), a lot of betas don't know how to do that. As a result they appear to just take shit over and over. However SOMETIMES these guys explode, and when they do (since they aren't used to managing their own aggression) they may COMPLETELY OVERREACT.
I would just like to remind you that these guys who snap and kill their wives and her lovers are often betas who just can't take it any more. In the OP's story, had the guy walked down and caught them who knows what would have happened. Maybe he would have made some feeble attempt to fight (which probably would not have gone well since he was out of shape), or maybe he would have just snapped, picked up one of the wine bottles (remember they were in a wine cellar), smashed the OP over the head with it, and accidentally or intentially sliced the OP's jugular vein with the broken wine bottle. You are basically in a room full of potential deadly weapons, and shit can go real bad real quick.
I also don't disrespect a guy's home when he invites me there. This is a personal quirk of mine. I have no problem going over to a chick's house while her hubby is away (although these days I avoid it for safety reasons), but if A MAN INVITES ME INTO HIS HOME then I treat the invitation, and his home with respect.
I mentioned the safety aspect. I have grown really leery of banging/getting blown by some dude's chick in areas that I don't have control. Not saying that I haven't done it (including fingering a chick really quickly in a public restaurant while she was away from the table that her husband and kids were at), but I have just grown leery of it.
Folks in this thread have mentioned that the beta type dudes aren't the type to actually fight you when confronted. What you have to remember is that a lot of betas don't know how to channel their anger. Whereas a non-beta guy can have different escalating levels of aggression (going from stare down, to loud voices, to chest bumping, to wrestling, to punching), a lot of betas don't know how to do that. As a result they appear to just take shit over and over. However SOMETIMES these guys explode, and when they do (since they aren't used to managing their own aggression) they may COMPLETELY OVERREACT.
I would just like to remind you that these guys who snap and kill their wives and her lovers are often betas who just can't take it any more. In the OP's story, had the guy walked down and caught them who knows what would have happened. Maybe he would have made some feeble attempt to fight (which probably would not have gone well since he was out of shape), or maybe he would have just snapped, picked up one of the wine bottles (remember they were in a wine cellar), smashed the OP over the head with it, and accidentally or intentially sliced the OP's jugular vein with the broken wine bottle. You are basically in a room full of potential deadly weapons, and shit can go real bad real quick.
