[peterthephoenix]

Hey, I know this forum is mainly about banging chicks, but I was wondering if I could grab some 2cents relationship advice.

I've got a girlfriend of 5 months, that cooks, cleans, doesn't argue and fucks me once or twice a day. Should be great right?

But it's not. It's just not very exciting, I crave variety.

I'm looking for a girl to send me a dirty text, a raunchy picture, to take me on a surprise date, to write me a letter that pours her heart out, to buy lingerie and show it off in front of me in a striptease.

Should I expect more from her (would it be worth training this behaviour), is she just not that type of girl (she does have some masculine traits), Or should I be the type of man that inspires this behaviour?

Please advise.

[thegmanifesto]

This is case in point why it is preferable to have multiple girlfriends.

[peterthephoenix]

Haha yes G, in future that is definitely the set-up I'm looking at, but I need advice to the current dilemma

[thegmanifesto]

A wise man once said:

"You can't change girls, however you can always find another girl that will do the things your current girlfriend won't do."

I think you know the answer to this.

In fact, you said it above, "I crave variety."

Maybe some others have more experience with "molding girlfriends".

It's not my wheelhouse.

I find it easier to cast my lure out again in to The Great Blue Sea.

[username]

Get a second girlfriend. Be this smiley:

[ANACONDA]

to have a girlfriend/wife on your side is very essential to gaming...because then you dont feel needy.

[Tuthmosis]

(09-07-2011 12:06 AM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

I'm looking for a girl to send me a dirty text, a raunchy picture, to take me on a surprise date, to write me a letter that pours her heart out, to buy lingerie and show it off in front of me in a striptease.

Unfortunately, this type of girl rarely makes a good girlfriend. Add my vote to the camp who thinks you need a second girl to fulfill these other needs. You want it all in one woman, and that shit simply doesn't happen--except on Hanes underwear commercials.

[kimleebj]

(09-07-2011 12:06 AM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

I'm looking for a girl to send me a dirty text, a raunchy picture, to take me on a surprise date, to write me a letter that pours her heart out, to buy lingerie and show it off in front of me in a striptease.

This upsets me (coming out of my own relationship). Tell her what you want. Buy her the lingerie. Take some raunchy pictures of her. Be an alpha - tell her what you want and take it. She will like it.

[Basil Ransom]

(09-07-2011 10:16 AM)kimleebj Wrote:  

(09-07-2011 12:06 AM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

I'm looking for a girl to send me a dirty text, a raunchy picture, to take me on a surprise date, to write me a letter that pours her heart out, to buy lingerie and show it off in front of me in a striptease.

This upsets me (coming out of my own relationship). Tell her what you want. Buy her the lingerie. Take some raunchy pictures of her. Be an alpha - tell her what you want and take it. She will like it.

+1. Start trying freaky shit with her. Choke her during sex. Shove her against a wall. Randomly accost her and start tonguing her down. Try all variety of things, and see what she responds to. Maybe she can be 'unlocked,' and maybe she's just frigid.

Start saying things to her during sex. Actually, we need a thread on this. I know for a fact that if you're good at it, talking about sex in an articulate way (a la romance novels) is incredibly effective, even on girls who'd think they hate it. I wouldn't start doing it until you're making out and groping. Roissy has a post or two on this. And you can bet *no guy* has ever done that with her.

One time I had a real freak in bed, who got incredibly wet from me making up some POV fantasy. Got the lay, and she said she hadn't been *planning* on banging me that night - was a first date after I met her out one night and made out.