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07-17-2017, 12:07 AM
So I have continued day-gaming, but the amount of approaches is not enough since I do not live in an area that has an abundance of girls. So, I have decided to try out night-game. The problem is that I've been told that I have a weird vibe about me that isn't normal. I have been told that I have improved since then(a year ago), but I still cannot get to change that vibe about myself. I have tried to get people to pin point what about my vibe is weird, but no one of my close friends are able to tell me.
So, my question is, is there a road-map on how to achieve "the vibe". I just want to go down the right path on the correct vibe that attracts people, even if it takes time.
In addition, would anyone be willing to listen to conversation and be able to pinpoint what about the way I talk could be deferential when I talk with people, so I can fix it.
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07-17-2017, 12:08 AM
Confront childhood problems.
See a therapist. Vent. Get back in the game.
In my experience, and it was just little problems.
I saw a therapist. Quit smoking, put on tons of muscle. Found my life's work.
Day Game or Night Game. It's all game today baby.
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07-17-2017, 05:32 AM
Its probably just some sort of awkwardness. The solution is quantity of social interactions. Mystery got his start by being an entertainer on a cruise ship where he was forced to talk to strangers. Get a job taking surveys, sales, something like that where you get experience interacting with other people, not nec. women.
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07-17-2017, 10:57 AM
Drive for Lyft/Uber. You'll make money, your conversational skills will increase dramatically and and it will fix your "vibe" problem really fast. If you have a shitty vibe it will reflect on your rating and and you'll be able to more easily pinpoint it because you'll be more self concious.
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07-17-2017, 05:39 PM
Get someone to video some of your interactions. Seeing yourself on video can tell you a lot.
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07-17-2017, 05:50 PM
Did you take any of the advice given in your
other thread?
Did you attempt to diagnose your interactions that did not go well?
"Does PUA say that I just need to get to f-close base first here and some weird chemicals will be released in her brain to make her a better person?"
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07-22-2017, 06:06 PM
Get a part time job just for this. A job that requires people skills and has lots of females around. Fast fashion stores, juiceries, cool bars and restaurants etc
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07-23-2017, 06:53 PM
I like to think OP will come back, put work in and allow us to help him. However, I'm afraid he's like most newbies that come in, ask a question, find out that the answer requires too much courage and effort, and ignore it altogether. Disappoints me every time.
This OP also seems to have another thread where members gave him advice. Yet he appears to have skipped and wants short term quick solutions which don't exist.
Yet I always think - maybe I'm wrong this time.
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08-20-2017, 01:10 PM
Bump.
This is an amazing thread!
Want pussy? Fix Your Vibe!!!
How?
Read and implement the exercises discussed in this thread.
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08-31-2017, 10:19 PM
I can relate to the OP, my friends say I can be awkward in social situations. Driving for über/Lyft is something I was already considering for extra income and it never occurred to me it would help my "vibe".
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09-01-2017, 10:29 AM
Find what about your personality people like. Get off the internet,talk to more people, get out of your head and do more of what people like about you. Vibe fixed.
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09-01-2017, 10:40 AM
The having fun and not giving a fuck vibe is the best
Sometimes for some reason I switch to the cool tough guy vibe and my results decline a lot... however usually I combine the two and get more ass then a toilet seat
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