[Keiswet7]

I don't know what to say as my first message on online dating.

Before I messaged:

Hi,

I just saw your profile and just wanted to say you look stunning!

So tell me more about yourself?

Of course, I tried online dating a few times and no female messages me back(although they viewed me) even though I am attractive.

[Remington]

There are multiple threads for almost every online dating site. Use the search function, and ask your questions there.

[Baphomet]

(08-16-2017 08:01 AM)Keiswet7 Wrote:  

I don't know what to say as my first message on online dating.

Before I messaged:

Hi,

I just saw your profile and just wanted to say you look stunning!

So tell me more about yourself?

Of course, I tried online dating a few times and no female messages me back(although they viewed me) even though I am attractive.

NEVER mention their looks. This thread is for you:

thread-60608.html

[eradicator]

Read some of the threads for online dating, but remember that most of these girls are getting flooded with messages. You will need good photos and a well written profile will help as well.

[lonewolf1992]

(08-16-2017 08:01 AM)Keiswet7 Wrote:  

I don't know what to say as my first message on online dating.

Before I messaged:

Hi,

I just saw your profile and just wanted to say you look stunning!

So tell me more about yourself?

Of course, I tried online dating a few times and no female messages me back(although they viewed me) even though I am attractive.

Man, never tell a Pretty girl she is pretty, or hot girl she is hot unless you are already banging them or making out with them. This applies for both online and day/night game. Tease them, make a comment about their looks, the odds you get better results by making fun of them than complimenting their looks are higher.

Now, one great lesson the manosphere has taught me is that girls actually don't give a fuck about dating apps as much as men do. Reason being they already have plenty of options within their own social circles so they could care less about some good looking guy in a picture on her smartphone. 70% of girls are in it because of VALIDATION. That does not mean you cannot get some notches. I've done it.

Finally, as roosh v said, online game is basically approaching 100 profiles in order to get a few dates. I highly recommend creating some templates for you to put up with the endless grinding.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

If those are the opening sentences, then you need the very basics of Game and understanding of female nature. Even if we tell you some good openers, then you will fuck it up later.

Start learning.

[questor70]

(08-16-2017 02:38 PM)lonewolf1992 Wrote:  

70% of girls are in it because of VALIDATION.

The paradox of choice has turned them into chronic window-shoppers.

Last time I went through the meat-grinder I wound up investing a lot of time building rapport in the initial messaging/chat and a few times got telephone numbers and began texting only to never get her out on a first date.

I've had to seriously recalibrate how I rank prospects because of all this and be much more DGAF in the chat. If women aren't willing to put in effort then I won't chase them.

The funny thing is that I'm sure they all still expect guys to chat them up endlessly to move them down through the funnel but I simply don't have the patience for this anymore.

There are only X number of single women in any given radius. If you have some sort of dating interaction with them that trails off, that's it. You'll never evaluate that person again as a potential mate. Done. Finished. Forever. How many women ever really think about who they might be passing up by carrying on half-hearted conversations and letting them fizzle? It's their loss, not mine. If I was never a contender in the first place then she never should have swiped right and messaged me.