[TheDuncan]

So I jumped on POF (not a lot of good quality on there) and messaged this chick, sexy as all hell, I simply said "hey hows it going" which is lame as fuck but she responded with a "im from the Pittsburgh area", I know this might some dumb to you guys but I dont even know where to go with this, I mean this chick is a 21yo 9/10 easily for me, but since having a girlfriend I have stopped gaming chicks and just been busy with work etc, I have definetly lost my touch..

I used to be able to hold the convo, escalate to the number and boom meetup, but man I feel lost right now and im gonna be pissed if I pass this chick up..

[LINUX]

Don't overthink shit like this. Ask her to meet you at the park for a coffee and walk, if she says "no", move on. Men and women nowadays are way too ADHD to be carrying on conversations about hobbies and life, that boat sailed mid 2005.

[robreke]

(08-08-2017 09:49 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  

So I jumped on POF (not a lot of good quality on there) and messaged this chick, sexy as all hell, I simply said "hey hows it going" which is lame as fuck but she responded with a "im from the Pittsburgh area", I know this might some dumb to you guys but I dont even know where to go with this, I mean this chick is a 21yo 9/10 easily for me, but since having a girlfriend I have stopped gaming chicks and just been busy with work etc, I have definetly lost my touch..

I used to be able to hold the convo, escalate to the number and boom meetup, but man I feel lost right now and im gonna be pissed if I pass this chick up..

There's so much content on this site about running first dates, text game and in the manosphere in general, it isn't funny.

Start researching and put in some elbow grease to come up with ideas and a basic date plan for yourself.

Also, with the whole "I mean this chick is a 9/10 easily" and "sexy as hell" bit, you're already starting at a disadvantage mindset. Don't pedastalize or treat her any different than a 7 or it'll show and your results won't be good.