[Travel Museums]

LAX > NRT
LAX > BKK
LAX > PVG
etc.

+8 in big US cities are getting offered too much by countless rich men to be worth your time unless you're going to change your lifestyle.

From what you wrote I doubt you're the kind of guy who would change his lifestyle to bump up a point or two in facial looks when you're just plowing the vagina once anyway.

Concentrate on making money and visiting family while you're at home. Go abroad and receive thy WGF bump of 1-2 points in your own SMV. Arise sir fucks 8 a lot.

Combined with Asia's more traditional societies and feminity it's easier to meet 8-9s, schedule a date, go on trips together, etc. The women are FAR less annoying personality wise.

You do realize your lack of any social connection with these 8+ girls is the problem. You answered your own question. So it's a waste for you to try anything different.

Not everyone likes being wrapped up in the bullshit of social circles. I like traveling. The bullshit tethers of a social circle are like sandbags on your feet. I'm guessing you feel the same way.

You'll have to accept that your social network will exist mostly overseas. While at home you just do your own thing. But consider you had to do this anyway to get successful in life. So now why bother trying to piece together some bullshit middle class social life at 30? Skip it. Go abroad.

[BrickLake]

(08-06-2017 10:15 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Obviously, hot girls don't want to spend any time with you after one night because your personality sucks.

How about you quit bitching about how self-improvement is hard and drop a datasheet on how to become an Internet billionaire?

lol I'm open to the the possibility that i'm just a loser and my personality sucks.

But the funny thing is, I have no trouble keeping far more intelligent and sophisticated women around. Lawyers, girls with PhD's, hell I have thirsty FB messages in my inbox from one of the most successful female entrepreneurs in silicon valley. As long as they are below a 7 on an objective scale of female attractiveness.

But some 20 year old loser that lives in a 2 bedroom apartment with her parents and works in a tanning salon won't give me time of day because she has huge tits and 11k followers on instagram.

[Suits]

(08-06-2017 10:35 PM)BrickLake Wrote:  

(08-06-2017 10:15 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Obviously, hot girls don't want to spend any time with you after one night because your personality sucks.

How about you quit bitching about how self-improvement is hard and drop a datasheet on how to become an Internet billionaire?

lol I'm open to the the possibility that i'm just a loser and my personality sucks.

But the funny thing is, I have no trouble keeping far more intelligent and sophisticated women around. Lawyers, girls with PhD's, hell I have thirsty FB messages in my inbox from one of the most successful female entrepreneurs in silicon valley. As long as they are below a 7 on an objective scale of female attractiveness.

But some 20 year old loser that lives in a 2 bedroom apartment with her parents and works in a tanning salon won't give me time of day because she has huge tits and 11k followers on instagram.

But that 20 year old loser that lives in a 2 bedroom apartment is taking dick from someone.

The reality is that someone out there is more attractive than you and I doubt the difference is that they have more money than you.

Vapid women aren't going to be attracted to a "smart" guy. They are looking for something else.

What steps do you need to take to become that guy? Is it worth it?

I respect that fact that you are being honest about where you stand in the dating market. Most guys simply inflate the supposed quality of the women they are banging, call everyone else's girls 5's and call it a day.

[Vaun]

(08-06-2017 10:35 PM)BrickLake Wrote:  

(08-06-2017 10:15 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Obviously, hot girls don't want to spend any time with you after one night because your personality sucks.

How about you quit bitching about how self-improvement is hard and drop a datasheet on how to become an Internet billionaire?

lol I'm open to the the possibility that i'm just a loser and my personality sucks.

But the funny thing is, I have no trouble keeping far more intelligent and sophisticated women around. Lawyers, girls with PhD's, hell I have thirsty FB messages in my inbox from one of the most successful female entrepreneurs in silicon valley. As long as they are below a 7 on an objective scale of female attractiveness.

But some 20 year old loser that lives in a 2 bedroom apartment with her parents and works in a tanning salon won't give me time of day because she has huge tits and 11k followers on instagram.

It sounds like you have done everything up until this point in your life to easily attract the phd, ceo, the lawyer, etc. I should know, I married one. Its almost hardwired, to go for the 7/8, educated go getter. I'm easily impressed by that too and find myself always ending up with this type. You could automatically pursue this type of girl, because for whatever reason, society, upbringing, peer group, you deem these girls as the ultimate prize. I've personally tried to break this, but it always happens. Never dated a school teacher, an artist, a social worker, etc.

To go after the 20 year old with the big tits, its as if you need a different identity to fully commit. Subconsciously you may see yourself the perfect catch for the ambitious type, but for these girls you may have to become something different.

[Svoboda]

OP I thought about the times an 8 or above was interested in me. Every time it was because there was something unique or interesting (in her mind) about me and usually there was some kind of instant social proof.
OP, what's unique or interesting about you?

I also strongly advise you start working on social connections that allow you to penetrate groups of 8s and 9s, and will provide instant social proof.

One thing that I find peculiar is that you mentioned you have "very high level social skills" and "good game honed over years".
I think you should not conclude you have good game based on your succes with 7s and below. Based on your description (good looking, wealthy) these girls would/should be eager to be with you if you had little game (or even slightly negative game).

Essentially you're saying you're a male 8 (or even 9) that has good game based on your succes with 6s and 7s.

[puckerman]

You mention that you go to bars and clubs and meet women on Tinder. You've just shown the whole inadequacy of that. You are going where it's mostly one-night-stand material.

Volunteer for a cause you like. Find an activity that you will do for fun that just happens to have lots of women. Go to self-workshops and other stuff like that. You can find stuff like that all over the Bay Area.

That being said, you are in the Bay Area. There are lots of dudes there. There are also lots of "educated" and "enlightened" women--by that, I mean women who are into feminist bullshit. So, they aren't marriage material. Move if you can. Plus, most places are a whole lot cheaper to live as well. If you can live anywhere, why in the world would you live in the Bay Area?

[Travesty]

From what I've seen if you want the big tit tanning salon girl identity wise you have to be the ripped, tattoos, motorcycle, wakeboard with your own boat, party hard, owns a gigantic dog or a pitt bull, works as a bouncer somewhere, that or if it is more the preppy tanning girl then the pretty boy buff jock (with great skin and a tan of course).

Wit & charm don't really mean much. Cocky presense and preselection from other chicks does. And their style tastes are very specific. There is no "world" game with these chicks. They could care less. They are provincial in nature.

[Suits]

OP, could you compose a list of the things that you currently offer vapid 20 year old 8's and also a list of the things that you could (in theory) offer that same demographic?

It's one thing to have money and for her to know that you have it and that you are successful. It's another thing entirely to leverage that money into offering experiences that a vapid, self-centered 20-something 9 has no will-power to say no to.

Consider, for example, sailboat game.

If date one involves mention of your plans to take your boat up the Western US seaboard for a three day trip, you open the door to offering her joint participation in that experience. Just don't sound to desperate to have her accompany you. I can't imagine a vapid 20 year old spending three days on the water sailing from point A to point B, with just the two and not having sex.

It would be like watching Netflix together and not fucking.

[TooFineAPoint]

OP needs to get a part time job at Earls/Joeys as a bartender, or fold clothes at whatever shop hot 20 year olds like to work in (Bebe?? I'm getting too old for this shit).

[Suits]

(08-06-2017 11:45 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

From what I've seen if you want the big tit tanning salon girl identity wise you have to be the ripped, tattoos, motorcycle, wakeboard with your own boat, party hard, owns a gigantic dog or a pitt bull, works as a bouncer somewhere, that or if it is more the preppy tanning girl then the pretty boy buff jock (with great skin and a tan of course).

Wit & charm don't really mean much. Cocky presense and preselection from other chicks does. And their style tastes are very specific. There is no "world" game with these chicks. They could care less. They are provincial in nature.

Of course, never underestimate the attractiveness that comes with having a well-cultivated taste for good microbeers.

That type of game is chick-crack, especially in the hot, 20 year old demographic.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(08-06-2017 11:45 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

Wit & charm don't really mean much. Cocky presense and preselection from other chicks does. And their style tastes are very specific. There is no "world" game with these chicks. They could care less. They are provincial in nature.

I wish I could rep you again for this Trav. These are great points, and largely overlooked in most of the game discussion of today.

Most people just toss around the tired old 'lift more' and 'improve yourself' platitudes as a catch-all prescription for improving your odds with chicks. I'm not saying not to do these things, but in reality self improvement as is defined here, has far less of an impact on your results than dominance, pre-selection, and as you mentioned stylization. Chicks like guys with strong identities.

Most chicks I've banged matched a certain profile, at the time I banged them we had some kind of overlap in terms of interests and the way we saw ourselves. This was an early lesson for me as I learned to go for the chicks that I knew there wasn't such a large gap to bridge in this regard.

[birthday cat]

^ I think you could break up game into two phases and the "strong identity" is the second phase although women are not the primary motivator in that phase.

Phase 1 is where you do the self-improvement stuff to raise your value and then you work on your game so that you can get girls at the same value. Maybe you are a male 6 who bangs mostly 5s and through a long process your raise your self to a male 7 who bangs 7s. Phase 1 might take years but it's really just going after the low-hanging fruit for the explicit purpose of getting women who are more attractive.

Then shit gets hard. You are looking at 5x or 10x the effort to move from 7s to 8s as it took to move from 5s to 7s. You try to convince yourself that it's a worthy goal but your subconscious knows better. I think the original post of this thread is just a long description of this. He's looking at logical and tactical things that will take him to the next level but his subconscious brain is seeing a whole lot of change (which the subconscious brain hates) for a minimal reward.

I think Phase 2 is more about inner game. It's the "be yourself" game that people hate to hear about. They don't understand that "be yourself" game is about being yourself after you spent years changing yourself into the person who you really wanted to be and something about that triggers women's desire for confidence and security. There is a huge difference between faking confidence, abundance mentality, and the ability to walk away versus actually having these things. I've faked this stuff with a couple of girls who were higher value than me but it didn't last long. You might be able to fake it for a short time but you can't fake it for long. And if you are playing out of your league then your high value girl will likely be the one with psychological problems which means that she isn't truly a high value in the context of a relationship.

I think Phase 2 is all about the "strong identity" but you don't get there because of your desire for women. You get there because you have a burning desire to become a different man and getting higher value women is something that naturally happens after you go through that process. You might go through Phase 2 and decide you want to bang hotter girls but you might go through Phase 2 and decide you want a wife and kids. You may not know because you are focused on yourself and your mission. Women are a secondary concern.

Phase 1 is like upgrading but Phase 2 is changing. It's much more difficult and much more painful.

OP is a self-made millionaire and he gets all the 7s he can handle but if you read his posts you see that he is incongruent. He doesn't know what he wants. He doesn't have this strong identity. He talks about maintaining relationships but he meets girls at bars and through Tinder. He talks about night game but improving his physique seems to be the one thing that he hasn't done. I think he's already gone after all the low-hanging fruit. He's done all the upgrades. Now he has to decide if he wants to go through the painful process of changing.

This is a bit off-topic but I think this book that I've written is one reason that it is very natural for older men to be with younger women. A woman's peak value is during her peak physical state but a man's peak value is after he has gone through this process which takes a lot of time.

[Leonard D Neubache]

You should just buy one.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(08-06-2017 07:18 PM)wi30 Wrote:  

Even without having read through all your text - just by glancing through it - I'll second that.

Something is off with you.

Money and status without Game might result in such things as you describe, but even if you are butt-ugly you should be able to work out, slim down and learn Game.

Then 8+ girls should be possible - also irrelevant whether they are from poor favelas or Trustfund-babies? What world are you living on?

[Banna]

As I said in a previous thread I wouldn't obsess too much about 8s & 9s.

I'd rather have a few 7 - 7.5s that'll give me great sex, and treat me good while allowing me to stay true to myself than be fixated trying to angle my into the social circles, finances and often shallow and plastic facade of a life that comes with trying to get the odd 8+ or 9.

I'm seeing a girl currently I'd label a "7". Now there are hotter girls than her I see in the city.....but I can drive around in my beat up minivan to pick her up without any snide looks a 8 or 9 would surely give me. And she let's me fuck her raw seemingly unconcerned about me getting her pregnant or some std. She tells me fuck me how ever you feel like.

I'm not sure I'd get that sort of submissiveness from a "8" or "9" with all sorts of thirsty guys angling their way, offering them trips, luxurious shopping and top treatment at clubs.

Think of the looks of women like different sports cars.....

A "7" would be a Corvette

A "8" would be a Porche 911 Turbo

A 9/10 Would be a Ferrari or Lamborghini

A Corvette can drive just as fast as any of those cars. While it doesn't cost as much it still has a good enough visual appeal to keep one happy.

[Baronxrus]

(08-06-2017 06:52 PM)BrickLake Wrote:  

I believe I have reached a limit to the amount of success I can have with women.

Let me explain.

30 Year Old White Male
Above average looks
6 feet tall with above average physique
Self-made internet millionaire
Well educated
Live in a mansion near one of the top nightlife destinations in the United States.
Cool car, cool clothes, all that BS.
Good game honed over years of international travel, tons of cold approaching, lots of mistakes and lessons learned, and working in the EDM industry for a short period.

I have very high level social skills and I go out primarily alone. I almost always end up in an isolated conversation with the most attractive women in the venue and leave with her number. I am aggressive, self-aware, give zero fucks, and at the very least, never "creep" girls out.

I meet women primarily from rolling solo to bars and nightclubs, and tinder.

I can have any girl I want below a 7/10. They will chase me, text me, send friend requests, and always say yes. Attractive, intelligent, great girls that any man would be lucky to have. Marriageable girls. All I have to do is just say hello, be disinterested, and they try not to fuck it up for themselves. I am probably an idiot for not just settling down with one of the better ones, focusing on my career, and hanging up the hat.

But one thing irks me and pushes me to stay in the game.

For the life of me, I cannot get and keep a truly beautiful girl. There is a hard stop for me at 8 and above. It's almost like a law of physics. It doesn't matter if it's a dime piece from the Favela's of Medellin, or a some SoHo trust fund chick, if they're a true 8 and above (Maxim magazine level girls) they slip through my hands like water.

I flirt with these women, they are interested, I get their numbers all the time, I get "makeouts." Once in a blue moon I will actually end up pulling one of them home for a night, but I cannot keep them or get them to showup for a day 2.

7's and below: Average 20% flake/ghost rate for me.
8's and above: Average 95% flake/ghost rate.
Hard Math.
I'm not talking super models, I'm just talking about your average hottest girl in the club. Age range 18-25

Maybe once a year I'll actually pull one of these girls and have an incredible night where I feel we share a great experience. I have learned not to get my hopes up, because it will always end with a ghost. 8's and above are slippery, disinterested, aloof, elusive, and ruthless to anything less than a celebrity.

There is nothing different about these girls besides their physical appearance.

Here is what I believe is going on:

A. My over interest in sending extremely subtle vibes that are repelling these girls, despite that I am actively aware and make a strong effort to treat them no differently.

B.There is a true exponential value difference at play, while we perceive an 8 or 9 as being the same species, they are actually experiencing a value alpha of potentially 100-1000X average girls in terms of life experience and options, exacerbated by social media.

C.I have reached the limit of my success as a lonewolf, without an extremely strong social circle, primarily meeting women through cold approach.

I believe I have reached a point of diminishing returns in game. To get the women I want, I will need to focus exclusively on lifestyle setup. You need some sort of an angle.

Here are some angles:

You need to be where other guys can't be.

You need to have male model looks.

You need to be a professional athlete.

You need to be an industry insider at a top club where you look like the coolest and most important guy in the venue every night.

You need to be an instagram celebrity lavished with attention from competing women.

You need to be obscenely wealthy and have a lifestyle to match.

You need to have a world class local social situation with really cool well connected friends, some of them being minor celebrities.

You need to own a famous business that has hot young women as customers. Bar owner, popular clothing line, gym, juice shops, etc.

You need to be a celebrity, or at least be and inside man at exclusive parties. (Big fish in small pond, you can be a "local celebrity")

I think the days of the lone wolf playboy are over.
There are some guys who are just super naturals, like a young Arnold Schwarzenegger, that don't need any of that. But that's not me, and I doubt that's you.

To get these dimes who have 100X value, you need to be a 100X value man, and you can't just convince her of that on your own. You need social proof to tell her you are 100X.

What do you guys think?
(long time lurker, didn't post to brag. hoping to get feedback and opinions from likeminded guys)

some good ideas but honestly if you have 7 figure income you shouldn't be having any kind of problem pulling and keeping dimes something does not add up.

[Themin]

just go to Ukraine, pull the most beautiful girl you will find. Marry her. The End.

[bruce_almighty]

I totally feel you man. I'm in the same spot in life right now, but I ain't a millionaire.
I actually hate my corporate job. But all I got from 8's in my country were kisses at most, and mostly flakes.

I rank high among the guys in terms of looks, but it doesn't help me with the 8+ girls.

I do feel that there's some glass ceiling here and I can't pass beyond it whilst living the life I live now which is:
1) working long hours as an engineer
2) commuting
3) not having wide social circles with access to cool people and hot girls
4) just not being a cool enough person

That's why I'm taking a timeout from life to bang some Latinas and take it easy while thinking about my next steps.

[Off The Reservation]

(08-06-2017 06:52 PM)BrickLake Wrote:  

I believe I have reached a limit to the amount of success I can have with women.

Let me explain.

30 Year Old White Male
Above average looks
6 feet tall with above average physique
Self-made internet millionaire
Well educated
Live in a mansion near one of the top nightlife destinations in the United States.
Cool car, cool clothes, all that BS.
Good game honed over years of international travel, tons of cold approaching, lots of mistakes and lessons learned, and working in the EDM industry for a short period.

I have very high level social skills and I go out primarily alone. I almost always end up in an isolated conversation with the most attractive women in the venue and leave with her number. I am aggressive, self-aware, give zero fucks, and at the very least, never "creep" girls out.

I meet women primarily from rolling solo to bars and nightclubs, and tinder.

I can have any girl I want below a 7/10. They will chase me, text me, send friend requests, and always say yes. Attractive, intelligent, great girls that any man would be lucky to have. Marriageable girls. All I have to do is just say hello, be disinterested, and they try not to fuck it up for themselves. I am probably an idiot for not just settling down with one of the better ones, focusing on my career, and hanging up the hat.

But one thing irks me and pushes me to stay in the game.

For the life of me, I cannot get and keep a truly beautiful girl. There is a hard stop for me at 8 and above. It's almost like a law of physics. It doesn't matter if it's a dime piece from the Favela's of Medellin, or a some SoHo trust fund chick, if they're a true 8 and above (Maxim magazine level girls) they slip through my hands like water.

I flirt with these women, they are interested, I get their numbers all the time, I get "makeouts." Once in a blue moon I will actually end up pulling one of them home for a night, but I cannot keep them or get them to showup for a day 2.

7's and below: Average 20% flake/ghost rate for me.
8's and above: Average 95% flake/ghost rate.
Hard Math.
I'm not talking super models, I'm just talking about your average hottest girl in the club. Age range 18-25

Maybe once a year I'll actually pull one of these girls and have an incredible night where I feel we share a great experience. I have learned not to get my hopes up, because it will always end with a ghost. 8's and above are slippery, disinterested, aloof, elusive, and ruthless to anything less than a celebrity.

There is nothing different about these girls besides their physical appearance.

Here is what I believe is going on:

A. My over interest in sending extremely subtle vibes that are repelling these girls, despite that I am actively aware and make a strong effort to treat them no differently.

B.There is a true exponential value difference at play, while we perceive an 8 or 9 as being the same species, they are actually experiencing a value alpha of potentially 100-1000X average girls in terms of life experience and options, exacerbated by social media.

C.I have reached the limit of my success as a lonewolf, without an extremely strong social circle, primarily meeting women through cold approach.

I believe I have reached a point of diminishing returns in game. To get the women I want, I will need to focus exclusively on lifestyle setup. You need some sort of an angle.

Here are some angles:

You need to be where other guys can't be.

You need to have male model looks.

You need to be a professional athlete.

You need to be an industry insider at a top club where you look like the coolest and most important guy in the venue every night.

You need to be an instagram celebrity lavished with attention from competing women.

You need to be obscenely wealthy and have a lifestyle to match.

You need to have a world class local social situation with really cool well connected friends, some of them being minor celebrities.

You need to own a famous business that has hot young women as customers. Bar owner, popular clothing line, gym, juice shops, etc.

You need to be a celebrity, or at least be and inside man at exclusive parties. (Big fish in small pond, you can be a "local celebrity")

I think the days of the lone wolf playboy are over.
There are some guys who are just super naturals, like a young Arnold Schwarzenegger, that don't need any of that. But that's not me, and I doubt that's you.

To get these dimes who have 100X value, you need to be a 100X value man, and you can't just convince her of that on your own. You need social proof to tell her you are 100X.

What do you guys think?
(long time lurker, didn't post to brag. hoping to get feedback and opinions from likeminded guys)

(08-07-2017 04:19 AM)Baronxrus Wrote:  

(08-06-2017 06:52 PM)BrickLake Wrote:  

I believe I have reached a limit to the amount of success I can have with women.

Let me explain.

30 Year Old White Male
Above average looks
6 feet tall with above average physique
Self-made internet millionaire
Well educated
Live in a mansion near one of the top nightlife destinations in the United States.
Cool car, cool clothes, all that BS.
Good game honed over years of international travel, tons of cold approaching, lots of mistakes and lessons learned, and working in the EDM industry for a short period.

I have very high level social skills and I go out primarily alone. I almost always end up in an isolated conversation with the most attractive women in the venue and leave with her number. I am aggressive, self-aware, give zero fucks, and at the very least, never "creep" girls out.

I meet women primarily from rolling solo to bars and nightclubs, and tinder.

I can have any girl I want below a 7/10. They will chase me, text me, send friend requests, and always say yes. Attractive, intelligent, great girls that any man would be lucky to have. Marriageable girls. All I have to do is just say hello, be disinterested, and they try not to fuck it up for themselves. I am probably an idiot for not just settling down with one of the better ones, focusing on my career, and hanging up the hat.

But one thing irks me and pushes me to stay in the game.

For the life of me, I cannot get and keep a truly beautiful girl. There is a hard stop for me at 8 and above. It's almost like a law of physics. It doesn't matter if it's a dime piece from the Favela's of Medellin, or a some SoHo trust fund chick, if they're a true 8 and above (Maxim magazine level girls) they slip through my hands like water.

I flirt with these women, they are interested, I get their numbers all the time, I get "makeouts." Once in a blue moon I will actually end up pulling one of them home for a night, but I cannot keep them or get them to showup for a day 2.

7's and below: Average 20% flake/ghost rate for me.
8's and above: Average 95% flake/ghost rate.
Hard Math.
I'm not talking super models, I'm just talking about your average hottest girl in the club. Age range 18-25

Maybe once a year I'll actually pull one of these girls and have an incredible night where I feel we share a great experience. I have learned not to get my hopes up, because it will always end with a ghost. 8's and above are slippery, disinterested, aloof, elusive, and ruthless to anything less than a celebrity.

There is nothing different about these girls besides their physical appearance.

Here is what I believe is going on:

A. My over interest in sending extremely subtle vibes that are repelling these girls, despite that I am actively aware and make a strong effort to treat them no differently.

B.There is a true exponential value difference at play, while we perceive an 8 or 9 as being the same species, they are actually experiencing a value alpha of potentially 100-1000X average girls in terms of life experience and options, exacerbated by social media.

C.I have reached the limit of my success as a lonewolf, without an extremely strong social circle, primarily meeting women through cold approach.

I believe I have reached a point of diminishing returns in game. To get the women I want, I will need to focus exclusively on lifestyle setup. You need some sort of an angle.

Here are some angles:

You need to be where other guys can't be.

You need to have male model looks.

You need to be a professional athlete.

You need to be an industry insider at a top club where you look like the coolest and most important guy in the venue every night.

You need to be an instagram celebrity lavished with attention from competing women.

You need to be obscenely wealthy and have a lifestyle to match.

You need to have a world class local social situation with really cool well connected friends, some of them being minor celebrities.

You need to own a famous business that has hot young women as customers. Bar owner, popular clothing line, gym, juice shops, etc.

You need to be a celebrity, or at least be and inside man at exclusive parties. (Big fish in small pond, you can be a "local celebrity")

I think the days of the lone wolf playboy are over.
There are some guys who are just super naturals, like a young Arnold Schwarzenegger, that don't need any of that. But that's not me, and I doubt that's you.

To get these dimes who have 100X value, you need to be a 100X value man, and you can't just convince her of that on your own. You need social proof to tell her you are 100X.

What do you guys think?
(long time lurker, didn't post to brag. hoping to get feedback and opinions from likeminded guys)

some good ideas but honestly if you have 7 figure income you shouldn't be having any kind of problem pulling and keeping dimes something does not add up.

OP does not have a 7 figure income. OP has added the supposed value of his website plus other assets and declared himself a millionaire, as in a million or more net worth. Part of his exaggeration skills is to lead you to believe he is a baller. This is a separate skill from being a baller which, as it matures, involves leading people to believe they are not rich. There are very rich people here on this forum and I assure you they only accidentally leave hints of that fact, and never self declare themselves as ballers. OP has a little cash to throw around and become a club celeb due to the amount he has spent visibly, or is seen to have spent near the clubs. This house that the OP described as a mansion on one post and a pretty nice on another... If we are talking about a "mansion" near the clubs of Austin TX then any 400K shit box is a mansion, that's the way they build them. Again, we have been allured to think a certain image without substance by the use of rhetoric. The goal of such a thread is to say "look at me, woe is me, I am so rich and so happy and so bangable but why cant i break out of my plateau?" while looking down on the miserable plebs who just wish they could get laid once, and are reading up in a fury trying to imagine doing a single approach tomorrow. I have more respect for those plebs because in their honesty and humility lies the ability to improve.

If you have seen those annoying youtube ads that go on for 40 minutes if you forget to click skip, from some guy who rents a $20,000 a night mansion and says he wants to show you his pad, or goes in his garage and has a ferrari but if you know the cars is a ten year old 360 worth about 80K, and no one cares. (Not that any Ferrari isnt nice - it just isnt showing a lot of wealth in this case.) Tai something or another. Comes to mind here.

OP if I am wrong let me know.

So maybe just maybe the scale is exaggerated as well. The master of sevens is a master of 4, 5, 6s, and so on. And "they" are the ones that don't stick around. The resume romances are girls that approach but don't know him yet. And the elusive 8s and 9s, you know, those run of the mill maxim girls, well they couldn't care less about his facades and their bullshit meters are going off the charts, and sadly for op, they move on before it ever gets started.

Sorry to say the bullet point list there m8 is 90% self-misdirection. Which is fine, because just like fight club, the first rule of banging 9s is...

[Vicious]

Does paying the cashier at the local minimart count as an interaction? When I bumped into that girl at the parking lot and said "excuse me" is that an interaction notch?

I've never thought about these things but now I realize I need to raise my IPD (interactions per day). Someone needs to bust put a data sheet on this!

[WilliamDoor]

Rich guy like this is prime juicy meat for whores.

I know a girl. Not a buddy but we talk. A whore. Goes to uni. Tells me about her johns. Most are just guys, but some dumb boys. Told me about a guy who dont know how to jack off right and liked her to spank him. Then he left a shiny note on her whore site to say how good sex was when there was no sex.

Another john. Rich bitch, tried to get her to cut her other johns lined up but she said no, shes a pro. They walk around shopping, guy looks at a $$$$ bag and said "if you hung out only with me that would be yours". No class. Then again, that is the kind of boy a whore gets.

Point is, if your rich but dumb and cocky, all you get is whore. You earn it. Lose your cocky and get more good bitch.

[Noir]

So you basically want to fuck 8's+ on a regular basis?

[Vaun]

To the "I don't believe you" crowd; who really cares. Its a good case study to consider, regardless of if its real or not. The difference between this and the other fantastically ridiculous tall tale tellers of yore; its readable and hints of sincerity.

So lets take this and consider; even if you have a decent amount of money and looks, is it enough to get the hottest girls in your town?

[eradicator]

(08-07-2017 07:43 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

To the "I don't believe you" crowd; who really cares. Its a good case study to consider, regardless of if its real or not. The difference between this and the other fantastically ridiculous tall tale tellers of yore; its readable and hints of sincerity.

So lets take this and consider; even if you have a decent amount of money and looks, is it enough to get the hottest girls in your town?

You need to improve your game and logistics and approach like crazy.

As for "are my interactions with cashiers interactions", if you try to talk to them while they are ringing you up and you ask them out afterwards, then sure. that counts as an approach. If you are hoping that these women will recognize that you are super high value without you saying anything, and throw themselves at you, then you are basically as delusional as Elliot Rodgers.

[BelyyTigr]

(08-06-2017 06:52 PM)BrickLake Wrote:  

What do you guys think?
(long time lurker, didn't post to brag. hoping to get feedback and opinions from likeminded guys)

Well I don't tend to post much on the Game subforum. But anyway, I've some spare time today, so here's my views.

1)Is there REALLY a big difference for you between a 7 and 8?
Take a 6ft English model with long blonde hair and some level of "high profile" and money and cool circles. Lots of designer clothes and jewellery. She might have rather masculine features (as even supermodels sometimes have) and even weird ""latest catwalk look" type features. Lots of people will say "she's a 10".
Now picture a young 5'4 "pretty girl". In a boring job, or a shite job. And dresses low key. Say she's a recent immigrant from E Europe or Lat America. Say she looks "Russian" or "Eurasian" or "Latino" a mile off. Most people would say "she's a 7".
Well if she's pretty Russian looking, I'd prob take the so called 7 over the masculinised English 6 foot 10 every time. Why? Because those are the type I go for.

2)What are you looking for? To settle down? To achieve more in game? Do you really want your life to be a constant serious of notches, then "delete and repeat" ie pump and dump? I'm suspecting you're finding out what women you really like but can't seem to find them. I mean you're 30 and apparently had lots of success but not happy now.

3)What exactly are you offering? Lone wolf is fine if you are passing through. But lots of women want to see the fun, the sense of community ie social circle in a guy they are dating, if he's in his home town.

Say you are in Miami, well "rich" isn't "rich"! What do I mean? Well rich elsehwere is NORMAL in Miami, or atleast in the "party scene".

Haven't you ever met a bitch where you think "yeah she's just like me, I look forward to meeting her, not just drilling her"?
My guess is that they see you as "good at sports" - business, cold pick up etc. But they're not seeing the person behind that. Its great to give zero fucks. But if they really think you "don't give a fuck" that can go against you.

A male 8 will find it harder to get a female 8 than the other way round. Why? Because more things decide a guy's SMV.
My guess is you need to appear more rounded - social circle and stuff, hobbies. But also routing out women you are genuinely like. And finally, are you really "likeable" to them as opposed to just "cool". One of my friends sounds a lot like you. He was terrific doing cold pick up, had a very good job, impressive physique etc. Additionally (and I'm certainly not accusing you of this), the higher grade women would always describe him as "smarmy" and "fake/plastic". The mid level ones would tolerate that. In later years, I started to like him far less as a friend, as I began to see defects in his character that others (esp higher women) saw earlier on.

I think much of red pill culture misdescribes "being alpha". If you aren't liked or connected with someone, things can only go so far. UNLESS there is an unhealthy tradeoff.