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You both get drunk, have sex but in the morning she says no to sex! What do you do?
08-05-2017, 01:04 AM
When I pick up a girl, have some drinks and end up back at my place having sex, I always wake up for another round where I find most girls are up for more than one session!
Last night, where I picked up a solid 8, had sex with her but in the morning she flat out denies me! I notice this with girls that aren't really into me where I have to game her. She wouldn't even give me a hand job... I told her that it's time to go home, she cracks it and leaves. It's happened to me more than once but I'm interested to see what you guys would do?
I know some of you guys would kick her out once you finished but I'm a horny bastard so if she doesn't leave after the first session, I'm going to bang her all night!! If she's attractive or a good root, I like to keep her around for a potential FB!
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You both get drunk, have sex but in the morning she says no to sex! What do you do?
08-05-2017, 01:42 AM
The vibe you're giving off kills her attraction to you.
More sober gaming will allow you to calibrate better so this doesn't happen so often.
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08-05-2017, 01:55 AM
It's happened to me from time to time. I send them on their merry way and never call them again.
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08-05-2017, 10:31 AM
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You both get drunk, have sex but in the morning she says no to sex! What do you do?
08-05-2017, 10:33 AM
I hate having women stay over and so this isn't a situation I'd want to find myself in the first place. Morning sex is gross.
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08-05-2017, 11:03 AM
Other than the clear possibility that she regretted what happened, I'd say the fact that you expected it is what really turned her off. In cases where alcohol really influenced the night and she wakes up acting prickly at all, it's often a good idea to treat the morning after like a "second date" with a girl you haven't banged yet. Meaning you've got to build rapport and attraction all over again.
If things went well and she is actually attracted to you in a sober state of mind, this will obviously take a lot less time than the beforementioned scenario. But sometimes it is necessary to wind her back up a bit again and remind her why she gave up the puss in the first place.
You can complain about it and assert that you shouldn't have to work for it twice if you want. But the fact of the matter is that when you depend on booze to loosen women up (not judging here), these things will happen sometimes.
Hell, I can think of plenty times in my years of hard drinking when I woke up next to a woman below my usual standard, where all I wanted was to get the hell out of there with as little insult as possible. Last thing on my mind was having sex with her again. Given how much more particular women can be about who they fuck and when, I'd just accept that this sort of thing comes with the territory.
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08-05-2017, 11:05 AM
Quote: (08-05-2017 01:04 AM)easternwomenrule Wrote:
When I pick up a girl, have some drinks and end up back at my place having sex, I always wake up for another round where I find most girls are up for more than one session!
Last night, where I picked up a solid 8, had sex with her but in the morning she flat out denies me! I notice this with girls that aren't really into me where I have to game her. She wouldn't even give me a hand job... I told her that it's time to go home, she cracks it and leaves. It's happened to me more than once but I'm interested to see what you guys would do?
I know some of you guys would kick her out once you finished but I'm a horny bastard so if she doesn't leave after the first session, I'm going to bang her all night!! If she's attractive or a good root, I like to keep her around for a potential FB!
I always poke her with my junk in the morning. If she jumps on it great, if she does not. I call an UBER and politely tell them to leave quietly so they do not wake up my hamsters.
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08-05-2017, 11:47 AM
OP - you clearly pointed out what is going on. You banged her drunk. She sobered up.
First option is that she may actually regret it, she may not be into you without booze.
Second option is that she does not feel like it after a bender - that is also more likely with women than men even after light or moderate drinking.
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08-05-2017, 02:10 PM
Their moods are changeable. On the other hand, if it's lack of attraction after becoming sober, there's nothing you can do. Maybe she's someone's LTR, or she's going through a rough patch. At least you got the bang.
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