[Keiswet7]

My father said I only stay in the house because of money and I'll get emotionally distressed again. I'm 28 and an Indian guy.

I put the "egoistical father" thread of the other day.

He's just too worried, he thinks wrong of everything, when I was teenager he said marrying at 28 is too late and everyone marries at 25.

He also cannot have any empathy or compassion, yes I do get emotionally distressed once in a while, but I'm not putting him to shame or causing him pain in any way.

I just don't think he knows how to handle family conflicts, when I was a teenager whenever my sister used to argue, he would angrily say 2I want you married"!

He's also forgetting how he put me down in front of my other family members in the past.

And my sister called the police for no reason because I was leaving the house and I begged 10-15 times to put the phone down but she wouldn't listen, it was ruthless. She said she phoned because I was angry but she lied again, I was calm when trying to leave.

Also my sister lies every 2 weeks saying she's gone out and then says "I might as well stay over night because it late" but what she does is going clubbing, partying and thus lying.

What do you think of my father and sisters attitude? Especially my sisters.....

[Jetset]

I think you're all far too involved in each others' lives, and that the average age of first marriage for a man in England is 32.

You should really see a counselor to get some direction on this. It's very unhealthy that you're all living in this house fighting with each other and hiding things from each other at this age.

[Corollary]

Starting a new thread on a topic that's nearly the same as the thread you started yesterday? And you're Indian?

[bgbusiness]

(08-03-2017 02:03 PM)Keiswet7 Wrote:  

He's just too worried, he thinks wrong of everything, when I was teenager he said marrying at 28 is too late and everyone marries at 25.

That's what he THINKS. He probably fucked 1~3 girls in his life.
I have not seen any conservative Indian player, it's almost non-existent.
Don't sacrifice your happiness to make others happy including your dad or your family. He wants you to get married because it will make HIM HAPPY, not YOU. Are you living in United States? Then, just live your life, don't follow the social norms of India.

(08-03-2017 02:03 PM)Keiswet7 Wrote:  

He's also forgetting how he put me down in front of my other family members in the past.

Cut him off and move on. Cut all family members off. You think they will help you sometimes, but overall, you are the one responsible for your life. Live your life. Talk to them once a month just to check up on them.
You are almost turning 30, you should have a solid job, your own apartment and doing your own shit, not listening to others. Make your own choices based on your judgement, experience, and intuition. You know yourself better than others.

(08-03-2017 02:03 PM)Keiswet7 Wrote:  

And my sister called the police for no reason because I was leaving the house and I begged 10-15 times to put the phone down but she wouldn't listen, it was ruthless. She said she phoned because I was angry but she lied again, I was calm when trying to leave.

Conservative Indian women are the worst to game in my experience and I am Korean. There is a reason why they are called the biggest drama queens on the planet.
Avoid at all costs.

(08-03-2017 02:03 PM)Keiswet7 Wrote:  

Also my sister lies every 2 weeks saying she's gone out and then says "I might as well stay over night because it late" but what she does is going clubbing, partying and thus lying.

Same as above, avoid her.
That's her life. You can give advice, but she will not listen.
You do you.

[germanico]

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What do you think of my father and sisters attitude? Especially my sisters.....

I think YOU have a shit attitude.

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I'm 28 and an Indian guy

And yet, you still live off your fathers money in your father house.

You are absolutely right, your father and sister have a problem. Its you.

[RatInTheWoods]

Get a job, move out, and stop being a parasite on your father.

Problem solved.