[Kid Twist]

Haha, funny, that's the first time I've seen a CMB reference in a while. Wow, was that awful. I recall an ethnic girl I matched a couple years back who was one of the few that was a 7. She was a "professional" (in a prestigious field), early 30s. I was dating a lot of girls at the time, but this was one of the classic examples of why America is so often fail-city; this girl had a super traditional mom and I recall her telling me that she couldn't cook by asking me if I could! It was my first understanding of just how stupid this society is --- I mean really crystallizing it. I know several good looking girls who think they have value just because they're 7s, attractive wise. Yet they're 30+ and have no idea, or don't wanna believe they are actually fairly low value, all in all. How many more years is it gonna take for some women to tell these women that they are destined for catdom if not seriously trying to be good for a man by 28 at least???

[Simeon_Strangelight]

I remember telling a woman once that the best thing a highly intelligent woman could do is to have at least 2 sons, because the intelligence will be higher in her progeny and the male offspring will do much more out of it. Education in that respect is hardly necessary for a woman and frankly many high-IQ attractive 7-9 women rather choose a life of leisure, marriage to a high value man, even acting, stripping or other fields which give them an easy coast by their looks.

[General Stalin]

(10-31-2017 10:47 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Haha, funny, that's the first time I've seen a CMB reference in a while. Wow, was that awful. I recall an ethnic girl I matched a couple years back who was one of the few that was a 7. She was a "professional" (in a prestigious field), early 30s. I was dating a lot of girls at the time, but this was one of the classic examples of why America is so often fail-city; this girl had a super traditional mom and I recall her telling me that she couldn't cook by asking me if I could! It was my first understanding of just how stupid this society is --- I mean really crystallizing it. I know several good looking girls who think they have value just because they're 7s, attractive wise. Yet they're 30+ and have no idea, or don't wanna believe they are actually fairly low value, all in all. How many more years is it gonna take for some women to tell these women that they are destined for catdom if not seriously trying to be good for a man by 28 at least???

I recently talked to a couple different dudes who currently use it as their primary online dating tool and they do pretty decent with it.

[blacknwhitespade]

This launched in Chicago one year ago. Looked at the statistics of the first 2000 admissions - 56% live in just Lincoln Park/Near North/Lakeview neighborhoods. Sounds like a Trixie carousel.

[questor70]

Women are still on CMB but they aren't as responsive as they used to be. I think as word of mouth has spread for Bumble that it's killing CMB because both are the anti-Tinder as far as attracting women who say they want LTRs rather than hookups.

[MaceTyrell]

^So is Bumble less of a “hookup app” and more of a relationship one?

If so, sounds like it’s time to get my ass on it to pump and dump some snowflakes.

[questor70]

(11-03-2017 02:22 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  

^So is Bumble less of a “hookup app” and more of a relationship one?
If so, sounds like it’s time to get my ass on it to pump and dump some snowflakes.

What women say they're looking for on a dating app and what they actually wind up doing if they get tingles are two different things.



Hamster wheel's gonna spin. But I would not approach interaction on CMB/Bumble the same way as Tinder. Douchebag rules aside, everyone knows Tinder is for flirtation and innuendo. Women on CMB/Bumble expect icebreakers to be more down to earth and subdued. Your mileage may vary.

[MaceTyrell]

^Basically the Aubrey Graham approach to getting pussy.

That’s my bread and butter bro.

[redbeard]

I registered a few weeks ago when I saw this thread.

At the time, I was #6000 on the waiting list.

Somehow, I got pushed to the top of the list and as of today, "I'm in."

I don't know what happened to get me through, but it's either:

-I was messaging the concierge and she gave me the OK to skip ahead
-They let in thousands of people
-My pictures are super hot

So far the app has only showed me three girls. All of them are 24-28 and absolutely gorgeous career chicks. I have mutual friends with two of them so I know it's real.

I'll keep this updated if anything happens.

[N°6]

(11-03-2017 02:22 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  

^So is Bumble less of a “hookup app” and more of a relationship one?

If so, sounds like it’s time to get my ass on it to pump and dump some snowflakes.

At a local university, I saw young and attractive students carrying fabric Bumble carrier bags. They must have received them at the Freshers' Fair - seems Bumble is targeting women in real life as opposed by through marketing online.

[MaceTyrell]

The League game sounds like it’ll be similar to Seeking Arrangements game...

I’d hazard that this would be a wonderful app for men in the 33-40 range, the supposed “golden age” for RVFers.

[Genghis Khan]

I've been on "The League" for almost 10 months now.

Some observations:

* same crowd as Bumble and CMB - I've seen the girls on The League on the other 2 apps, however it seems like it's only the good-looking ones from Bumble/CMB that end up on The League.

* CMB is definitely dying/dead - I can't remember the last time I matched with a decent girl on CMB. Bumble isn't that far behind. The League is probably the best right now

* I got a total of 1 date on The League. My experience has been that the girls, while being at the top of the attractiveness scale for professional white-collar women, are too fucking busy to even bother meeting up.

All in all, I'm not impressed. The thing that cracks me up is that all 3 apps are founded by women - CMB wrecked themselves when they decided to go with 'woman's choice' where women only see the guys that have already liked them. I expect Bumble to pull a dumb stunt as well soon enough. The League probably has a year or two before it goes downhill severely. All of them are targetting the same crowd, and quite frankly I've noticed BOTH men and women in my social circles are getting burned out with dating apps. Not sure if any of them will be around in 5 years time.

@Mace, I wouldn't compare SA to The League. The League is more the snowflake 21-25year olds who believe they deserve the 0.1% top guy because their own careers are reasonably successful (a lot of them do work for legitimate Fortune 500 companies and startups). SA, on the other hand, appears to be women who need money because they're straight up broke. I've yet to meet a woman off SA that had a solid job.

@redbeard, I know the feeling. For every app I've been on, the beginning stages are always the best as the pond hasn't dried up yet. Give it a few months and my guess would be it'll start feeling like Bumble. Regardless, I wish you the best!

[questor70]

(11-05-2017 03:06 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

I've noticed BOTH men and women in my social circles are getting burned out with dating apps. Not sure if any of them will be around in 5 years time.

If that's the case, where do we go from here?

I mean, you have the same damn pool of men circling around the same damn pool of women in any metropolitan region all hopping from one app to the next thinking the results are somehow going to change. You can change the algorithms and the ground rules but in the end it's the same...damn...people. I've seen this too. The same faces popping up from from app to app, and I'm sure they roll their eyes when they see me as well. It's kind of sad.

BTW, I can also confirm what's being said about professional women seeming to have a desire to date but no time. Well, either they have no time or they just want to gather up a bunch of text-message orbiters as a backup-plan while they work their way down their top prospects.

[General Stalin]

You can call and app "anti-aircraft" or a "relationship app" all you want but people are having NSA sex on all of them.

I've banged girls forst date and never talked to them again from, tinder, and bumble. Doesn't matter.

There's dudes banging on match.com and shit which you have to pay for which is supposed to screen out casual daters. Doesn't matter.

[MaceTyrell]

No matter what the platform, or country - there are alpha widow-ers dominating.

Be That’s Alpha Widower 2018™

[N°6]

(11-05-2017 07:19 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

(11-05-2017 03:06 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

I've noticed BOTH men and women in my social circles are getting burned out with dating apps. Not sure if any of them will be around in 5 years time.

If that's the case, where do we go from here?

I have asked this question myself.

Day game: English women are cold and don't like "street sellers" or Mormon street missionaries.

Night game: I live in an English region with a surplus of men. This is even more pronounced in night game. Even if I became 100% good at Night Game to reduce the risk to 0, the cost and benefit of night game is still wanting in terms of wasted money and using alcohol to bring me in to contact with women who are only attractive because of the sex ratio.

Mainstream online dating (okcupid and POF) was hit hard by Tinder and the smartphone era. To be successful here, men are under the market pressure to accept 5s and women with bastards.

Tinder and Bumble are on the decline and women are even more passive than normal suggesting burn out.

Niche online dating tend to be cockfests with the exception of sites where the marketers hold out the promise of coin to young women. Seeking Arrangement is going to be the last positive online to offline experience that many men will have but the sex ratio here is closing. It was 11:1 women to men a couple of years ago, now the site is advertising to men a ratio of 4:1. A couple of older women on SA claim to have been receiving allowances over and beyond the average UK monthly salary so male thirst from the dry regions of online dating will soon destroy SA.

Which way next? I don't know but I think I will have to disengage from online dating soon by trying the quasi-online social network "Meet Up".

[Sourcecode]

I got accepted.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/im-elitis...a-bradford

This is the app mission statement.


I think this app will just end up being a high quality booty call app.

In my opinion. Men that are making a lot of money on average aren't gonna be interested in a six figure alpha female unless she's really attractive.

She quoted stats saying 70 percent of men expect the female to take the house wife role at some point.


The biggest thing though.. Career women don't have time to date.
So it's gonna be a bunch of hot smart chicks getting booty called on the regular.

Aka I have smashed a lot of lawyer chicks and business women and is all the same.. They need the D but don't wanna dedicate time past that.


I don't know high likely dudes will be to pay that price... And not get laid.
That type of dude that I assume has money and high education but is willing to take the back role for a alpha female.. Isn't gonna have game to get laid.

Pretty sure he will get fed up and stop paying after realizing its more of the same for him.



The opposite side.. The alpha business type dude.. Probably won't pay if he can do the same elsewhere.
I have no incentive to pay when I can pull on tinder..


The high CEO rate is interesting.. Inflated by three letters

Every other girl in D.C. is the founder of a non profit organization.. That has collected less money than girl Scouts in front of Walmart

More than likely though.. You'll just be finding chick with a bunch of student loan debt.

[MaceTyrell]

^I wish you good fortune in The League. Am sure you’re going to clean. up. on it.

[Hypno]

How much does it cost?

[Sourcecode]

Its free for the basic account.

But it seems they want 200 a year for membership.

... Ha

[MaceTyrell]

Talk about cash flows. This thing will be profitable way before IAC buys them out.

[blacknwhitespade]

After a 7 week wait, I got accepted into the Chicago League today. I'm in the northern suburbs, and it looks like there's at least some female users in the suburbs... Any particular tips/strategies to success with The League from those of you who have already accumulated some experience with this app??

[redbeard]

(11-05-2017 12:07 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

I registered a few weeks ago when I saw this thread.

At the time, I was #6000 on the waiting list.

Somehow, I got pushed to the top of the list and as of today, "I'm in."

I don't know what happened to get me through, but it's either:

-I was messaging the concierge and she gave me the OK to skip ahead
-They let in thousands of people
-My pictures are super hot

So far the app has only showed me three girls. All of them are 24-28 and absolutely gorgeous career chicks. I have mutual friends with two of them so I know it's real.

I'll keep this updated if anything happens.

I had a few decent leads but nothing materialized. After the first week it was all fatties and oldies.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(11-15-2017 01:32 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

Its free for the basic account.

But it seems they want 200 a year for membership.

... Ha

How are your experiences with this?

I think this Reddit comment is correct:

Quote:

Check out seekingarrangement.com it's roughly the same thing for men. Women are in control of doling out sex, so they can always be as selective as they want to be. In the opposite side, men are in control of doling out resources/commitment, so if you feel like you have a lot of that or would be in high demand, go to the site where you can pick to match with only 23-year-old hotties.

Treat it more like a dating site and less like a prostitution site, and if you have any money/looks, I guarantee you will have a very good time.

However, like many other people have pointed out, the women who use this app thinking they are going to score a LTR/marriage with one of these super-high SMV guys are just deluding themselves. The thing that men want only takes a few hours, the thing that women want takes a lifetime.

Sure - it's possible that you could get booty calls with this app, but if the women pay for it then they are in the intensive "looking-for-provider-husband" phase. I doubt that many young hotties exist there. Though for someone who has a strong r-selected/lover-only profile, then he may be a quick guilty pleasure for them. In contrast the good-looking Wallstreet guy with the 300-500k/job will be shit-tested to kingdom come and would have x-times the ease of scoring at seekingarrangement, so I see no real sense at looking at the app for women. But I guess there are always those moronic Blue Pill idiots who fall for all kind of spinster-traps.


Nevermind about the experience reports - lots of lawyercunts it seems - good for a lay, but Beta Bucks is having a world of pain ahead of him:

Quote:

One girl been stringing me along for three months for a date because she's constantly "busy," I only recently realized this and unmatched her. I'm going to hang out with another match in Puerto Rico this weekend, only because we'll both be there.

Admittedly, I'm not getting as much value out of The League as I thought, as I loathe dating other lawyers and that's like 95% of the women using the app.

https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comment...he_league/

Here a woman reports:

Quote:

In terms of results, for me it was 0. I guess it's the advertising or something, but apparently the kind of people I am attracted to just don't use this app. It's full of pasty white congressional aides that I wouldn't touch with a six-foot pole for physical and mental reasons both. At first I liked being able to see people's education/work history, but unfortunately the self-selecting userbase just weren't my people, and plus, the privacy aspect of randoms being able to see my education/work history kind of freaks me out.

After she typed in all her preferences she literally got ZERO MATCHES!

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-10-2018 05:02 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

(11-05-2017 12:07 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

I registered a few weeks ago when I saw this thread.

At the time, I was #6000 on the waiting list.

Somehow, I got pushed to the top of the list and as of today, "I'm in."

I don't know what happened to get me through, but it's either:

-I was messaging the concierge and she gave me the OK to skip ahead
-They let in thousands of people
-My pictures are super hot

So far the app has only showed me three girls. All of them are 24-28 and absolutely gorgeous career chicks. I have mutual friends with two of them so I know it's real.

I'll keep this updated if anything happens.

I had a few decent leads but nothing materialized. After the first week it was all fatties and oldies.

Seriously - if you want to get a woman who is highly interested in your material success, then why not go the SA-route and Game the girls over there? Some of them over there are about as innocent as the League Lawyercunts, but at least will fuck you fast and screw down the shit-test-meter.