First up, thanks a lot Gopnik, this is probably the best datasheet on St Pete on the forum. I wish I had seen it before my recent trip.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
There’s practically no fat girls at all and of all the cities that I’ve visited, SP ranks number 2 for quality along with Moscow and only slightly below #1 Minsk, where I don’t remember seeing any girls with blue hair, tattoos etc which unfortunately are surprisingly common in certain scenes of SP (keep in mind that some of these hipster looking girls are still very hot though. Think femen Ukraine vs your average American feminist).
Can't agree enough with this. Some of the 'alternative' girls I saw these last days were bloody stunners. Could just imagine how nice they would look if they had a bit longer hair and less piercings.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
A lot of members where saying that Moscow had slightly better talent, but honestly I just didn’t see it. I visited Moscow for a weekend during May and it seemed to me like it was on par with SP. I had read that SP had more hipster looking girls, but I also saw a fair share of them in Moscow.
I guess it's nice to get this confirmed. I was starting to doubt whether I made the right choice taking an exchange to SPb and not Moscow, but I think there's plenty of talent around in SPb to have a fun year.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
The hardest part about Russian girls IMO is their flakiness. While I had experienced similar things in Poland, I found many girls there to go from 100-0 pretty quickly and sometimes I could not explain their loss of interest.
I guess I didn't stay long enough to experience this. Did you find any workaround?
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
Many girls in SP love to wear these choker collars that Roosh wrote about some time ago.
Damn these things are such a turnon. Just makes me want to grab them by the collar and give them a choking orgasm.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
Online game & Pipelining:
Tinder works great in SP and if you have semi decent pictures you should be able to easily get dates from the app. When I arrived, I was surprised to see how even some cute looking girls would message first, and within a couple of hours I had dozens of matches and couldn’t keep up with all the conversations. These didn’t always translate to a date, but overall Tinder is VERY good here provided you speak Russian.
Yes, it's just far too much to handle. I saw some other people writing the same so here is my workaround: I paid for the tinder gold option, and do not swipe at all. Just wait for the likes to tick in to your yellow folder, do some filtering by removing all the ugly ones, and only keeping the 7+.
Then when you are ready to talk to them / arrange a date, just swipe right on one of the hot girls in there, you match instantly, and you start chatting.
The practical thing with this is that you are keeping your future matches warm by not matching with them, and you can regulate the influx. Also you keep the match recent by not letting them wait for an answer, which tends to happen if you have too many matches at once. If you start having too many acceptable girls in the folder, you can do some more filtering and weed out the 7s, only keeping the 8+'s.
Drawback with this method is that you can't ever swipe. The tinder algorithm makes the girls that have liked you come to the top of the stack, so you would have to swipe/match with pretty much all the ones you've been saving up before you can find some new faces.
Also, girls disappear from your folder after 3 or 4 weeks. I don't think their like is 'forgotten' by the app though, it has happened that I would match with a girl I recognised from the like folder even after she disappeared. But it does make it harder to find them again.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
Another method to meet girls is through VK (Russian facebook). It’s a rather interesting social network that kind of works like Spotify, youtube, FB, IG and tinder all in one. My first couple of bangs actually came from VK, when I was trying to find a better flat in one of the many accommodation groups for the city. I kind of found this method by accident, but I think it might be interesting to try it out.
Here’s how you can use VK to get leads:
1) Find a VK group with many people - at least a few thousand (e.g. a group where people look for accommodation, renting a flat in Moscow or wherever)
2) Leave a comment saying you will be in the city for some time and are looking for a place to rent (in some groups you need to pay a few roubles through paypal to leave a public message on their comment board)
3) If the group is big enough and your profile pictures are good, you should start getting many girls liking them and the occasional friend request
4) Open these girls like you would on Tinder or IG
It’s all about visibility and having many girls looking at your profile. Some of these groups have dozens of thousands of members.
Smart. I'm not sure if it's necessary though, my impression is that it's excessively easy to score dates with daygame and tinder. Was the quality there any better?
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
I found a good pub that wasn’t usually very busy and was just 2 minutes away from my flat. I would usually take girls there and after a couple of hours bounce back to my place for dinner or tea and go for the lay. When a girl mentioned that she didn’t drink, we’d go to a quiet café also in my neighbourhood and I’d take it a bit slowlier.
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When suggesting she comes over to your place, I think it might help to word it like this “Давай пойдём ко мне в гости” or “Ты хочешь пойти ко мне в гости?” Russians are very hospitable people and it’s even a bit rude to decline this sort of invitation. I think by phrasing it this way, it doesn’t quite seem like you’re just trying to bounce her back for sex.
I already commented this in the Russia thread, but it's absolutely brilliant. Was having trouble doing the bounce, but this makes it seem like a purely hospitable gesture.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
DG is still an area I need to work more on and I barely did a dozen approaches or so. Initially I did mostly indirect, asking for places to buy certain items and so on and after a while I tried direct openers.
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While I wouldn’t say it’s common there for guys to meet girls in the streets, the culture certainly respects men for being proactive and it discourages young girls from staying single.
Overall, I think it’s perfectly fine to be direct and Russians generally don’t like to beat around the bush anyways as they’re very no BS and surprisingly extroverted at times.
You are completely on point there. Indirect day game was getting me nowhere, and I lost 5-6 approaches to that. My Russian was probably not good enough to keep up the conversation, which may partly be the reason, but if even you speaking fluent Russian can't pull it off, I'll put that down on cultural differences.
My experience was completely different when hitting them directly. Keep it short and sweet, and no hesitation to compliment them. It seems complimenting only makes them open up, not decrease your comparative value like it would in the west. Some of my cold approaches even complimented me back, which would never, ever happen in the west I think.
You've followed my reports in the other thread so I won't repeat it here, but how would you compare DG and online game? Both seemed to work, and it seems that you focused on the latter, but I get the impression that there is a kind of glass ceiling in online game. The absolute hottest chicks may never make it to tinder, and when you decide to approach a girl IRL you have already factored in her real looks and are aiming for the stars. This may be more difficult in winter when they're all covered up though.
The drawback (from an admittedly very little pool of 1DG date and 3 tinder dates on my recent trip) with Daygame contra tinder, is that the girls may need more work. When they're on tinder, they've already decided that they want to meet guys, they probably are more used to dating, and possibly lead to a quicker bang. The one DG date I talked about in my last post told me she didn't do dates normally, so the climb might just be steeper.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
Some particularly good spots for day game are the Galeria mall near Ploshchad Vosstaniya and also the smaller streets surrounding nevsky where there’s less people and it’s easier to get a girl to stop.
I second that, Nevsky was a bit too busy to get them to stop up properly.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
I’d say the ideal age here for a man is around 28-30 years old and although I didn’t see a massive age difference in couples, I don’t think 35+ y.o guys should have problems with younger girls. I occasionally lied about my age when chatting up cougars and girls in their late 20s and found out I had better results saying I was a few years older.
And there I was, turning 30 this year and worrying that I might not be able to pull off the late teens-early 20s because of being too old. I guess I shouldn't have worried.
Quote: (07-12-2017 07:03 AM)Gopnik Wrote:
ONS and first date lays are rare but can still happen with 6s and the occasional 7.
I think you're right, I must have gotten pretty lucky with that Asian chick. Any methods you developed to increase your first-date bang rate?
How often would that trick inviting them to your place "в гости" work out? What kind of conversion rate would you get once they're at your pad, did you get a lot of LMR?
Generally Gopnik, thanks for your insights. As it seems you're the only poster having spent a longer period in Piter, I really appreciate it.
Would you be able to pull a few example bangs from your memory and share your method?
Can I also ask you, how many notches a month were you clocking in? Like you, I'll have a busy life when I'm there, but I was kind of hoping 10+ a month would be doable.