You wrote it in a professional manner unlike other guys who had to show their anger.
Some people want to go to places where they will get treated better. Who doesnt want to be treated like VIP?
Some people want to go to places where people might look down on them and even act hostile on them because there are opportunities.
(With my yellow face, look how they responded. If Asian guy say something that bothers them, this is what he will get. But i did enjoyed finding peoples real faces behind their PC behavior in real life.)
I guess im sort of in between. With my yellow face, i wont get treated as nicely as fellow white guy as you all know.
My parents want me to come back but its a lot more expensive to open a business (you can open a decent business with $100k here. That wont even conver Key money back home) and it will cost a lot more to get married there with asian chick.
So it's cheaper to do business and get married in U.S but people will treat you shttier.
Anyways thats the choice I made.
Everybody makes choices on their own but i dont understand the trend of talking shit of others (who are in U.S). I do know they are doing it to make them feel better though.
I tell white guys all the time though. I go to the bar with my unattractive yellow face (like pictures they posted) that sticks out of white crowds (Ive done many times i dont realize until i see the mirror on the wall) and talk to girls. Those girls look just like your cousins, have same accent and cultures. What makes it hard for you to talk to them?
Its like mexican guy watching white privileged kids whos giving up and complaining 'hey look im mexcian, came here with nothing and working hard. America is a good country with lots opportunities yada yada'
Maybe some kids will hear him but Im pretty sure,most of the time, he will just get ignored like 'go back home you fucking mexican, you dont know shit'
Thats the part of choice I made.
Quote: (07-03-2017 10:14 AM)Cobra Wrote:
Sebastian's posts indicate some kind of inferiority complex I can't put a finger on. I tried to understand and analyze it in the thread Suits cited.
That said I think it would be interesting to explore the context from which it originates.
The western market has gotten more and more superficial as the culture has gotten more liberal. So your accomplishments matter less than say your height, body and social skills at the outset. Also, this can throw a lot of guys in an inner game crisis. The West being as liberal as it is leaves cultural belonging behind for more individual identity. The funny thing is that without a good cultured upbringing individual identity is difficult. When that upbrininging doesn't exist, men turn to media and its degenerate showpieces to aspire to, essentially pumping out as betas. They don't feel any better, beat themselves up and hate themselves. You see this a lot with weak white guys that were raised with a huge lack or male guidance. It is evident this is the case because they buy into the white privilege bullshit and toxic masculinity crap. No one values them anymore. Women value more conservative stronger men instead who have their own opinions.
A strange thing happens when these beta men go overseas. Finally they realize their value because others value their culture. They feel alive and more open and masculine, a feeling their own country failed to provide them. In this process, I believe a few of them become stronger and exhibit alpha traits. Rather than having to fight their inner game for abundance mentality, they now enjoy an abundance reality. Women seek them out rather than the other way around.
Now, maybe these are "low quality" women but for guys that never had such attention, it may not seem that way. On top or that, while relatively unattractive compared to their western counterparts, they care about their men and femininity a whole lot more. I say why shouldn't they take advantage of this? Because they're taking the easy way out? Not the case because they're sacrificing a lot of things for it including their own culture, quality of living and better career trajectory.
Grass is greener on the other side but that doesn't mean one is better than the other obviously.