Dark Lords & Saviors,
Okay. I made a post a month or two ago about "game @ workplace surrounded by hotties."
I am working the last month or two as a bus boy @ a sports bar, please no "don't shit where you eat" nonsense replies here.
I like a waitress, and I feel as though I have the upper hand wherein all I have to do is bust a fucking move of some sorts to nab her.
I am considered to be "cute" by several of the girls there. I am fully aware of that, they've said it. I have been the "right" kind of asshole with the girls, teasing them, being pretty cocky (while also kind hearted to them). I have followed Roissy's general mold.
I've rejected several of the girls who were obviously interested (disqualified). When they acted as though they didn't care, I disqualified myself, to which their coyness was short-circuited, they'd bluntly ask, "why?"
So, I had gone to work on the specific one since the beginning. I am at the point where she is obviously attracted, yet not interested in me personally (if that makes sense, no questions about me), but I've got raw sexual IOI's.
I really got her attention when I demanded she call me "Sir" in exchange for a favor. She got turned on an sexily said, "What!? No. I'm not going to say that" in a sexy female way. I am 30, she is 20. She has teased me relentlessly in kind by calling me "old man." I've been harsh with her. Roissy has always advised, "if you don't know what else to do, be an asshole." It certainly works. Basically, she thinks I outright dislike her. She's inquired about me several times, asking personal questions, like "do you have children" (to which I said, "no, but several girls have asked me to give them children"---which is true). Yet, I've been in a rut for a good long while (separate story).
A few days ago, she gave me several big female type of clues she's highly attracted to me. The girls there say I look just like the crazy guy in some retarded movie, "Split" (I resemble him). She happened to bring up she watched the movie for the first time, going on about how "he's (me) just like him." She gave me shit about "blocking her path." The night in which I demanded she call me "Sir" for a favor, she later shit tested me by refusing to get out of my way when I said "excuse me" to wash my hands. I bumped her out of my way. She told other ppl "I am so over this guy." The next day she acted like she was furious at me, when I said "hello", she seemingly angrily said "hi." She then said "I'm partially not fucking with you." She made a point not to look at me, orient her body away, etc. It was all a shit test though. I found a way out without emasculating myself, I walked her out to her car late at night. In a very sweet girly voice, she said "thank you, Sir." She absolutely glowed. It was obvious to me she was into me, at that point.
Back to a few days ago, about blocking her path, she tried pushing me with her body, then I pushed back, she made a point to press her body up against mine for a highly extended period of time (we weren't pushing after a few secs, just making contact for about 20 seconds). She lets me touch her whenever, for extended periods of time.
Fast forward to tonight; I've called her a "drama queen" relentlessly. Told her she's super high maintenance, high drama, etc. I asked her, "do I have to put you in your place again?" She replied, "you never put me in my place, I wish you would." I said, "I know."
Now, a few days ago she had seen me flirting with other girls. I could tell she was jealous. I had ignored her that night. She seemed to put herself around me, be really nervous and try to get my attention throughout the night. I finally approached her when I had an opportunity to talk one on one (rare, very rare). I blew myself out. She was obviously looking at me hungrily. Very strong eye contact. Her body language (she was sitting down), anxiously awaiting whatever I would say. Long story, I blew myself out and we put each other off of one another. We don't know how to show our mutual interest, at this point. That is my intuition, and I know it's true. We both are repeatedly showing disinterest for one another, but it's obviously actually interest.
I rarely have an opportunity to talk to her. It's almost always in front of other ppl. I need advice on how to change this dynamic. I've thought about just going direct with her, at this point, and tell her I think she's a beautiful person, but also disqualify her in minor ways and make it seem like she still doesn't make the cut for me.
She has a boyfriend, but she's obviously not satisfied with him. I can tell. She gets easily irritated over little things; I once cockily told her after bumping into her when she got an attitude, "a woman who gets easily irritated. I know what that really means." Her eyes got wide as in embarrassed, then for a few seconds she had that lustful, raw sexually hungry and happy look (as though someone saw it for what it was).
She's mentioned being on birth control. He wants to knock her up and have 2 children (sounds like he thinks it will be a fairy tale life). I can tell he has her on a huge pedestal and it disgusts her. She's said she "doesn't mind staying late (@ work." She seems not to want to go home, and she has an hour long commute. She prefers to stay out with the co-workers. Yet, I am not part of their social network. They go out to a bar a lot, and I haven't had a chance to make it there yet when she's there.
The night I blew myself out with her (without really having lost face, I am always super vigilant trying not to do anything low value or needy, but also feel like I limit myself doing so), I overheard her talking to another girl co-worker as they were leaving the bathroom. It was obvious they were talking about me. The girl she was with must have said, "he's (me) cute", because the girl I like said, "yeah, but he's always so mean to me."
Input, advice, something useful to escalate this into where I'm actually talking to this chick outside of work, please. If not, I will do my darnedest to find a way; something's gotta give, at this point. Any questions or anything, I'll be happy to answer. Thanks, guys.
Okay. I made a post a month or two ago about "game @ workplace surrounded by hotties."
I am working the last month or two as a bus boy @ a sports bar, please no "don't shit where you eat" nonsense replies here.
I like a waitress, and I feel as though I have the upper hand wherein all I have to do is bust a fucking move of some sorts to nab her.
I am considered to be "cute" by several of the girls there. I am fully aware of that, they've said it. I have been the "right" kind of asshole with the girls, teasing them, being pretty cocky (while also kind hearted to them). I have followed Roissy's general mold.
I've rejected several of the girls who were obviously interested (disqualified). When they acted as though they didn't care, I disqualified myself, to which their coyness was short-circuited, they'd bluntly ask, "why?"
So, I had gone to work on the specific one since the beginning. I am at the point where she is obviously attracted, yet not interested in me personally (if that makes sense, no questions about me), but I've got raw sexual IOI's.
I really got her attention when I demanded she call me "Sir" in exchange for a favor. She got turned on an sexily said, "What!? No. I'm not going to say that" in a sexy female way. I am 30, she is 20. She has teased me relentlessly in kind by calling me "old man." I've been harsh with her. Roissy has always advised, "if you don't know what else to do, be an asshole." It certainly works. Basically, she thinks I outright dislike her. She's inquired about me several times, asking personal questions, like "do you have children" (to which I said, "no, but several girls have asked me to give them children"---which is true). Yet, I've been in a rut for a good long while (separate story).
A few days ago, she gave me several big female type of clues she's highly attracted to me. The girls there say I look just like the crazy guy in some retarded movie, "Split" (I resemble him). She happened to bring up she watched the movie for the first time, going on about how "he's (me) just like him." She gave me shit about "blocking her path." The night in which I demanded she call me "Sir" for a favor, she later shit tested me by refusing to get out of my way when I said "excuse me" to wash my hands. I bumped her out of my way. She told other ppl "I am so over this guy." The next day she acted like she was furious at me, when I said "hello", she seemingly angrily said "hi." She then said "I'm partially not fucking with you." She made a point not to look at me, orient her body away, etc. It was all a shit test though. I found a way out without emasculating myself, I walked her out to her car late at night. In a very sweet girly voice, she said "thank you, Sir." She absolutely glowed. It was obvious to me she was into me, at that point.
Back to a few days ago, about blocking her path, she tried pushing me with her body, then I pushed back, she made a point to press her body up against mine for a highly extended period of time (we weren't pushing after a few secs, just making contact for about 20 seconds). She lets me touch her whenever, for extended periods of time.
Fast forward to tonight; I've called her a "drama queen" relentlessly. Told her she's super high maintenance, high drama, etc. I asked her, "do I have to put you in your place again?" She replied, "you never put me in my place, I wish you would." I said, "I know."
Now, a few days ago she had seen me flirting with other girls. I could tell she was jealous. I had ignored her that night. She seemed to put herself around me, be really nervous and try to get my attention throughout the night. I finally approached her when I had an opportunity to talk one on one (rare, very rare). I blew myself out. She was obviously looking at me hungrily. Very strong eye contact. Her body language (she was sitting down), anxiously awaiting whatever I would say. Long story, I blew myself out and we put each other off of one another. We don't know how to show our mutual interest, at this point. That is my intuition, and I know it's true. We both are repeatedly showing disinterest for one another, but it's obviously actually interest.
I rarely have an opportunity to talk to her. It's almost always in front of other ppl. I need advice on how to change this dynamic. I've thought about just going direct with her, at this point, and tell her I think she's a beautiful person, but also disqualify her in minor ways and make it seem like she still doesn't make the cut for me.
She has a boyfriend, but she's obviously not satisfied with him. I can tell. She gets easily irritated over little things; I once cockily told her after bumping into her when she got an attitude, "a woman who gets easily irritated. I know what that really means." Her eyes got wide as in embarrassed, then for a few seconds she had that lustful, raw sexually hungry and happy look (as though someone saw it for what it was).
She's mentioned being on birth control. He wants to knock her up and have 2 children (sounds like he thinks it will be a fairy tale life). I can tell he has her on a huge pedestal and it disgusts her. She's said she "doesn't mind staying late (@ work." She seems not to want to go home, and she has an hour long commute. She prefers to stay out with the co-workers. Yet, I am not part of their social network. They go out to a bar a lot, and I haven't had a chance to make it there yet when she's there.
The night I blew myself out with her (without really having lost face, I am always super vigilant trying not to do anything low value or needy, but also feel like I limit myself doing so), I overheard her talking to another girl co-worker as they were leaving the bathroom. It was obvious they were talking about me. The girl she was with must have said, "he's (me) cute", because the girl I like said, "yeah, but he's always so mean to me."
Input, advice, something useful to escalate this into where I'm actually talking to this chick outside of work, please. If not, I will do my darnedest to find a way; something's gotta give, at this point. Any questions or anything, I'll be happy to answer. Thanks, guys.
