As you get feel more confident as you experience increasing success from game, you'll notice a multiplier effect as girls take more notice of you. Why? Bodylanguage.
But you don't have to FEEL confident to have good body-language. Simply being self-aware will allow you to stand in a way that tells girls you're alpha.
For instance: drinks. Don't hold your drink in front of your chest, your elbow bent. You come across as fearful, nervous and vulnerale. Let your arm drop, and hold your drink below your hip. Your open stance signals you're not worried and you master social venues.
Stance: legs apart at shoulder width. Take up space.
On a date, make sure you take the couch seat. Lean back, rest your calf/ankle on your knee, or just spread your legs while leaning back, putting your arms up on the couch. Slouching isn't necessary, but that's WAY better then leaning in over the table. As you do this, you'll notice she leans into you.
Then there's the infamous not facing girls when talking to them. Talk to them over your shoulder instead.
I know you players out there got other good ideas. What else?
But you don't have to FEEL confident to have good body-language. Simply being self-aware will allow you to stand in a way that tells girls you're alpha.
For instance: drinks. Don't hold your drink in front of your chest, your elbow bent. You come across as fearful, nervous and vulnerale. Let your arm drop, and hold your drink below your hip. Your open stance signals you're not worried and you master social venues.
Stance: legs apart at shoulder width. Take up space.
On a date, make sure you take the couch seat. Lean back, rest your calf/ankle on your knee, or just spread your legs while leaning back, putting your arms up on the couch. Slouching isn't necessary, but that's WAY better then leaning in over the table. As you do this, you'll notice she leans into you.
Then there's the infamous not facing girls when talking to them. Talk to them over your shoulder instead.
I know you players out there got other good ideas. What else?
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