Quote: (06-02-2017 09:10 PM)jose123 Wrote:
So, I approach a girl after class and I open and continue a conversation, but she doesn't seem receptive at all through body language and the way she talks. I didn't want to continue the conversation, when she wasn't investing at the bare minimum of making eye contact. So I eject. I see her again, the next week, and we make eye contact, she gave me those bambi eyes, and seems much more receptive this time, but I didn't want to actually talk to her because I was butt hurt that she rejected me last time.
So my question is, should I have tried to game her again or just don't care and do nothing? I actually have this happen more times than not, so i would like to know what should I do in the future.
If it is all in my head, what are more ideal indicators that I should reapproach?
This will be a short example of what I'm going to put in the Private Lounge in the future, but I like helping new dudes out. I just can't help it.
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Yes it's all in your head.
Number 1: You weren't rejected. You got nervous and bounced.
#2: A LOT of girls are just as nervous and anxious as 80+ percent of guys. They can't hold eye contact, they get figgity, etc. I would say that the vast majority of people in the USA don't know how to talk to the opposite sex without freaking out.
#3: Always view yourself as a 10/10 identity. Everything else about you is a role. Money, job, looks, are all roles we play. Eliminate all of those and leave yourself with an identity. You're a 10/10 because there isn't anyone else out there like you and never will be ever again. Ponder that for a little bit.
#4: Assume everyone likes you and is friendly. Assumption goes a long way. Very powerful concept.
#5: If you like what a girl looks like, go talk to her and be fun. Let yourself shine through.
#6: Never put girls on pedestals. Like I said, you're a 10/10, these girls need to prove that they have something going on other than their looks. Hot girls know that everyone wants to fuck them. Let that shine through with eye contact, but continuously qualify to see if they have what you're looking for.
#7: No girl wants a guy that worships them. Hesitation, resistance, lack of confidence, wavering eye contact, all of these things point to the fact that you think she has higher value then you do. And she know's it's only because you want to fuck her.
