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06-23-2017, 05:26 PM
NBA great Wilt Chamberlain (3,000 notches) he was quoted as saying...now there was a PUA!
Peeps that share here it'd be nice to add additional information instead of giving generalized opinion.
Everybody is different....lots of age ranges...income. and country/cultures here....e.t.c
ALL girls are flakes?... or 20 somethings that I have recently approached are flakes.....not the hard up 30 yr old's
My goal is "quality women" and fun in my fifties....if I happen to enjoy one a year that's fine...I have zero interest in juggling girls anymore and too my knowledge my dick just plugs a hole but my mind appreciates the chick I'm with...I'm sure my dick didn't appreciate the trips down to the free clinic when I was in my 20's...but that was my player years.
When I was in my 20's I tried to help some of my friends get laid (no way they were ever going to be a PUA)..although I was an average looking dude I got action...but Alpha's as friends (not PUA) would just show up at a party get laid never appreciated (the chicks) or the "art of the game" or had any conversation skills...or even us as their friends!...NOW the AlPHA's in town that were 100% PUA's tended in my opinion to have few guy friends/ less girls as friends...so what's better to have... notches or good people around...I dunno every ones different
I may of been a PUA at one point but that's when.... I GOT SO GOOD AT SEX I DIDN'T NEED A PARTNER.
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06-23-2017, 07:10 PM
For fucks sake. Do what YOU want. Do what makes you HAPPY. If you meet a chick who's only quality is her body: fuck her. If you meet a chick who you get along with and the sex is great, get in a relationship. The entire premise of game is maximizing your happiness in whatever form.
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06-23-2017, 08:12 PM
Quote: (06-23-2017 08:28 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
You can take the "average" male and turn him into a cold-blooded killer in 6 months.
Pretending that everyone here is cut from some special magical cloth is nonsense. Any man can learn game given motivation and tutelage.
The average guy could not turn into an enforcer that easily. Now, in the event of a real life purge, it would become a necessity.
As for game, applying it correctly is not the same as learning it. Some can learn, some can't.
Anyone can give David DeAngelo's "cocky funny" routine a whirl if they'd like. That's correct.
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06-23-2017, 08:20 PM
Astro I wish it was that simple for the 100's of people researching threads how to work with what they have (height,weight,hair,color, ethnicity,culture,shyness,age...list is endless)
Some girls will just "fuck"......and some "you'll get along with and get into a relationship"
But how many girls will "fuck" just because I like her body (I don't control her) and as for "maximizing your happiness in whatever form" is the reason the debate is going on .
A lot of guys have trouble being a player.....maybe they are conflicted about doing it....maybe a little advice would make then be a player...People don't want to do things to be unhappy....they want to find out how to be HAPPY(er) if stuck
There's a lot of time that goes into being a player....maybe it can be shortened
There's a lot of cash required...maybe it can be made cheaper
Maybe a guy never thought he was player but was getting lots of sex
There's lots of religious peeps
Maybe a guy just needs a little confidence or strategy
..just a few examples on why people could find the thread interesting.....For me I'm trying to find something to replace low energy (middle-aged) because I wanna be a contender! (again)
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06-23-2017, 09:45 PM
Quote: (06-23-2017 05:16 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Hey man it happens, take it in stride, let it roll off your back and carry on !
Hell I've had a 7 girl topless on top of me, decide to get dress and leave because she had a slut epiphany of "I've been doing this way too much"
Just remember, it's ALWAYS their loss if they flake or leave you.
Thanks man. Yeah that's what I've conditioned myself to do, thanks to the forum and guys like you.
One question, I'd like your opinion on... If a girl flakes(meaning she's still considerate to text you to cancel), is it even worth replying back to her text? Do the gentleman thing and just reply "ok" and leave it at that? Or maybe text back something like "ok, your loss"?
I've been wondering what a good protocol would be in this scenario.
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06-23-2017, 10:30 PM
@JayD
Wilt Chamberlain fucked 3000 girls
forum peeps are to general on women things
Everybody is different on what they want
Not all girls are flakes
I like Quality chicks
blurb about what I thought about players
and what I thought was a funny ending (keeping it light)
What part are you having problems with?..seems simple
Have a great day!
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06-24-2017, 01:29 AM
Quote: (06-23-2017 08:12 PM)underboss Wrote:
Quote: (06-23-2017 08:28 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
You can take the "average" male and turn him into a cold-blooded killer in 6 months.
Pretending that everyone here is cut from some special magical cloth is nonsense. Any man can learn game given motivation and tutelage.
The average guy could not turn into an enforcer that easily. Now, in the event of a real life purge, it would become a necessity.
As for game, applying it correctly is not the same as learning it. Some can learn, some can't.
Anyone can give David DeAngelo's "cocky funny" routine a whirl if they'd like. That's correct.
It take 30 days to desensitize your brain to almost any stimulus, 90 days to create a new habit and make it part of your core self, reprogrammation take less than 6 months but that's what is needed to enforce a new personna onto yours, the only barrier is the EGO of the one who want to change.
Yes you can make an average dude a "fucking machine" in 180 days.
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It is not 3000 but 20 000 girls Wilt supposedly fucked
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral