Gents,
Just wanted to share something that just happened to me. And I would like to hear your feedback regarding my reaction to what happened.
Background:
I met this really cute 22 year old tinder girl about a month and a half ago. I have seen her 3 or 4 times. She does not drink, does not do drugs, etc... Good overall girl. Family oriented, religious background. A bit nerdy. She is smart and I can have a conversation with her.
She is great in bed. The 4 dates have been in my place. Fucking our brains out. She is a cutie and I start developing feelings to her (fuck me) She stayed 2 times already in ny place. We have only been out 1 time for breakfast.
Long story short, I was away on a business trip for about 10 days (no flags, ton of work and stress) I just returned today, tired as fuck but wanted to see her. I told her to meet up on thursday to not be seen as eager. She said she could not do it but she was willing to meet me today.
I told her I was going to cook something nice (beta) and that she should come over at 6pm.
She just finished school and has plenty of time on her hands. I skipped the gym to go grocery shopping and bought some nice stuff for the dinner (expectations).
It is 18:45 and no text, or nothing from her side. I started getting butthurt. She does live far away but easy to calculate how long it takes to get to my place.
I texted: "Your appointment with dr. love has been cancelled. Please call his secretary to reschedule"
She said: "hahaha" i am on my away.
I repplied with:
"If somebody is going to make an effort to cook a nice dinner. Please be on time. Off to the gym, see you"
"She replied with "hahaha" I am sorry, thought it will be like last time. No rush. (Last time she was a bit late but I was late to so it worked)
I deleted the message and now I am at the gym lifting and writing this.
To be honest I am a bit butthurt. Feeling better now at the gym and planning to meet my backup for dinner later. The truth is that I wanted to see her but I dont wait 1 hour for nobody anymore.
Was this the right move? Did I beta out planning something nice too soon? Should I have just waited 30 more min and fuck all night?
Next time maybe just pour myself a scotch and wait ready to spank that ass and tell her not to do that shit again?
Now what? Ghost out right?
Gracias por el input señores
Just wanted to share something that just happened to me. And I would like to hear your feedback regarding my reaction to what happened.
Background:
I met this really cute 22 year old tinder girl about a month and a half ago. I have seen her 3 or 4 times. She does not drink, does not do drugs, etc... Good overall girl. Family oriented, religious background. A bit nerdy. She is smart and I can have a conversation with her.
She is great in bed. The 4 dates have been in my place. Fucking our brains out. She is a cutie and I start developing feelings to her (fuck me) She stayed 2 times already in ny place. We have only been out 1 time for breakfast.
Long story short, I was away on a business trip for about 10 days (no flags, ton of work and stress) I just returned today, tired as fuck but wanted to see her. I told her to meet up on thursday to not be seen as eager. She said she could not do it but she was willing to meet me today.
I told her I was going to cook something nice (beta) and that she should come over at 6pm.
She just finished school and has plenty of time on her hands. I skipped the gym to go grocery shopping and bought some nice stuff for the dinner (expectations).
It is 18:45 and no text, or nothing from her side. I started getting butthurt. She does live far away but easy to calculate how long it takes to get to my place.
I texted: "Your appointment with dr. love has been cancelled. Please call his secretary to reschedule"
She said: "hahaha" i am on my away.
I repplied with:
"If somebody is going to make an effort to cook a nice dinner. Please be on time. Off to the gym, see you"
"She replied with "hahaha" I am sorry, thought it will be like last time. No rush. (Last time she was a bit late but I was late to so it worked)
I deleted the message and now I am at the gym lifting and writing this.
To be honest I am a bit butthurt. Feeling better now at the gym and planning to meet my backup for dinner later. The truth is that I wanted to see her but I dont wait 1 hour for nobody anymore.
Was this the right move? Did I beta out planning something nice too soon? Should I have just waited 30 more min and fuck all night?
Next time maybe just pour myself a scotch and wait ready to spank that ass and tell her not to do that shit again?
Now what? Ghost out right?
Gracias por el input señores
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