Last summer I was in a mini relationship with this chick I met on tinder. We we're going out for a few months while she interned in the city where I work. Things got pretty serious to the point where she said she loves me and wanted a relationship to which I said that I didn't want one due to her leaving in a few months.
After summer ended she left and we stayed in touch consistently for a few months. More I love yous, sexting, etc.. I was going through a rough time personally in my life that autumn and she helped me out a lot emotionally. I told her during this time that I was open to starting a relationship with her(I bet you can sense where this is going).
She said she didn't want to be in a relationship because of the distance between us and she started to become more distant in our contact too. It came to the point where she wouldn't even respond to my calls/texts just to see what she was up to. I was genuinely just curious because we had such a strong connection that I wanted to see how she was. She then eventually moved to my home city for work.
Anyway fast forward to this week. I come home to visit family a put a few snapchats up of me being home which she sees. She texts me saying that we should meet up sometime. I said that it would be cool and we arrange a date to meet which she then flakes on a few hours before it was supposed to happen.
I go silent and hit her up a few days later saying that I'll be close by where she lives if she wants to meet. She replies saying that she can't meet until mid week next week.
Now I know she doesn't want to meet up because she literally can't take an hour out of her day to come see me. And she's a young chick not CEO of a fortune 500 company so I know she's not that busy. My question is why would she even hit me up in the first place if she had no intention of meeting me or make me such a low priority?
I'm not even trying to bang I really just want to catch up with her. I'm not gona lie, I have feelings for her but I'm trying not to come off as needy but I would actually really like to see her. Any advice would be appreciated.
After summer ended she left and we stayed in touch consistently for a few months. More I love yous, sexting, etc.. I was going through a rough time personally in my life that autumn and she helped me out a lot emotionally. I told her during this time that I was open to starting a relationship with her(I bet you can sense where this is going).
She said she didn't want to be in a relationship because of the distance between us and she started to become more distant in our contact too. It came to the point where she wouldn't even respond to my calls/texts just to see what she was up to. I was genuinely just curious because we had such a strong connection that I wanted to see how she was. She then eventually moved to my home city for work.
Anyway fast forward to this week. I come home to visit family a put a few snapchats up of me being home which she sees. She texts me saying that we should meet up sometime. I said that it would be cool and we arrange a date to meet which she then flakes on a few hours before it was supposed to happen.
I go silent and hit her up a few days later saying that I'll be close by where she lives if she wants to meet. She replies saying that she can't meet until mid week next week.
Now I know she doesn't want to meet up because she literally can't take an hour out of her day to come see me. And she's a young chick not CEO of a fortune 500 company so I know she's not that busy. My question is why would she even hit me up in the first place if she had no intention of meeting me or make me such a low priority?
I'm not even trying to bang I really just want to catch up with her. I'm not gona lie, I have feelings for her but I'm trying not to come off as needy but I would actually really like to see her. Any advice would be appreciated.