[Suits]

I make them play "two truths, one lie" with me.

[sch]

(05-08-2017 10:46 PM)King of Monkeys Wrote:  

(05-08-2017 08:41 PM)sch Wrote:  

I don't interact with them on intellectual level, I interact with them on emotional level.

Emotionally almost every girl is way smarter than me, so I like the experience.

I don't quite understand this myself, and I want to know more. How do you engage someone on a more emotional level?

You don't ask her about politics or geometry, you tease her, and play with her, and qualify her, and show intent and so on.

It's quite simple, but you have to feel it, not understand it.

[thebassist]

Seems more like you need to read up on some of the old-school game literature my friend. Often when spending too much time reading all of this red-pill stuff it's easy to become way too serious about things, and forget a lot of the fundamentals of game. Remember: girls just want to have fun (especially young girls!). What I would suggest you practice implementing into your game is to create conversational situations whereby you can create some fake drama, make fun of the girl you're talking to, and generally get away from the realm of logical interaction into the emotional sphere. The great thing about this is that the statements that you make don't need to have any kind of logical connection, but only need to flow based on the underlying emotional subtext.

Some examples to illustrate:
-"You seem really cool but you're probably hiding some weird things from me, like, I'll bet you're probably the kind of girl who loves pineapple on pizza or something crazy like that". This is essentially a nonsensical cold-read, but it has potential fun-value in the sense that the divide between people who like/dislike hawaiian pizza is easy to exploit.

Then just go along with whatever answer ensues, and ensure that whatever you say keeps the fun vibe going. For example, if she replies (most likely enthusiastically) that she's not 'one of those people', build on it and emphasize this (nonsensical) connection that you guys now have and say "wow I'm so glad you said that" and then something like "it's kind of a deal-breaker for me, like, how am I supposed to trust someone who makes those kind of choices in their life", or "I swear I would have walked away if you'd said you were one of those pineapple pizza people, everyone knows they're a bunch of degenerates".

Again, the subject matter is of secondary importance, the priority is to create either a sense of connection between the two of you, or to create some fun tension (which your average guy never does). Push-pull is the phrase we're looking for. Note that I'm not suggesting to let what I'm telling you become 100% of your conversation, rather, I'm sensing that you're veering too far into the logical side of things. Ideally there is a balance between the two, since too much of this and you start to lack some masculine substance as well (e.g. clown game).

Another example: "You seem like you'd be a dog/cat person" (note again the cold-reading here). If she says cats, say "you know, we were getting along so well until you said that but now I'm not sure about you anymore, like, how am I supposed to trust you now". "Obviously dogs are just the superior creature, like if you were tied down in a chair in a burning building, would you rather have a dog there or a cat there: the dog would probably try to bite through the ropes or get someone's attention to come save you, but be honest, the cat would just say 'fuck it, i'm out dude'". If she gets offended you can always just say something along the lines of that you can respect cats for how they've tricked humans into just giving them their food and shelter for nothing in return, they don't even have to be nice to you".

So to summarize: an easy way to make your conversations more fun is to inject a combination of cold-reads and fake drama creation into your conversations: create more push-pull in your interactions. Most important of all, YOU need to be having fun in the interaction, else what is the point really?

[Leonard D Neubache]

I once sat through a particularly long episode of feminine blathering where I swore the girl had learned to breathe and talk at the same time.

During a merciful break when she started to eat I told her that she had a sultry voice. She of course asked what that meant and I told her it's a world similar to seductive. A lie of course but I was after the notch.

It had the unexpected effect of causing her to use her voice much more thoughtfully. I figure she mentally tied the act of speaking to engaging in low key sexual innuendo and so after my comment she carefully chose her words and spoke noticeably more slowly.

Unexpected but welcome.

[Chris Brown]

What if you just say fuck it and talk about what the hell you want? Now that is alpha.

[Geomann180]

Throw logic out the window.

Start a conversation off about how you went for a walk in the park nearby and discovered some delicious strawberries that she absolutely must try because they are the best in the world! Then all of a sudden a tornado and hurricane strike and now you're clinging to a raft for dear life (doesn't matter if you're hundreds of miles from tornado alley or the coast) but it was all worth it because you washed ashore on an island - the island you've been looking for all your life for the secret treasure...a golden...(and now she wants to know - a golden what?! Tell meee!).

G