There is a girl I met at work who has recently become a FWB.
We originally met at the beginning of the year. Since then we've flirted when seeing each other (occasionally) in the workspace, but nothing outside of that. This changed a little over a month ago.
Long story short - She invited me out to drink with another co-worker after hours and ended up coming back to my apartment with me after the other co-worker left. I should mention that she initiated all of this. When we got back to the apartment, we made out heavily on the bed and got to second base. She then excused herself out since it was getting late.
A follow up happened yet again two nights ago. She invited me out to drink with her alone. Yet again, she initiated and asked if we could go back to my apartment. This time we got all of the clothes off I fingered her/gave her oral. No reciprocation though from her other than some dick rubbing when we made out. Yet again, she excused herself out.
While this seems like decent progress, the kicker is that she has admitted that she had ONS's from a Vegas trip and another from a random guy on a night out. I don't care that she has ONS's. What does get me is that she has not gone all the way, even after we've known each other for a bit and on top of that she has been with me two times in a sexual context. She also puts up a bit of resistance when trying to escalate to the next bases as well.
What do I need to do to get the bang next time? Any advice?
Also thought I would mention:
-She has initiated the heavy make out sessions with me in public on our times out as well.
-She constantly likes to tell me how much other guys hate it when I talk to her or roll by at work. She brings this up quite a bit and gets off on it pretty well.
-Her being a co-worker is nothing to worry about. She is chill and relaxed. She knows I do not commit and references me being with other women, especially when she is in my apartment and we are hooking up.
Thanks in advance.
We originally met at the beginning of the year. Since then we've flirted when seeing each other (occasionally) in the workspace, but nothing outside of that. This changed a little over a month ago.
Long story short - She invited me out to drink with another co-worker after hours and ended up coming back to my apartment with me after the other co-worker left. I should mention that she initiated all of this. When we got back to the apartment, we made out heavily on the bed and got to second base. She then excused herself out since it was getting late.
A follow up happened yet again two nights ago. She invited me out to drink with her alone. Yet again, she initiated and asked if we could go back to my apartment. This time we got all of the clothes off I fingered her/gave her oral. No reciprocation though from her other than some dick rubbing when we made out. Yet again, she excused herself out.
While this seems like decent progress, the kicker is that she has admitted that she had ONS's from a Vegas trip and another from a random guy on a night out. I don't care that she has ONS's. What does get me is that she has not gone all the way, even after we've known each other for a bit and on top of that she has been with me two times in a sexual context. She also puts up a bit of resistance when trying to escalate to the next bases as well.
What do I need to do to get the bang next time? Any advice?
Also thought I would mention:
-She has initiated the heavy make out sessions with me in public on our times out as well.
-She constantly likes to tell me how much other guys hate it when I talk to her or roll by at work. She brings this up quite a bit and gets off on it pretty well.
-Her being a co-worker is nothing to worry about. She is chill and relaxed. She knows I do not commit and references me being with other women, especially when she is in my apartment and we are hooking up.
Thanks in advance.