New to this forum and game. Currently have a GF but also keen to meet with other chicks and bang without her finding out. Anyone have any advice or tips?
Meeting girls without GF finding out
There are several threads on the subject, this shows that you haven't read the forum but just jumped in and asked that. Basically just meet them somewhere else than your place.
Married and wife gone for the weekend
That post has some of the best advice I can recall on the subject.
That post has some of the best advice I can recall on the subject.
"Boy ya'll want power, God I hope you never get it." -Senator Graham
Yes.
Delete your social media accounts.
Get a google voice number. Better yet, a second phone.
Establish a fake name.
Meet them in person, not online.
Fuck them in a hotel.
Dude, the closer you are with your girl and her social circle, the more likely you are to get caught.
You have to play this from two angles. The first is preventing your girl from finding out what's going on.
The second is preventing your side whore from figuring out who your woman is. That's why you quit social media.
Delete your social media accounts.
Get a google voice number. Better yet, a second phone.
Establish a fake name.
Meet them in person, not online.
Fuck them in a hotel.
Dude, the closer you are with your girl and her social circle, the more likely you are to get caught.
You have to play this from two angles. The first is preventing your girl from finding out what's going on.
The second is preventing your side whore from figuring out who your woman is. That's why you quit social media.
Don't be exclusive would be my advice.
Failing that, what Steelex posted is solid.
Failing that, what Steelex posted is solid.
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Quote: (04-09-2017 10:48 AM)Steelex Wrote:
Yes.
Delete your social media accounts.
Get a google voice number. Better yet, a second phone.
Establish a fake name.
Meet them in person, not online.
Fuck them in a hotel.
Dude, the closer you are with your girl and her social circle, the more likely you are to get caught.
You have to play this from two angles. The first is preventing your girl from finding out what's going on.
The second is preventing your side whore from figuring out who your woman is. That's why you quit social media.
Damn going through all these steps for some extra Pus. I truly think setting up a Threesome with your Girl would be less of an hassle. You just need to slowly get her into it... and if you're here... then you most likely have the skills needed to make it happen.
Here are some suggestions:
1.) Create a track record of telling the truth.
Fans of Robert Greene's book, "The 48 Laws of Power" might recognize this one as being similar to Law 12 (Use Selective Honesty and Dishonesty to Disarm Your Victim). The idea is, essentially, create a track record for truth telling -- the longer, the better -- and she will be a whole hell of a lot less hip to your being up to no good once you decide to start stepping out.
2.) Don't change how you act around her.
One thing rookies do to get themselves pinched is by changing how they act around their girl after they've cheated. If you're normally kind of a dick, but all of the sudden show up with a dozen roses for your girlfriend (after you bang some other girl and feel guilty), it's going to be a red flag. Conversely, if you're normally a "nice guy" and all of the sudden start giving off the vibe you can "take her or leave her" the next time you two get into an argument, she'll likely suspect you've got someone else on the hook. Be whatever you normally are around her after you go slithering and she is less likely to catch on.
3.) Don't shit in your nest.
A.) Don't fuck girls you work with.
B.) Don't fuck girls your girlfriend knows in any way.
C.) Don't bring girls you're fucking to the same places you go with your girlfriend.
D.) Don't bring girls back to your place -- you never know when your girlfriend might "pop-in" or what evidence will be left behind (e.g. stray hairs, bobby pins, body glitter, bras/panties, etc.
4.) Throw away all evidence of your indiscretions
5.) Be EXTREMELY careful about using social media/technology
Social media is a double-edged sword -- it'll help you find side bitches to cheat with, but also makes it more likely you'll get caught. As Machiavelli once said, "One who deceives will always find those who allow themselves to be deceived," in other words, you can bullshit your way out of a lot if a girl likes you enough. The more believable your alibis, the better, though. If you can at least make your story somewhat plausible, her hamster will go to work defending you on the rest. The one thing you can't back out of is tangible proof -- like online dating accounts, text message records, etc. So if you're going to do something stupid, do it smart. Cover your ass as best you can.
6.) Wear a rubber.
If you're going to go around tapping other girls, at least have enough courtesy for your girl to wear a rubber. You may be a good liar, but it's going to be hard to bluff your way out of giving her chlamydia.
7.) Start calling all girls by the same pet names.
You won't have to worry about saying the wrong name if you call them all by the same generic "baby" or "darlin'."
8.) NEVER ADMIT GUILT.
If you're going to cheat on her, never tell on yourself. Keep that shit under lock and key the rest of your time together. It's selfish enough for you to cheat on your girl, but it's even more selfish in some ways to unload your shit on her just to clear your guilty conscience. If you can't handle keeping a secret, don't cheat in the first place. If she starts suspecting you're up to no good and calls you out on it, remember what I said earlier about keeping your bullshit stories plausible. It's important to note if a girl starts asking you too many specific questions, she likely already knows the answers to said questions and is "fishing" to see if you'll tell her the truth or a lie. As Denzel Washington taught us in "Training Day" -- It's not what you know, it's what you can prove. If she can't prove it, you have plausible deniability -- never admit guilt.
9.) Loose lips sink ships.
Tell no one about what you're doing, or severely limit the number of people you talk to about your indiscretions. Remember: Everybody tells somebody, and although the world may seem like a big place, it's often smaller than you think. Your confidant may tell his cousin, who tells her friend, who mentions something to a co-worker who just so happens to know your girlfriend. Stranger things have happened -- so better off keeping that shit to yourself, or posting it anonymously here so we can enjoy reading about it.
10.) Do unto others as they would do unto you, only do it first.
If one day you find out your girl cheated on you, you'll feel a whole lot better knowing you got one (or more) over on her first. It sounds petty, and probably is, but it'll help you not feel like a cuck.
A.) If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
B.) If your game is tight enough, almost any girl is up for grabs (regardless of their relationship status)
C.) Don't feel bad for stealing a girl from her boyfriend/husband. In all likelihood, if they were taking care of business -- you wouldn't be in business in the first place. Also, do you really think that guy would have any qualms with trying to steal your girlfriend if you weren't around? All's fair in love in war, right?
1.) Create a track record of telling the truth.
Fans of Robert Greene's book, "The 48 Laws of Power" might recognize this one as being similar to Law 12 (Use Selective Honesty and Dishonesty to Disarm Your Victim). The idea is, essentially, create a track record for truth telling -- the longer, the better -- and she will be a whole hell of a lot less hip to your being up to no good once you decide to start stepping out.
2.) Don't change how you act around her.
One thing rookies do to get themselves pinched is by changing how they act around their girl after they've cheated. If you're normally kind of a dick, but all of the sudden show up with a dozen roses for your girlfriend (after you bang some other girl and feel guilty), it's going to be a red flag. Conversely, if you're normally a "nice guy" and all of the sudden start giving off the vibe you can "take her or leave her" the next time you two get into an argument, she'll likely suspect you've got someone else on the hook. Be whatever you normally are around her after you go slithering and she is less likely to catch on.
3.) Don't shit in your nest.
A.) Don't fuck girls you work with.
B.) Don't fuck girls your girlfriend knows in any way.
C.) Don't bring girls you're fucking to the same places you go with your girlfriend.
D.) Don't bring girls back to your place -- you never know when your girlfriend might "pop-in" or what evidence will be left behind (e.g. stray hairs, bobby pins, body glitter, bras/panties, etc.
4.) Throw away all evidence of your indiscretions
Quote:Tech N9ne Wrote:
Listen closely 'cause this is sumthin you might not know
Never ever tell ya love where else you get your love
Move in groups no one on one when you hit the club
And you should know this if you call yourself a wicked thug
If you creep to the movies throw away your ticket stub
If you sexin' learn this lesson when you wash off
Just use hot water don't put no soap on your wash cloth
That way when you get home no questions you won't leave her bent
Don't be a dope and use the soap cause it will leave a scent
Don't tell a number two that she's your one and only
Cause if she know it's way easy to go her own way
If you taking chickens to your secret home hey
Always go the back way to confuse 'em just take the long way
5.) Be EXTREMELY careful about using social media/technology
Social media is a double-edged sword -- it'll help you find side bitches to cheat with, but also makes it more likely you'll get caught. As Machiavelli once said, "One who deceives will always find those who allow themselves to be deceived," in other words, you can bullshit your way out of a lot if a girl likes you enough. The more believable your alibis, the better, though. If you can at least make your story somewhat plausible, her hamster will go to work defending you on the rest. The one thing you can't back out of is tangible proof -- like online dating accounts, text message records, etc. So if you're going to do something stupid, do it smart. Cover your ass as best you can.
6.) Wear a rubber.
If you're going to go around tapping other girls, at least have enough courtesy for your girl to wear a rubber. You may be a good liar, but it's going to be hard to bluff your way out of giving her chlamydia.
7.) Start calling all girls by the same pet names.
You won't have to worry about saying the wrong name if you call them all by the same generic "baby" or "darlin'."
8.) NEVER ADMIT GUILT.
If you're going to cheat on her, never tell on yourself. Keep that shit under lock and key the rest of your time together. It's selfish enough for you to cheat on your girl, but it's even more selfish in some ways to unload your shit on her just to clear your guilty conscience. If you can't handle keeping a secret, don't cheat in the first place. If she starts suspecting you're up to no good and calls you out on it, remember what I said earlier about keeping your bullshit stories plausible. It's important to note if a girl starts asking you too many specific questions, she likely already knows the answers to said questions and is "fishing" to see if you'll tell her the truth or a lie. As Denzel Washington taught us in "Training Day" -- It's not what you know, it's what you can prove. If she can't prove it, you have plausible deniability -- never admit guilt.
9.) Loose lips sink ships.
Tell no one about what you're doing, or severely limit the number of people you talk to about your indiscretions. Remember: Everybody tells somebody, and although the world may seem like a big place, it's often smaller than you think. Your confidant may tell his cousin, who tells her friend, who mentions something to a co-worker who just so happens to know your girlfriend. Stranger things have happened -- so better off keeping that shit to yourself, or posting it anonymously here so we can enjoy reading about it.
10.) Do unto others as they would do unto you, only do it first.
If one day you find out your girl cheated on you, you'll feel a whole lot better knowing you got one (or more) over on her first. It sounds petty, and probably is, but it'll help you not feel like a cuck.
A.) If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
B.) If your game is tight enough, almost any girl is up for grabs (regardless of their relationship status)
C.) Don't feel bad for stealing a girl from her boyfriend/husband. In all likelihood, if they were taking care of business -- you wouldn't be in business in the first place. Also, do you really think that guy would have any qualms with trying to steal your girlfriend if you weren't around? All's fair in love in war, right?
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