[churros]

Girls have sometimes asked me to drop by their place of work, instead of giving the number.

I usually don't bite, because
1) she's not committing, which indicates a difficult lay.
2) the date is on her terms, in her comfort zone, with her colleagues; super awkward.
3) I can't bounce her from work.
4) big time investment.

But on the other hand
1) the girl might work a lot.
2) maybe she isn't a slut!

Now, maybe I am wrong about this. So I want to know whether you guys would meet a chick where she works, such as supermarket or café.

If the girl is hot, a possible strategy would be to swing by for half an hour, until she gets comfortable.

[kaotic]

Personally, nope, I'd never follow up on her offer.

If she isn't give you her number, she isn't interested period. (Non slut or not)

A woman will give you her number and text you back and forth if she's interested in you.


This is just like you asking a girl for her number and she gives you her insta/snap/twitter/facebook.

That shits lame and a polite way for her to say she isn't interested but you can be one of her orbiters on social media.

[PapayaTapper]

Nope. Attraction by definition is your "pulling" her into your orbit....not the other way around.

[General Stalin]

(03-31-2017 01:37 PM)churros Wrote:  

Girls have sometimes asked me to drop by their place of work, instead of giving the number.

I usually don't bite, because
1) she's not committing, which indicates a difficult lay.
2) the date is on her terms, in her comfort zone, with her colleagues; super awkward.
3) I can't bounce her from work.
4) big time investment.

But on the other hand
1) the girl might work a lot.
2) maybe she isn't a slut!

Now, maybe I am wrong about this. So I want to know whether you guys would meet a chick where she works, such as supermarket or café.

If the girl is hot, a possible strategy would be to swing by for half an hour, until she gets comfortable.

Girls only do this for a few reasons, and none of them are because they are sexually interested in you.

1.) They are bored at their place of work and like having visitors to satiate their need for attention.

2.) It makes them look popular to their coworkers and makes them feel important and well-liked.

3.) They work in a place where having customers benefits them financially.

I'm willing to bet most girls you meet that tell you to visit them at work are bartenders, servers, or work some other sort of service job where you will tip them or having dedicated customers benefits them in some way.

They are essentially asking you to be their John.

If she won't give you her number then she is not interested.

[jselysianeagle]

> If she won't give you her number then she is not interested.

end of thread.

[puckerman]

Ask her when her day ends. Then suggest that you both go out after work.

She may be reluctant to give out personal information.

[Steelex]

Out of hundreds of dates, I can tell you that none of them went well that were like this.

The whole set up is non conducive to gettin up in there.

[Turnus]

The only way I would potentially do this is if she is perhaps a bartender and it was a bar I actually wanted to drink at. Even that, is a little sketchy to me because now she just views you as another customer. As someone noted above, you need to be pulling her into your world. Not the other way around.

[Kona]

I'd go if she was a stripper or maybe a cocktail waitress/bartender, but that's about it.

Unless you get there right when she an getting off what the hell are you going to do?

These lovely ladies asking you to stop by their places of employment, where do they work?

Aloha!

[churros]

(03-31-2017 03:46 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  

> If she won't give you her number then she is not interested.

end of thread.

Attraction is not a light switch.

I'm thinking of circumstances where the girl legit seemed interested, but was hesitant to give her number out.

This girl did not have a smart phone, so instagram is not in question. She said she wanted to get to know me first.

Maybe bullshit, but maybe plausible. Because some girls, especially non-sluts, aren't quick to instadate. Nor do they give out their number after five minutes to daygamers...

And in some countries, they actually have to work – a lot.

The most recent example was a supermarket – she's hardly showing off there, right?

[Nater]

There is this black girl at work with me, huuuuge tits and a really firm ass- a 7 overall. Judging by her behavior, she wants my dick. I thought nothing of it during my first few days and was really focused on making a good impression but now is the moment for me to make a move or I will loose the bang. Today, she sat near me and started talking to one of my colleagues. When I engaged her she started touching my hand and put her hand on my lap all smiling.

I am not sure how to play it, it's kind of an open office and I am not really comfortable flirting with her in front of other people. How do you guys think I should play this?

[BackFromTheBrink]

Personally I don't shit where I eat anymore (based on a prior work based relationship turning sour) but if you're interested try to find some excuse to meet up after work. However, if you do meet I'd drop a few hints (nothing too heavy mind you) about how you like to keep your work and private separate.

Once you put the dick in their brains turn to mush ... so you need to lay down the ground rules from the outset.