[Gyro]

We all already know that being called a "brother " by a girl is terrible but what about reminding her of her dad?

I've had many girls recently tell me I remind them of their fathers, what's the consensus on this?

[Euphoria]

I wish it was me. I dont know how do you treat them in order to getting them saying these things to you... But it is golden.

[Brother Abdul Majeed]

Hopefully she didn't tell you that you reminded her of her dad after you banged her.

[XPQ22]

I've had girls call me "Daddy" before, but I would find being directly compared to any male family member for any reason a bit weird and off-putting, to say the least. Thankfully, I can't recall any girl I've ever been acquainted with that ever did that, even the dreaded "brother" analogy.

I know that a girl saying "You're like a brother to me!" would be an indication I'm spending way too much time around chicks I'm not banging.

Unless you're 15+ years older than them and they're trying to imply you're too old to ever consider as a romantic interest, I think it's a yellow flag at the very least. Proceed with caution.

Are you from outside the US? Maybe it's a cultural thing? The way a lot of fathers are around here these days it might be hard for me to take it as a compliment.

Tell 'em you think it's creepy and see what happens.

[GreyFFM]

it means she is thinking deeply about you. also, generally she is going to have strong emotional ties to family members, so that is a plus.

[XPQ22]

(10-17-2016 02:17 PM)GreyFFM Wrote:  

it means she is thinking deeply about you. also, generally she is going to have strong emotional ties to family members, so that is a plus.

Disregard the above if you're from North America.

[TornadoByProxy]

(10-17-2016 01:51 PM)Euphoria Wrote:  

I wish it was me. I dont know how do you treat them in order to getting them saying these things to you... But it is golden.

Agreed. A data sheet is in order.

[John_Galt]

It's common knowledge that women subconsciously seek out men who portray the role that their fathers had in their lives. Thus, subconsciously reminding them of their fathers is usually considered a positive.

But these women are consciously acknowledging and relaying this to you. I'm not sure if that's good or not.

I think Onto will likely have more in-depth knowledge on this topic.

[WestIndianArchie]

(10-17-2016 01:29 PM)Gyro Wrote:  

We all already know that being called a "brother " by a girl is terrible but what about reminding her of her dad?

I've had many girls recently tell me I remind them of their fathers, what's the consensus on this?

I think you're over-thinking this...hey but i'm an over-thinking as well.
What's more important is her mood than what she says. What she says and the timing and context tell you about her mood. And you win her over by changing her mood.

Generally, Papi and Daddy are good.

In my experience, "You're acting like my Dad", equals old fuddy duddy with all these rules and regulations.

You're trying to stop her from having fun. She wants to have fun. All this shit is about her.

Too many guys don't recognize that she doesn't give a fuck about you when she meets you. You're just another random guy. Shit isn't even real until you fuck her. And even then, it's fluid.

So if you're not leading her mentally, conversation wise, or physically to more fun/excitement/drama - then what's the point?

At the beginning of the chat
If she blurts that shit out the second you step up to her - she's not trying to chat, BUT you can flip that into something sexual.

Misinterpret her words in your favor - "I love girl's with daddy issues. Tell me that you have piercings that I can't see..."

Roll with it/Role Play - "God damned right, Daddy's home, and now it's time for you spanking. You've been out too long..."

Agree and Amplify and Suggest - "So Your father is devastatingly handsome, and you want to fuck him. *sounding unsure about her desire to fuck her father, but sure about you being a stud muffin* Uhh...I dunno if this is going to work out. My bible study group warned me about girls like you..."

There's like a million ways to play this.

If you're wearing a belt, it'd be a good time to take it off, loop it, and smack it on your hand. ^see the Daddy's going to give you a spanking thing above.

All of this shit is about novelty and going places she doesn't expect. Where she might not give a fuck about you when you step up, a lot of girls love to flirt and go back and forth.

And that's their downfall! You can get them going, steer them in a few directions, have them reacting to you - and suddenly you're cute, then sexy. Where as 4 minutes earlier, you were some dork wearing the H&M Sales Rack.

Middle of the chat
But if you're deep in the set, and she pulls that shit out - that means you're coming off as controlling or however her father acts/or how she thinks that parents act.

So trying to use misinterpretation, agree and amplify, other attraction/banter style techniques - means you're basically reacting to her. It comes off as weak. You're basically reacting to her, and she has "the frame", she has "hand"

Break rapport with her.
Stop rewarding her poor behavior at that point with your attention. (which is something you should always be doing. Your attention is what drives so much of the game. You giving it to her, her wanting it from you.)

So keep chatting, but
- Stare off.
- Turn your body away, if you did have it facing towards.
- Grab another chick while she's next to you, hit em with the razzle dazzle, and have your girl see the other girl fall under your spell.

Create the social vacuum between her. The gift of missing you, even though you're standing right there. By returning to "cool guy" and sparking shit AROUND HER but not WITH HER, basic social gravitation kicks in.

From there, it's back to a bit of keep away as you try to get her to seek rapport with you.

Yadda, Yadda, Yadda.

WIA

[Marmite]

"I'm definitely not your father, but you're more than welcome to call me daddy!"

[Sonoma]

I think people are reading into this too much.

It's certainly a compliment, and defines the authority in the relationship.

The only way she wouldn't go for it is if she's not physically attracted to you

[Akwesi]

Does she love her dad? Does she miss him because he is far away? Is her dad dead? Do you assume a position of authority in dealing with her, and treat her like a little girl? If so, this is great.

I have one girl who is less than half my age, and the other day I had to really give it to her about her phone obsession. Ended up just taking the phone away from her and explaining how fucked up her social media addiction really is. Soon after she admitted that her dad had done essentially the same thing a few days earlier. The sex was great that night. Many girls are looking for a man who is strong and naturally authoritative like her dad.

On the other hand, if somebody tells you "you fuck like a grandpa" it is not really a good thing. This happened to me recently. To be fair, I had banged 3 other girls in the previous 24+ hours and was feeling very low energy.

[seabridge]

This reminds me of a sick/disgusting but somewhat funny story when I was about to graduate high school.

Its Saturday, and me and my friend are downtown walking around during the day. This girl stares at us, and my friend decides to approach, he gets the number. Later at night, my friend and I are at some party getting drunk. This girl, maybe a 5, danish, living in Greenland, but visiting family in Denmark, is texting my friend, "I think i can handle two guys". Me and my friend, both drunk, agrees that it could be somewhat fun now that we are graduating. So this girl waits for us in front of my friends apartment for two hours, already drinking by herself. She emptied half a bottle of vodka by herself. No chasers.
At the apartment, she begins kissing me. I'm drunk and i take my pants off. To her surprise, I was wearing white boxers that day. She told me "Eeww, you're wearing white boxers, just like my dad always did, I don't wanna fuck you". I though fuck it, she wasn't hot, I pulled my pants on, but i stayed in the room, while my friend fucked her.
So this girl, maybe the weirdest i've ever encountered, starts talking while my friend is fucking her. "You're not as good as my fuckbody" and stuff like that.

Now the disgusting part. You remember the white boxers reminded her of her dad? WHILE riding my friend, she says to him "You are the first danish guy I fucked. Oh, besides my dad when I was a child". I didn't know if i should laugh or cry, but i was shocked. Left right away. I remember being happy that i didn't participate.

[blck]

That kind of daddy might be cool...