Hey fellow players,
Second time posting in the forum, but I've been following for a long time. I'm fairly new into game, 2 years. I've been seeing a girl recently that's been throwing my cool off. Last night we hung out at a bar/club and she started flirting with some dudes in front of me. We are not exclusive so I let it slide and started chatting up the chicks the dudes were with to be on an even playing field. As the night went on the flirting continued and eventually she wanted to change venues to where the group was going. We ended up at this shitty loud club and after being there for 20 minutes I told her I wanted to leave three times. The last time I told her, I grabbed her hand and began walking towards the exit, she stopped me and said no, I looked at her and then ditched her ass right there. Twenty minutes later she's blowing up my phone telling me that she wants to meet right away and that I shouldn't be mad and she'll do whatever I want. I was thinking of not responding but I caved in and ended up hate fucking her all night. Finally the worst part of all, once I busted my nuts she managed to bring the beta out of me and I ended up apologizing for leaving (huge mistake I know). So here are my questions guys:
1. What should I do when a girl you are not exclusive with is flirting with other dudes in front of you. Why do I still dislike it even if she ain't my gf?
2. Is leaving a girl out to dry in the middle of the night like that a good move or nah?
Note: this girl is not a westerner, she lives in Spain.
Thanks,
Rob
Second time posting in the forum, but I've been following for a long time. I'm fairly new into game, 2 years. I've been seeing a girl recently that's been throwing my cool off. Last night we hung out at a bar/club and she started flirting with some dudes in front of me. We are not exclusive so I let it slide and started chatting up the chicks the dudes were with to be on an even playing field. As the night went on the flirting continued and eventually she wanted to change venues to where the group was going. We ended up at this shitty loud club and after being there for 20 minutes I told her I wanted to leave three times. The last time I told her, I grabbed her hand and began walking towards the exit, she stopped me and said no, I looked at her and then ditched her ass right there. Twenty minutes later she's blowing up my phone telling me that she wants to meet right away and that I shouldn't be mad and she'll do whatever I want. I was thinking of not responding but I caved in and ended up hate fucking her all night. Finally the worst part of all, once I busted my nuts she managed to bring the beta out of me and I ended up apologizing for leaving (huge mistake I know). So here are my questions guys:
1. What should I do when a girl you are not exclusive with is flirting with other dudes in front of you. Why do I still dislike it even if she ain't my gf?
2. Is leaving a girl out to dry in the middle of the night like that a good move or nah?
Note: this girl is not a westerner, she lives in Spain.
Thanks,
Rob