So you've been travelling a bit and you found a city that really sticks with you. Amazing people, beautiful girls and a cheap standard of living.
Like anything nothing is perfect though and one of the biggest downsides of the city is that it is not huge, less than half a million people. It has the vibe that people know each other, while they may not they probably know someone that knows you.
Now I am done the stage where I want to count notches to chase some sort of fulfilment that I won't get. I want quality girls, but yeah sometimes a fun girl or two. On one hand I feel like I would have a huge potential here, it seems like the size makes it both limiting and empowering. So how do I approach it, as a unique foreigner? Here are some questions I have.
1) Social Media - Do I try to use this a lot, it seems like it would be easy to build myself up here and make contacts and meet some girls. Or do I take the opposite approach and delete everything (less of a reason for girls to find out about other girls).
2) Dates - Do I be selective on who I date, which would result in fewer dates but may give the perception of being a more desirable guy vs. going out with every girl I find cute.
3) Friends- Do I try to build a large social circle and invest a lot into this or just be content with the good things I'll have and not make a big effort.
I want your opinions. Have you moved to a small city and been very successful and happy without dealing with too much drama. What approach did you take and what worked and didn't. Or would you not consider it?
Like anything nothing is perfect though and one of the biggest downsides of the city is that it is not huge, less than half a million people. It has the vibe that people know each other, while they may not they probably know someone that knows you.
Now I am done the stage where I want to count notches to chase some sort of fulfilment that I won't get. I want quality girls, but yeah sometimes a fun girl or two. On one hand I feel like I would have a huge potential here, it seems like the size makes it both limiting and empowering. So how do I approach it, as a unique foreigner? Here are some questions I have.
1) Social Media - Do I try to use this a lot, it seems like it would be easy to build myself up here and make contacts and meet some girls. Or do I take the opposite approach and delete everything (less of a reason for girls to find out about other girls).
2) Dates - Do I be selective on who I date, which would result in fewer dates but may give the perception of being a more desirable guy vs. going out with every girl I find cute.
3) Friends- Do I try to build a large social circle and invest a lot into this or just be content with the good things I'll have and not make a big effort.
I want your opinions. Have you moved to a small city and been very successful and happy without dealing with too much drama. What approach did you take and what worked and didn't. Or would you not consider it?