So I took this girl on a date last weekend, and really killed it. Now, I really want to get the bang out of the way. Tommrow night we're going out again, and going to hang during the week. I live with my parents so I was going to try and get her to watch a movie at her place. Any advice on how to press for the bang in that scenario? Thanks
Movie bang
Sit close to her
Touch her
See how she reacts to your touch
Play with her hair
Kiss her lips
Kiss her neck
Grab waist during the makeout
Start slowly removing her clothing
Slip it in when she's wet and you're hard
If at any time she backs off or says no then revert back to kissing or something else and try again.
It really isn't that hard.
Touch her
See how she reacts to your touch
Play with her hair
Kiss her lips
Kiss her neck
Grab waist during the makeout
Start slowly removing her clothing
Slip it in when she's wet and you're hard
If at any time she backs off or says no then revert back to kissing or something else and try again.
It really isn't that hard.
Once you are next to her on a bed, it's as easy as it gets. She's thinking about sex, you're thinking about sex, easy.
Kiss her passionately, kiss her neck and listen to her breath and find the spot that gets her wet. A little biting usually if the girl is down (almost always are, harder and harder until they say to stop. You'd be surprised). After she is breathing heavily and you can see her blush as clear as day it's time to take off her pants.
As the other poster suggested if she says no just go back to kissing and petting, try again in a little bit. You'll get it, good luck
Kiss her passionately, kiss her neck and listen to her breath and find the spot that gets her wet. A little biting usually if the girl is down (almost always are, harder and harder until they say to stop. You'd be surprised). After she is breathing heavily and you can see her blush as clear as day it's time to take off her pants.
As the other poster suggested if she says no just go back to kissing and petting, try again in a little bit. You'll get it, good luck
A further point of advice: don't go all in 5 minutes after the movie starts like a tremendous thirstbucket and scare the cat. Take it slow, build the tension, you've got plenty of time.
Last girl I banged on a movie date we hit the bedroom a little after an hour in to the film. That seems an appropriate "escalation rate". If it's a day 2 with a girl I've already got some action with, but no sex, I usually wait until the credits roll to really push forward. I like movies, and chicks often have better TVs than I do.
Last girl I banged on a movie date we hit the bedroom a little after an hour in to the film. That seems an appropriate "escalation rate". If it's a day 2 with a girl I've already got some action with, but no sex, I usually wait until the credits roll to really push forward. I like movies, and chicks often have better TVs than I do.
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Last girl I banged on a movie date we hit the bedroom a little after an hour in to the film. That seems an appropriate "escalation rate". If it's a day 2 with a girl I've already got some action with, but no sex, I usually wait until the credits roll to really push forward. I like movies, and chicks often have better TVs than I do.
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Even better when you don't have a TV at all and they're rolling with a big screen.
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A further point of advice: don't go all in 5 minutes after the movie starts like a tremendous thirstbucket and scare the cat. Take it slow, build the tension, you've got plenty of time.
Very important point. Point is: make a move. It's okay to take some time, but by god make a move. Don't overthink it too much, it'll make you too nervous.
Sometimes the planets align a certain way and no matter how charming you are and how well you game, the cat is just not going for it.
Other times, you can fumble, fuck it up a few times, and still get a girl taking her clothes off with barely any initiative on your part.
You just have to pop that seal.
Don't know until you try.
I really think the easiest way for a shy guy to get the bang is to slowly escalate in a way that creates so much tension that the woman will just not take it anymore and frantically unbutton and unzip your crotch. I just don't buy the idea that women will not initiate. Build enough tension long enough and she absolutely will. All women have a breaking point and it's always a wonder to behold when it happens.
Here are some more graphic tips and tricks. Sorry if this starts to sound like Penthouse forums, but sometimes there isn't enough nuts and bolts detail in the advice being given.
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Being in bed watching TV can very easily lead to sort of lazily dozing off and cuddling. You don't want to do that. You want her to know that you think it's a big deal for her to be up next to you. In PUA terms, this makes the situation more "polarizing". You want your girlfriend to see you as being a stud bursting to the seams with desire, but you're such a gentleman that you're waiting until the right moment to unleash it on her.
What you're going to be doing is entering a nonverbal dance. Try to limit talking. It's all brain-stem at this point.
Look at it from a reverse perspective first. Let's say she wanted to communicate how turned on she was, and she was already down to just underwear. Would she need to say anything? No. All she'd need to do is look you in the eyes and grab your hand and put it onto her panties so you could feel how warm and soaked they are. Actions are worth so much more than words.
As you get closer together, chest to chest, she'll start to feel your heart thumping, but the most important thing is for her body to eventually come into contact with your boner and she can feel your pulse there. You don't have to move her hand. That's too provocative. If you're rolling around in the bed, your legs have to go somewhere anyway. So you can probably slide her thigh between your legs so she's feeling you pulsing up against her thigh. So eventually it's like you start dry humping her leg. As you do that your hands start to move from her back (more innocent and romantic) to her waist and then to her hips and caressing her butt. Before you know it she'll want to wrap her legs around you and dry hump crotch to crotch. It's not a matter of if, it's when. I mean, guys complain about blue-balls but I think women also reach a point where they absolutely positively need to blow off steam.
This is what "I don't know what came over me! One thing led to another!" looks like.
In review:
The kissing turns women on sexually more than it does for guys, so you have to keep the kissing going. Women hamster away kissing as "romantic" and they don't realize that it's really the appetizer for sex, so there's little to no resistance in starting the kissing. It's the plausible deniability. Your lower bodies then just start to take on a life of their own to the point where she'll either be riding you dry humping or you'll be mock humping her missionary. It's really only a matter of time before she pulls her panties off and she'll probably pull your underwear off for you as well.
You always have to remember that sex to women is a full-body experience and the more of your body you can use at once, the better. Porn where there is almost no contact other than penetration is the worst way to do things, and I can bet women have come to expect that as the norm and just tolerate it. Women love the foreplay because that's when they get the most full body contact as their whole body is, to some degree, an erogeneous zone.
Here are some more graphic tips and tricks. Sorry if this starts to sound like Penthouse forums, but sometimes there isn't enough nuts and bolts detail in the advice being given.
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Being in bed watching TV can very easily lead to sort of lazily dozing off and cuddling. You don't want to do that. You want her to know that you think it's a big deal for her to be up next to you. In PUA terms, this makes the situation more "polarizing". You want your girlfriend to see you as being a stud bursting to the seams with desire, but you're such a gentleman that you're waiting until the right moment to unleash it on her.
What you're going to be doing is entering a nonverbal dance. Try to limit talking. It's all brain-stem at this point.
Look at it from a reverse perspective first. Let's say she wanted to communicate how turned on she was, and she was already down to just underwear. Would she need to say anything? No. All she'd need to do is look you in the eyes and grab your hand and put it onto her panties so you could feel how warm and soaked they are. Actions are worth so much more than words.
As you get closer together, chest to chest, she'll start to feel your heart thumping, but the most important thing is for her body to eventually come into contact with your boner and she can feel your pulse there. You don't have to move her hand. That's too provocative. If you're rolling around in the bed, your legs have to go somewhere anyway. So you can probably slide her thigh between your legs so she's feeling you pulsing up against her thigh. So eventually it's like you start dry humping her leg. As you do that your hands start to move from her back (more innocent and romantic) to her waist and then to her hips and caressing her butt. Before you know it she'll want to wrap her legs around you and dry hump crotch to crotch. It's not a matter of if, it's when. I mean, guys complain about blue-balls but I think women also reach a point where they absolutely positively need to blow off steam.
This is what "I don't know what came over me! One thing led to another!" looks like.
In review:
The kissing turns women on sexually more than it does for guys, so you have to keep the kissing going. Women hamster away kissing as "romantic" and they don't realize that it's really the appetizer for sex, so there's little to no resistance in starting the kissing. It's the plausible deniability. Your lower bodies then just start to take on a life of their own to the point where she'll either be riding you dry humping or you'll be mock humping her missionary. It's really only a matter of time before she pulls her panties off and she'll probably pull your underwear off for you as well.
You always have to remember that sex to women is a full-body experience and the more of your body you can use at once, the better. Porn where there is almost no contact other than penetration is the worst way to do things, and I can bet women have come to expect that as the norm and just tolerate it. Women love the foreplay because that's when they get the most full body contact as their whole body is, to some degree, an erogeneous zone.
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