[LeBaron]

Hi guys first post here I've been lurking the forum from times to times and it's the first time I need an advice.

So I just broke up with my girlfirend one week ago and went to 2 tinder dates since then(one girl was crazy so I left, and the second date was with 2 girls from tinder who I matched with and were friends so I brought them together because I was with friends, nothing happened As I wasn't intersted in them)

The same night of the date with the 2 girls I went clubbing with my friends after the date. To make it short My friend said hi to a group of 3 girls and during the night one of this 3 girls was looking at me but I didn't really look at neither I approached her. I got separated with my friend but at the end of the night my friend told me that the girl who was looking at me said she felt like she knew me and that she liked me alot, and she wanted my facebook so he gave her my facebook.

The next morning on sunday I accepted her friend request and I saw she send me a message straight after she invited me on facebook saying that she felt like she knoxw me. So we started talking and it turned out we used to be neighbors and to take the bus together to go to school. She was really respectful and nice so I set up a date for the afternoon.

She showed up a bit late but apologised. basically we spent 3 hours together at a bar and then walking. The date went well but I didn't really show her any IOI's just a few subtles ones (When we were talking by messanger) she kept filling up the blanks during our conversation, she was aslo leaning towards me with a smile at some point while I was laid back and at the end of the date she gave me a look when we were walking of "I like you"

At the end of the date I didn't try kiss her and I don't really know why I didn't but we agreed to see each other during the week. I send her a text to tell her it was nice to meet her and she replied the same way.

Now today I send her a text this morning to set up another date tonight(the next day of our first date) and I know she saw it but she didn't reply.

I know I should have waited a couple of days before setting up another date and that I should have kissed her. I'm not sure if she is doing this to game me and make me want her more or if she is just not interested.

What should I do? thanks

[ksbms]

You don't give out a Facebook because it's playing to the girl's tune. You amp it up and make her comply to give you her number. If declined, she's not really interested. Remember, man acts, woman reacts.

[UlteriorMotive]

Am I being played because she has blue ticked my message on Whatsapp and not replied?

Wait 24-48 hours, if she hasn't replied then the lead is dead.

If she does then you go full steam ahead.

[ksbms]

Yes, you're being played. Even virgin girls can play. You're not the only dude who wants his D in her pussy.

Not necessarily dead, though likely. She might be shopping around before deciding whom to fuck (and probably fucks at least one guy anyway). Likely you're not her top priority right now. You failed by not kissing her = no brass balls. Generate new leads. And always push, push, push until you get a firm no. Playing too cool will backfire as for any hottie there's a queue and trust me, one of this guys will push so she opens her legs. Be that guy next time.

[LeBaron]

(02-20-2017 12:50 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

Yes, you're being played. Even virgin girls can play. You're not the only dude who wants his D in her pussy.

Not necessarily dead, though likely. She might be shopping around before deciding whom to fuck (and probably fucks at least one guy anyway). Likely you're not her top priority right now. You failed by not kissing her = no brass balls. Generate new leads. And always push, push, push until you get a firm no. Playing too cool will backfire as for any hottie there's a queue and trust me, one of this guys will push so she opens her legs. Be that guy next time.

She send me a text half an hour ago saying that she was working all day(with a picture of the place she work) and that she is staying where she works tonight and also asked me how I am. I allready have at least 10 leads right now this one is just stunning and it's rare thing I live in a small town. I usually use game and fuck girls on the first night I think I just got impressed by how she looks like I should have gone for the kiss. Anyway thanks for the advice I'll actually game her the next time I see her.

[Donkey_Riding]

(02-20-2017 11:53 AM)LeBaron Wrote:  

What should I do? thanks

Approach other girls. Rather than focusing on a single girl, build a pipeline of different prospects and pursue them in parallel. If you have multiple options, you will care less about the outcome with any one woman or date.

Once you've had a date, there's not much you can do to change the situation, in my opinion. Thinking of strategies to land a second date is pointless, because it's the first date that gets you the second date.

If she doesn't reply to your invite, drop contact and then re-engage once more after a week or so (you should be continuing to pursue other girls the whole time).