[Queston]

Alrite heres my question seriously. Ok so i'm in a really good law school and i've been dating this chick for six years [basiclly since the first year of college]. and she is just the definition of not having any fun. We have the same boring ass restaurant date every week and she never wants to go out to a club, bar, or anything fun. i'm a chill dude, i'm into all types of shit as long as it doesnt involve chillin in my fuckn apartment all day. in the bedroom it is only worse, cuz she's jus a strait up prude and hates anal. alrite man, what should i do, cuz i think i can defntly get bak on the market and pull some skirts, tho the whole thing is i havent been w/o gauranteed vagina in like half a decade. you gotta help me roosh. do i stay or bounce?

[spaceman]

heres a good way to decide:
if the next ten women you met would have sex with you, would you stay with this chick?

[speakeasy]

If I were in your shoes and I truly felt I could get some ass without problem, I'd have been gone long ago. Life too short to spend some of your most fun and active years with a boring ass girl. Find someone that stirs your soul.

[Bernie]

Leave now. You already resent her. Soon you'll despise her.

[zorgon]

Totally agree with Bernie. You gotta get out before you drive yourself crazy.

OK, so here's a followup question. Relationships definitely can head downhill over time. They can get in a rut (which probably leads to them going downhill later). But do they ever *improve* over time? And no, when married couples say things like "we love each other more than ever", I don't consider that to be admissible evidence without something to back it up.

[Roosh]

Bounce



Or you can wait another six years

[Trotter]

(08-24-2008 12:19 AM)Queston Wrote:  

Alrite heres my question seriously. Ok so i'm in a really good law school and i've been dating this chick for six years [basiclly since the first year of college]. and she is just the definition of not having any fun. We have the same boring ass restaurant date every week and she never wants to go out to a club, bar, or anything fun. i'm a chill dude, i'm into all types of shit as long as it doesnt involve chillin in my fuckn apartment all day. in the bedroom it is only worse, cuz she's jus a strait up prude and hates anal. alrite man, what should i do, cuz i think i can defntly get bak on the market and pull some skirts, tho the whole thing is i havent been w/o gauranteed vagina in like half a decade. you gotta help me roosh. do i stay or bounce?

Eh. You've been with the same girl for six years and you're just now wondering if you should bounce because you know you can get other girls? Also in her defence a lot of girls don't like anal, but that's a different topic all together.

My first thought is that you're probably not the kind of guy that can actually get other girls, or at least not the ones you would like so hence you've stuck with the same girl for six years. I should know because I've been in that boat before. You get comfortable with the situation and it's just easy to say that I can get new ass whenever I feel like it.

My second thought is that you're not alpha. An alpha wouldn't put up with that kind of behaviour if it really bothers him. Also you pretty much admit you let her dictate the terms of your relationship which isn't a good thing. It's time to man up and reveal your inner alpha. If she's not into it then bounce. Use a little pinnache to let her know you're manning up and that if she's not going to be a part of the program she's going to hit the curb. Get some sex appeal together and show her that you're highly marketable. Don't just talk about it she has to see it in action.

I keep my girl in check by letting her know I'm very marketable. When we're out I'll innocently engage into conversation with a cute girl. That causes her to get a little jealous and want to fuck my brains out when we get home. Also, I tell her where, what, and when for dates. Of course, don't be like that all of the time because then it's just overbearing. Let her do something she likes once in a while as a reward for staying in check.

[Trotter]

Caress?

When it says "caress" I used another word. Use your imagination I guess.

[duncanidaho]

(08-24-2008 12:19 AM)Queston Wrote:  

".. do i stay or bounce?"

Bounce Bro, we all need to get out of our comfort zones once in awhile or we stagnate.

[WeedVagRapBball]

i agree w/ erbody else. bounce son....hope you really beleive in the game cuz aftr 6 yrs ur gonna be rusty and probly wont get laid for a while.....damn nice analysis trotter, hilarious

[duncanidaho]

(08-25-2008 02:40 AM)Trotter Wrote:  

Caress?

When it says "caress" I used another word. Use your imagination I guess.

Yeah, I got hit with the "caress" in another post, so I spelled f*ck instead.

[Roosh]

oh yeah f*ck converts to caress. I thought it'd be funny (i don't care about profanity). But if it's not funny I can take it out.

Quote:

That causes her to get a little jealous and want to caress my brains out when we get home

[duncanidaho]

(08-25-2008 11:07 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

oh yeah f*ck converts to caress. I thought it'd be funny (i don't care about profanity). But if it's not funny I can take it out.

Quote:

That causes her to get a little jealous and want to caress my brains out when we get home

It's funny, I say keep it, and maybe even randomly change the converted word once in awhile.

[MiXX]

(08-26-2008 10:33 AM)duncanidaho Wrote:  

(08-25-2008 11:07 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

oh yeah f*ck converts to caress. I thought it'd be funny (i don't care about profanity). But if it's not funny I can take it out.

Quote:

That causes her to get a little jealous and want to caress my brains out when we get home

It's funny, I say keep it, and maybe even randomly change the converted word once in awhile.

yeah, this time change it from caress to "lick" - that sounds like it would be hilarious!

[Willy Wonka]

Yeah, dude.... you gotta bounce. Trust me, you'll feel a lot better about that shit once you do.

Even guaranteed pussy isn't worth staying with a boring chick that you don't enjoy hanging out with.

[Giovonny]

Queston,

Sounds like your ready for some new p***y.

Don't break this girls heart tho. Let her off slowly and softly. Do it gradually.

Keep her around as a friend, and occasional "F-buddy".

But start Gaming around for something new.

[hydrogonian]

Dude, I'm surprised you need a forum to help you answer this question. Its a very common problem that is easily sorted out with a bit of logic.

And what does your "really good law school" have to do with this question?

Anyway, what do you think you should do?

If your happy stay.

If your not, bounce.

Why would anyone, at any age, stay with someone when their not happy with? You only live once.

If guaranteed vagina is the problem, then thats a little sacrifice. Be tough. You may go through a dry spell, especially if your not yet good with other females (lots of guys with GFs aren't), but thats the price to pay to find someone who you would be happier with. This will give you time to get better with girls to the point where you will have your choice of a mate. It would be worth it.

However, if the only reasoning is that she doesnt do anal or go to clubs, but is good for you in every other way, then I'd say that those are just straight retarded reasons for you to break up.

Anal is overrated, and you will grow out of clubs. But if you need to do those things at this point in your life to be happy, then bounce as soon as possible.

[Sketness]

Stay with her for that guaranteed pussy! But be looking for another female on the side. In other words cheat on the prude!

[charmer]

she is a controlling freak,
she owns you.

make her jelouse by dating another quit...

or

if i were you,i would slap her on the face and quit !.

[Quasi]

I think you should marry her and suffer a boring life... and then maybe in 15 years from now snap when standing in the que to the postal office a insanely hot summer day, realising your life has been worthless and waisted and strangulate as many as possible before someone ends you.

[Tama]

gtfo

[InternationPlayboy]

Man, fuck all that nonesense. I was with a girl who was SMOKING hot for a couple of months. At first I thought I was a lucky dude. Then one day soon after I met her, I asked her if she wanted to go to the beach. She said no because she takes some medicine for her skin and can't go out in the sun too long. I was thinking, "Damn, this chick doesn't like the beach, lame." Then I would ask her if she would want to go out with some friends, but she had to work tomorrow. I just kept finding out this chick was lame slowly but surely. She never wanted to do anything, and when she did she wasn't much fun anyways. She was kinda lame in bed, just a decent fuck. She never had anything interesting to say. I would always lead the conversations and just find myself bored listening to her replys. It took me a while to break up with her because honestly, I have tight game, but it's going to be a while before I find another chick as hot as this one, but at the end of the day, I'd rather be banging a cute cool chick than a super hot lame chick (At least if I'm going to be hanging out with her every other day). It just isn't worth it man, let her go.