[BassPlayaYo]

(01-24-2017 10:35 PM)Slayer90s Wrote:  

Funny thing is we've only been together for 2 months and the fact that she's already displaying this kind of behavior is a Red flag. Were both very young (shes 19 and im only a couple years older than her). She's my Girl but i wouldn't hesitate to next her if that's what it comes down too. More Thoughts? (thanks everyone)

You should have been serious from the start and defined that boundary, she knows it's a problem but is looking to you for leadership and you failed miserably. :-) She's your girl? Define the boundaries, when she violates them be prepared to exit because she doesn't respect you.

[Roardog]

(01-25-2017 12:56 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

You shouldn't be using social media to spy on your girl or keep tabs on her. If your girl is the type of chick that makes you feel like you should be scoping out who she is talking to and what she posts online then you shouldn't be calling her "your girl"

This.

If you can't trust her then you haven't got a relationship, simple as that.

"If I have to say "stay away from my girl", then she isn't my girl."

[Bushido]

I know what you guys are saying, but there's nothing wrong with slyly checking her phone or social media now and then. 100% trust in a relationship is cliched nonsense that the likes of Oprah might push.

"Trust but verify"

Always look after number 1.

[just a human]

I know one young couple-they are 22 y.old. They shared with each other their facebook passwords. Not bad. If one are serious about relationship-why he would have some secrets? Let's see how their relationship will go...

[OCZ]

(01-24-2017 02:03 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

My advice is not to be in committed relationships with women who are still buddy-buddy with men they've been romantically involved with. Obviously this dude is important enough to her still to lie to you about her unfriending/blocking him on social media. She's bullshitting you about trivial shit. Seems clear to me.

That said, my further advice to you is to get off of FB, or at the very least don't look at other people's shit on there or give a shit what broads post on there. Use it to keep in touch with old friends/family and to post cool shit that can gain you attention and somehow improve your station in life or promote your business or whatever. Aside from that, it's an unneeded distraction and another way to get yourself caught up in unnecessary dramatic bullshit (case in point).

Social media is a powerful tool to distract you and focus yourself in useless shit. Women who spend half of her time looking at it are exactly the women you don't want to get involved with. A decent woman doesn't keep her exes on facebook.

[SVC]

This one is easy - Next, if she's going to lie about blocking an ex on facebook, then good luck with the rest of it

[dallasguy]

You give her a serious talking to and wean her off social media except for mutual friends and family. If she refuses then she does not respect you and will eventually cuck you. At that point she is no longer your girlfriend and becomes a FWB or plate. Right now you are on pace to be cucked I guarantee it 100%

[Off The Reservation]

And since this post what's new OP

[Jestx]

Yeah we had another two months down the pipe, how did this one turn out.

[Slayer90s]

(03-20-2017 11:43 PM)Jestx Wrote:  

Yeah we had another two months down the pipe, how did this one turn out.

Fellas,

Checking in one year later since this post and everything's been super rock solid. She hasn't disrespected my boundaries since and we've done so much together in so little time.

Thanks everyone for the rock solid advice. Moral of the story: Set boundaries early on and never let her cross them. Remember gentlemen, she will always look to you for leadership.