8 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend
01-18-2017, 04:49 AM
Quote: (01-18-2017 04:34 AM)Ouroboros Wrote:
Your posts contain a number of contradictions.
You state that you have no idea what a girl you observe wants:
And then you recall identifying IOIs in the supermarket and at work:
I get a ton of women who are not attractive/not in shape at all interested in me. The signs are usually obvious
I want somebody cute and in decent shape though and those never make themselves available or interested in me
I sometimes wonder if I really am ugly but on an average week, I get 4-5 people telling me I look fantastic and I am happy with the mirror. Still, I don't get any dating opportunities with anybody cute
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You say you lack confidence:
And then state that:
You're misreading that. Being a fat kid annihilated my confidence 10-15 years ago
I feel very good about myself now
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You don't know when to approach, but you can tell when girls are checking you out at the supermarket?
yes those signs are obvious, but again never anybody attractive
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You also mentioned somewhere that you make friends wherever you go, so you must know how to go up to someone and start a conversation. That's essentially the skill-set you need to succeed here...
Yea I've always made friends everywhere I went but again, making friends is so much easier than getting dates
The thing is that I've never had to "cold approach" to make friends. I always ran into easy opportunities with co workers, people at the gym, friends of friends, etc.... Easy opportunities where I had a natural reason and natural conversation starter to talk to them. I was never approaching a chick at the bar with 10 of her cock blocking friends there.
I find the initial stages of dating to be just about the hardest thing on the planet.