[Amour Fou]

I still don't know why no one mentioned this:

[Neo]

Ehh keep at it man. I'm younger than you but there are things you can improve. First keep in mind that the creepy old guy thing only seems to be an issue in certain western countries America. I saw this documentary on east asia and these cute chicks were looking for guys 50+. They may be gold diggers but whatever.

So first I'd say think about your look and do what you can with it. Also why not target girls in the 30 age range range?

Lastly for inspiration search for posts by tenderman on this forum.

[whosyourdaddy]

This is just an excuse, because your effort/game sucks.
I've practically never known any 39 year old man who was beyond fixable to get women. Get in shape, dress well and target more age appropriate women if you look so old.

There's no reason why you can't score with women at age 39, barring being a 1 on a 1-10 scale. Even then, there's always Colombia, Thailand and Eastern Europe.

[that guy]

Simple, start gaming women your age, and as your confidence builds work your way down agewise.

[oldnemesis]

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

I am 39 and it is over. If i daygame a hot young girl I will be called a dirty old man.

It is better to be a dirty old man who gets laid than a nice guy who doesn't.

[vinman]

I'm 43 as of today, and I've adapted. I walk my gray coated gray/ eyed pit bull pup, and women approach me. Jamba Juice, PetSmart, the park, doesn't matter. He's a instant ice breaker. He was mistreated so he's shy, and likes to hide behind me for safety, so I break out a treat and hand it to them so that they can coax him out. That shit works like voodoo.

[Smitty]

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

I am 39 and it is over. If i daygame a hot young girl I will be called a dirty old man. My online openers all get read with VAST traffic to my profile,but with very few replies. And why? I am too old. I admit it now. It is over. I can look but never game/pull/seduce.

I have bought all the material and it means nothing past a certain age. Goodnight.

Dude, online dating can be very frustrating when you aren't getting any bites. You scroll through hottie profile after hottie profile and then you see your inbox empty and it frustrates you...but, you need to do two things:
1) Stop with the online dating right now. No more. Online is a different world than real life, especially for women, and if you aren't mentally prepared, it can fuck with your mind. There are some good threads on here about how game in the online world differs, but just take a step back and assess your physical game.
2) Second thing you need to do is man the fuck up. If at 39 you're crying that it's over, then you may as well go marry a fattie and call it a day..or life. I went through a slightly similar phase which lead to my first post here questioning whether 35 was too old to game in Europe. The guys here put me in check REAL QUICK.

You need to do the same -- back out of the online shit and get your mind right. Go see some women face-to-face where you can look them in the eye, know they are full of shit and run your game on them. When you let them suck you into online dating, and you aren't mentally prepared (i.e. you are weak-minded right now), then they will destroy you.

Get your shit together and stop feeling bad for yourself...you're not getting any younger and there is a lot of pussy out there that needs fucking. Now hop to it!

[Riker]

(08-18-2011 06:07 PM)vinman Wrote:  

I'm 43 as of today, and I've adapted. I walk my gray coated gray/ eyed pit bull pup, and women approach me. Jamba Juice, PetSmart, the park, doesn't matter. He's a instant ice breaker. He was mistreated so he's shy, and likes to hide behind me for safety, so I break out a treat and hand it to them so that they can coax him out. That shit works like voodoo.

Nice Vinman! I'm going to do the same when I walk my dog, that's such a good idea.

[PDX]

(08-18-2011 07:01 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(08-18-2011 06:07 PM)vinman Wrote:  

I'm 43 as of today, and I've adapted. I walk my gray coated gray/ eyed pit bull pup, and women approach me. Jamba Juice, PetSmart, the park, doesn't matter. He's a instant ice breaker. He was mistreated so he's shy, and likes to hide behind me for safety, so I break out a treat and hand it to them so that they can coax him out. That shit works like voodoo.

Nice Vinman! I'm going to do the same when I walk my dog, that's such a good idea.

Dog game is money. Probably the easiest way to meet women that is discussed the least.

[MikeCF]

(08-18-2011 08:03 PM)PDX Wrote:  

(08-18-2011 07:01 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(08-18-2011 06:07 PM)vinman Wrote:  

I'm 43 as of today, and I've adapted. I walk my gray coated gray/ eyed pit bull pup, and women approach me. Jamba Juice, PetSmart, the park, doesn't matter. He's a instant ice breaker. He was mistreated so he's shy, and likes to hide behind me for safety, so I break out a treat and hand it to them so that they can coax him out. That shit works like voodoo.

Nice Vinman! I'm going to do the same when I walk my dog, that's such a good idea.

Dog game is money. Probably the easiest way to meet women that is discussed the least.

Yep. I'm going to have a huge blog post on this. Dog = greatest wing man EVAR.

[Docter]

It's all in your head.

There are guys older than you, uglier than you, stupider, less funny, and fatter than you that can seduce a woman.

Giving up is easy.

[silent_scope]

(08-18-2011 01:35 PM)jariel Wrote:  

Confidence is huge. I think Tuth had said it's like 10% of the game, and it's much more than that, any woman will tell you that.

Success builds confidence. There is no other way to get it.

[gig]

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

I have bought all the material

^ Your problem quoted

How about getting a personality instead. Of your own.

[gig]

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

My online openers all get read with VAST traffic to my profile

I'd stick to approaching in real life.

While it can be painful at least at first, if you stick at it the magic does take place. You just unconsciously change into da smooth playa eventually. This is unavoidable, if you stick at approaching and keep a positive attitude.

Not so with online dating. It's a twisted meat factory.

I'm pretty sure avoiding seduction ebooks and avoiding online game are the last things you'd want to hear, let alone follow.

However, this WILL work.

[Spike]

(08-18-2011 01:02 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

Seems like an obvious troll or some guy trying to get self-esteem boost.

Is there a thread about aging?

It is laughable/denial that guys claim you can pull the same at 40 as 30. Yet I'm 34 and don't look my age. Girls regularly assume I'm 26-28.

So at 39, based on how my other friends who use our anti-aging therapies have aged, I'll look around 33 - which isn't creeper at all.

Is there an Anti-Aging thread already? If not, probably would be a good resource....

same here, i'm 34 and just don't give a damn anymore. I'm banging girls in their early 20's abroad. They don't care and i don't care. i can get away with 28 on a good day, sometimes way younger. I i hang out in a backpacker environment, people just y assume i'm around 25.
Lots of girls like a older guy, i even joke about it.


And before when i was 28 i assumed i was to old for young girls. Look at me now.

[wi30]

I don't know why no one mentioned this but this post screams troll

Everyone knows there is a way around age. Depending on what you want you will find eighteen year olds or eighty five year olds. Quit bitching and take advantage of the girls you know you can snag...

[CJ]

(08-19-2011 02:30 AM)wi30 Wrote:  

I don't know why no one mentioned this but this post screams troll

Because this forum is still awesome/unjaded. Most people here really try to help out, regardless of how ridiculous the situation. But I do semi-agree with your assessment. I wouldn't call him a complete troll, just a guy frustrated with his results so far. That happens to most guys early on though, regardless of age.

[wi30]

(08-19-2011 02:40 AM)CJ Wrote:  

(08-19-2011 02:30 AM)wi30 Wrote:  

I don't know why no one mentioned this but this post screams troll

Because this forum is still awesome/unjaded. Most people here really try to help out, regardless of how ridiculous the situation. But I do semi-agree with your assessment. I wouldn't call him a complete troll, just a guy frustrated with his results so far. That happens to most guys early on though, regardless of age.

I don't want to scream full on troll but this thread goes pretty close. No one in their right mind gives up at only 39. I know I'm only 20 but nobody gives up until they're ready to die at 89.

[afronoob]

OP,don't give up on bitches! Never give up on bitches,cause when youn do you've given up on life itself. Fyi,I'm turning 39 on the 21st,and I still hit it-and yes I'm married.
Change the WAY you do things-a new strategy,a new location or a totally new approach. Like you,I find the usual methods,the whole club scene,cold approaches tedious and tiresome. Nowadays I have buddies hook me up with willing females-not hoes. Half the problem is solved;no boring games and play acting.
It works both ways.

[Lumiere]

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

I am 39 and it is over.

I am older than you - 41 - and from the age of 39 to 41 I banged more girls than in any other two year period of my entire life. Age range of girls was from 18 to 55.

The block that you have - it's all in your head.

[Russ]

A big thank you for 99% of your replies. I can see some really well meant advice and thoughts there. I am new to the game and i feel this site should not only be about " i am doing so well" it should also be a platform for "i quit and im going home" posts too. I did spit the dummy out last night,but what i wrote was from the heart and true as i felt it.

I will be taking on board the advice give and i thank you for the time you took to write your replies.

wi30, as i said, i have written too many genuine replies on here to be thought of as a troll. so..sit on it,dude.

I came across as a big wimp last night, but i had to get that out of me,from now on...no excuses!

[Peoloom]

You're only seen as the "creepy old guy" if you're creepy. Real talk.

Be the "cool old guy" and your problems are solved.

[Pusscrook]

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

I am 39 and it is over. If i daygame a hot young girl I will be called a dirty old man. My online openers all get read with VAST traffic to my profile,but with very few replies. And why? I am too old. I admit it now. It is over. I can look but never game/pull/seduce.

I have bought all the material and it means nothing past a certain age. Goodnight.

I see this so differently. I think the man is saying he wants companionship instead of just sex. What does your profile say? Are you looking for all the right things in all the wrong places? Perhaps you have chosen (subconsciously ) to activate what you are hardwired to do, which is to find a mate. I think you are making the right choice. Find a wife, not a fuck.

[CupCake]

(08-18-2011 05:43 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(08-18-2011 12:02 PM)Russ Wrote:  

I am 39 and it is over. If i daygame a hot young girl I will be called a dirty old man.

It is better to be a dirty old man who gets laid than a nice guy who doesn't.

Hahaha.

[flashbang]

We all have our down moments man and it's good you let it off your chest. Now forget about online dating and routines and all that crap, start pounding pavement and let your personality shine!