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As You Get Older, Have Your Standards Raised Or Lowered?
03-27-2017, 07:12 PM
Depends on how much your game improvr, and therefore how much varied your choices get. In my experience, quality limits have grown as my game has improved. Not saying that I don't occasionally take dips here and there, but on the whole, my tolerance and patience for mediocre chicks has decreased as I've had more attractive ones. Very different psychologies between average and more attractive girls and I tend to click better with more with the attractive ones because they seem to be more confident. The average girls get spooked if they think you are too attractive and then you have to do all this extra work to comfort them. I have a whole section on this in my book.
In general, go for the more attractive girls. That will push you to be better.
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03-27-2017, 10:01 PM
Well it all depends what you want, and what your definition of good sex is.
To me, a good lay has a nice tight, wet, pussy. She cums quick and hard. Squirts. Is exceptionally talented with her mouth. Takes it in the ass, loves being tied up, beaten, spit on, will eat pussy too, doesn't mind watching some porn. She has to FEEL right to me, and she has to be the kind of chick who is down for whatever. I enjoy having my cock worshipped.
I'll fuck a thick hipped butterface woman, and I'll fuck a straight up fitness model. It doesn't make a difference to me. What matters is how she gets down.
It just so happens that a lot of super exceptionally gorgeous women think they can lay there, or that giving a blowjob makes them special and kinky. So that's why looks are not as important to me, though they still matter.
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03-27-2017, 10:02 PM
For me, my standards have raised. I'm much more selective of who I have back to my place. I don't want to smash some chick and have to deal with the cleanup of sheets and hair unless she's hot and normal too. I also won't make a long commute just to get laid by a one time tinder slut unless I have had a big dry spell. I consider 45 mins a long commute.
Another reason I'm more selective is because as I age, I worry about catching a disease off these sluts who fucks everybody. I take a lot of precautions to check the pussy for any std signs, wrap it up, and check the wrapping regularly as I deliver the package. I don't take the risks that I did when I was younger. No no-doming for me unless it's a regular girl that I'm dating exclusively and trust.
My personal rule is I won't fuck any girl below a 7. I can definitely say that in my younger years, if the chick was borderline 7, I'd probably just go for it for a one night only thing. I no longer do this. I rather stay in and do something else I enjoy than compromising myself for something subpar.
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03-27-2017, 10:12 PM
^ Steelex, I get it. That's valid, but it's just not for me. This is a solid "to each his own" moment, which seems to be the scope and purpose of this thread (and forum).
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03-27-2017, 10:27 PM
Sleeping with hotter chicks now in my 50's by far than I was in my 30's. I used to have a few girls with pretty faces in my harem that didn't have rocking' bods - now they all are amazin - one is thicka than a snikah and 19 - shes the only exception - but god damn she is sexy as they come.
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03-27-2017, 11:15 PM
Quote: (03-27-2017 09:10 PM)Hoser Wrote:
Standards, men, standards. Why act like a dog when you can feel like a god?
I personally fall in this camp. I'd rather hold out and wait for a chic I'm really into, than invest any of my time and effort into someone I don't find visually appealing, no matter how much evidence I have that she'd be a great lay. I've been with a few such girls, to be honest - and while I don't regret it, they're not exactly standout memories either.
Come to think of it, my most memorable lays were always with the ones my eyes could really feast on. Perhaps guys like us are more visually driven, I can't say.
Anyway, to each his own, I guess...
Pussy ain't for pussies...
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03-27-2017, 11:34 PM
Standards are raised.
Expectations are lowered.
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03-27-2017, 11:44 PM
LOL dammit QC, one quick strafe into this convo and your leave us tongue-tied. It's like you write persuasively for a living. Remind me to hire you when I'm in trouble.
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03-27-2017, 11:57 PM
Quote: (03-27-2017 11:34 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:
Standards are raised.
Expectations are lowered.
My goal is to one day communicate with your level of raw eloquence.
Brilliant. Sad, but brilliant.
Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference
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03-28-2017, 09:36 PM
Both standards and expectations are way up for me.
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03-28-2017, 10:24 PM
raises more and more as i get older.
In highschool it was like i need a dime
after high school I came to reality. I didn't really know what I wanted in a woman or women.
As I age I know more and more of what I want and need.
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03-29-2017, 04:41 PM
As I age, my standards have been raised... AND I have zero fucks left to give. So there's five nines that she's not worth my time.
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03-29-2017, 08:17 PM
A trend seems apparent: most of our standards have raised --> which makes us more naturally rip princesses from their pedestals --> which demonstrates high SMV --> which precipitates attraction from higher SMV women --> which further elevates our standards.
You can't not like where this is going.
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03-30-2017, 02:38 PM
Where I live, totally raised. However, when I am traveling to a new place and I run out of time, my standards lowered. Not extremely, but yes
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04-01-2017, 03:57 PM
Relationship : astronomiclly high
One night : 5/10 and higher
