I'm 25 and I've been banging this 19 year old since two months. Met her from daygame and banged on 3rd date. After first sex I took her to before party to my friends palce, then we partied together and banged again. So this set the frame from the beginning as something more than casual fuckbuddy. Maybe it was to soon, but I wanted to keep her so I took her out.
I've been meeting her once a week or once two weeks. For me this girl is a type of "cool chick that you meet once a year, there is a great chemistry and you really hit it off". She has some red flags and she's 19 so I kept it casual. For example after second bang session I've seen her with some dude in the street, guy was her age so probly an orbiter but who knows. Also once she told me that she's visiting her ex-boyfriend. I was like whatever because I'm banging another chick and I have 2 other booty-calls just in case. So basically I'm assuming she's a slut and that she's banging on the side.
I've took her to 2 electronic festivals, we've been poping E together, parting together then fucking each other brains out. In terms of sex she was a bit cold in the beginning and didn't want to give blowjob. She told me that she does it only if she loves someone or if it's a boyfriend. I LOLd. Next time we met she got a bit drunk and she was sucking me like there is no tommorow and I started fucking her in the face. After that she's blowing me no problem. She like it rough, but it seems noone before was fucking her good enough so she keeps coming for more. She likes when I fuck her face, give her facials, she likes licking my balls, dirty talk etc. Basically she's fucking like a pornstar. She's cumming with me multiple times, I give her squirting orgasms etc. Sex is mindblowing.
Last week we met again and after sex I started talking things like "I really think I'm falling for you", "I don't remember when I felt like that", "I'm opening up with you" etc. It was for shit and giggles and I was saying that with a smirk. She knew I was doing it for fun on the logical level, but on the emotional level it hit her. After that she become much warmer to me. I wanted to hook her harder.
Few days later she texted me that she bought new lingerie and that she wants to meet on friday. I told her that I can't on friday (was going out gaming) and that she can come on thursday. She accused me that I'm meeting other girl and that I should change plans and meet with her instead, I said no and she eventually said ok to thursday. I didn't reaffirm on thursday, because I assumed that she will come as always, but she flaked. She texted some bullshit excuse, told me not to be mad and that we'll meet another time.
So I see it as stupid power play. It looks like she started to catch feeling or losing ground and she wanted to get some power back. I think I might look like a bit to player to her and she might be afraid that she's liking me too much.
Now how do I proceed from here? Should I text her more and give her more comfort or should I be more cold because of her flake?
Ideally I would like to:
-Keep banging her more (obviously)
-Sometimes going out with her (I don't know if that is good and if reducing it to only sex would be better)
-Not to get burned in the process
I've been meeting her once a week or once two weeks. For me this girl is a type of "cool chick that you meet once a year, there is a great chemistry and you really hit it off". She has some red flags and she's 19 so I kept it casual. For example after second bang session I've seen her with some dude in the street, guy was her age so probly an orbiter but who knows. Also once she told me that she's visiting her ex-boyfriend. I was like whatever because I'm banging another chick and I have 2 other booty-calls just in case. So basically I'm assuming she's a slut and that she's banging on the side.
I've took her to 2 electronic festivals, we've been poping E together, parting together then fucking each other brains out. In terms of sex she was a bit cold in the beginning and didn't want to give blowjob. She told me that she does it only if she loves someone or if it's a boyfriend. I LOLd. Next time we met she got a bit drunk and she was sucking me like there is no tommorow and I started fucking her in the face. After that she's blowing me no problem. She like it rough, but it seems noone before was fucking her good enough so she keeps coming for more. She likes when I fuck her face, give her facials, she likes licking my balls, dirty talk etc. Basically she's fucking like a pornstar. She's cumming with me multiple times, I give her squirting orgasms etc. Sex is mindblowing.
Last week we met again and after sex I started talking things like "I really think I'm falling for you", "I don't remember when I felt like that", "I'm opening up with you" etc. It was for shit and giggles and I was saying that with a smirk. She knew I was doing it for fun on the logical level, but on the emotional level it hit her. After that she become much warmer to me. I wanted to hook her harder.
Few days later she texted me that she bought new lingerie and that she wants to meet on friday. I told her that I can't on friday (was going out gaming) and that she can come on thursday. She accused me that I'm meeting other girl and that I should change plans and meet with her instead, I said no and she eventually said ok to thursday. I didn't reaffirm on thursday, because I assumed that she will come as always, but she flaked. She texted some bullshit excuse, told me not to be mad and that we'll meet another time.
So I see it as stupid power play. It looks like she started to catch feeling or losing ground and she wanted to get some power back. I think I might look like a bit to player to her and she might be afraid that she's liking me too much.
Now how do I proceed from here? Should I text her more and give her more comfort or should I be more cold because of her flake?
Ideally I would like to:
-Keep banging her more (obviously)
-Sometimes going out with her (I don't know if that is good and if reducing it to only sex would be better)
-Not to get burned in the process