I'll give my 2 cents on this one. I would say that this is THE most unpredictable age range of girls in terms of there personality, communication style, topics of discussion ect. But underneath it all they're still females and get horny(er) just like all the rest.
My experience is specifically with college girls in this range and like mentioned before, they don't know who they are and are experimenting with different ideas, belief structures, influences ect. Which makes their behavior very erratic on a day to day basis. Bottom line here, unfortunately there is no easy framework to follow or patterns that you can use repeatedly, you're going to have to figure out who you're dealing with and proceed accordingly.
As far as dating older guys, remember females in general are spatially challenged, which applies to distance, time, space and yes even age. Which means older is pretty much one huge block in her mind as she doesn't know the difference between 28 and 38 if both guys are reasonably in shape and take care of themselves. Which means that she's either ok with dating older or she isn't. It's not b/c you're 39 and her cutoff is 33.
The main thing with these girls is that they are 95%+ idea based and at most 5% actual life experience based. Which means weak convictions even though she may talk with enthusiasm and seem completely in favor of which ever ideas she's currently trying out. You just need to present better more interesting ideas with confidence to her and her interest will be piqued.
Also pot. Expecting these girls to get tired of droning on and on and on babbling excessively about anything and everything under the sun will leave you shocked at her ability to keep talking. I find that if you come across one open to smoking a little pot this usually stops them right in their tracks and makes for a easy(er) transition to feeling her up. I tend to favor that over drinking b/c girls in this age range for the most part are not experienced drinkers and IME this could turn an already unpredictable chick into a liability as she drinks far more than she should b/c she doesn't know her limits yet.
As far as moving towards sex, I've found that bringing it up or trying to talk about it ahead of time does you no good and could easily work against you. I think this again is another experience thing as young chicks in this age range simply haven't experienced enough good sex in their lives yet to get off on the idea of it. So it's worked out much better for me to simply keep it light, interesting and funny but focus specifically on managing the logistics. It's like once you get them somewhere quiet and private a switch flips and she suddenly becomes open for the makeout.
My experience is specifically with college girls in this range and like mentioned before, they don't know who they are and are experimenting with different ideas, belief structures, influences ect. Which makes their behavior very erratic on a day to day basis. Bottom line here, unfortunately there is no easy framework to follow or patterns that you can use repeatedly, you're going to have to figure out who you're dealing with and proceed accordingly.
As far as dating older guys, remember females in general are spatially challenged, which applies to distance, time, space and yes even age. Which means older is pretty much one huge block in her mind as she doesn't know the difference between 28 and 38 if both guys are reasonably in shape and take care of themselves. Which means that she's either ok with dating older or she isn't. It's not b/c you're 39 and her cutoff is 33.
The main thing with these girls is that they are 95%+ idea based and at most 5% actual life experience based. Which means weak convictions even though she may talk with enthusiasm and seem completely in favor of which ever ideas she's currently trying out. You just need to present better more interesting ideas with confidence to her and her interest will be piqued.
Also pot. Expecting these girls to get tired of droning on and on and on babbling excessively about anything and everything under the sun will leave you shocked at her ability to keep talking. I find that if you come across one open to smoking a little pot this usually stops them right in their tracks and makes for a easy(er) transition to feeling her up. I tend to favor that over drinking b/c girls in this age range for the most part are not experienced drinkers and IME this could turn an already unpredictable chick into a liability as she drinks far more than she should b/c she doesn't know her limits yet.
As far as moving towards sex, I've found that bringing it up or trying to talk about it ahead of time does you no good and could easily work against you. I think this again is another experience thing as young chicks in this age range simply haven't experienced enough good sex in their lives yet to get off on the idea of it. So it's worked out much better for me to simply keep it light, interesting and funny but focus specifically on managing the logistics. It's like once you get them somewhere quiet and private a switch flips and she suddenly becomes open for the makeout.