I'm not new to the game, I might even say I'm a veteran, but no one holds the ultimate knowledge and we keep learning everyday.
So I need advice and suggestion in this particular case I'm in, from other experts, which will also help beginners.
It might be a tad long so please bear with me.
I was at the gym the other day, and I notice this really cute girl glancing at me. Our eyes met at least 4-5 times. But I also saw her talking and laughing with two other guys.
I continued with my workout nonetheless and waited till the moment she was about to leave the gym and went to her and said:
Me: Hey, I have a problem".
Her: (smiled) yes ?
Me: I'm trying to workout but you're making it hard for me to concentrate
Her: laughing.
Me: what shall we do about it ?
Her: well let me introduce myself, I'm Amanda
Me: I'm Edelweiss, I'm French (We were in Spain)
Her: Yes I noticed you accent, it's very cute
Me: You need to leave now, I need to concentrate
Her: haha, I was about to leave actually
Me; you also owe me a drink, give me your number
Her (walking with me towards my phone)
Me: (I hand her my phone so she can put her info). I'll contact you so you can buy me a drink
Her (laughing) No in Spain men are supposed to pay for the women!
Me: ok we'll see about that, nice to meet you (while putting my hand on her arm)
Her: Nice to meet you too (also putting her hand on my arm)
2-3 hours later I text her saying: Hey Amanda, just finished my first training in 2 months after an injury. All went well...except for the distraction.
She responds half an hour later saying:
"Hey Edelweiss, I'm happy you're back in training, what happened?
Also the distraction wasn't intentional (with a smiley face)"
I reply:" had an injury bla bla bla
There are also worse distractions in a gym
How is you week shaping up ? I'm busy on wednesday but have free time on Tuesday and thursday
Ps If I make mistakes in Spanish, correct me"
She answers: "hahaha your spanish is great.
I hope you recuperate to 100% soon
This week I'm fairly busy with work but let's see if we can make it happen on the weekend.
I reply "Weekend is always easier.
Good night and we'll keep in touch"
Her "yes weekend better. Good night"
That was on a monday. On wednesday I sent her a pic of a disgusting obese dude working out in the gym with this caption: Told you there are worse distractions in a gym.
She answers almost immediately:" hahaha, happy to be a more positive distraction then !"
I reply: "I'm not the compliments type of guy but I like your profile pic (she changed it from her sitting by a lake, to her full face with a blue scarf). Blue is my favourite colour (with winky)
Her: oh well in this case I am even more flattered, thank you !!
Later on Wednesday I bump into her at the gym, I go to her, give two kisses on the cheek, and say: "this is not gonna work out well. We should exchange schedules so we show up on different days, I need to concentrate !
Her: (small smile) well the gym is big enough for both of us
Me: sure, I'm gonna warm up now, see ya (while putting my hand on her face gently)
Later on, I was doing shoulder presses, she walks JUST BY ME, doesn't give me a look. She speaks to the same dude she spoke to the first time I saw her. Then walks by me again and leaves the gym without even saying bye or looking my way (I was standing next to the exit).
This is where I need your help.
It seems she goes to the gym on Mon-Wed-Fri, just like me, and at almost the same time.
So this Friday I'll bump into her again.
Also we were supposed to make plans for the weekend.
After her cold behaviour on wednesday, I am left a bit unsure of what to do.
Shall I make plans on Friday BEFORE gym time ? After gym time ?
How shall I behave when I see her again in the gym on Friday ?
Shall I wait till Saturday to contact her and set up a date ?
As you can see she was very warm initially, but on wednesday at the gym, she was rather distant.
Advice ?
So I need advice and suggestion in this particular case I'm in, from other experts, which will also help beginners.
It might be a tad long so please bear with me.
I was at the gym the other day, and I notice this really cute girl glancing at me. Our eyes met at least 4-5 times. But I also saw her talking and laughing with two other guys.
I continued with my workout nonetheless and waited till the moment she was about to leave the gym and went to her and said:
Me: Hey, I have a problem".
Her: (smiled) yes ?
Me: I'm trying to workout but you're making it hard for me to concentrate
Her: laughing.
Me: what shall we do about it ?
Her: well let me introduce myself, I'm Amanda
Me: I'm Edelweiss, I'm French (We were in Spain)
Her: Yes I noticed you accent, it's very cute
Me: You need to leave now, I need to concentrate
Her: haha, I was about to leave actually
Me; you also owe me a drink, give me your number
Her (walking with me towards my phone)
Me: (I hand her my phone so she can put her info). I'll contact you so you can buy me a drink
Her (laughing) No in Spain men are supposed to pay for the women!
Me: ok we'll see about that, nice to meet you (while putting my hand on her arm)
Her: Nice to meet you too (also putting her hand on my arm)
2-3 hours later I text her saying: Hey Amanda, just finished my first training in 2 months after an injury. All went well...except for the distraction.
She responds half an hour later saying:
"Hey Edelweiss, I'm happy you're back in training, what happened?
Also the distraction wasn't intentional (with a smiley face)"
I reply:" had an injury bla bla bla
There are also worse distractions in a gym
How is you week shaping up ? I'm busy on wednesday but have free time on Tuesday and thursday
Ps If I make mistakes in Spanish, correct me"
She answers: "hahaha your spanish is great.
I hope you recuperate to 100% soon
This week I'm fairly busy with work but let's see if we can make it happen on the weekend.
I reply "Weekend is always easier.
Good night and we'll keep in touch"
Her "yes weekend better. Good night"
That was on a monday. On wednesday I sent her a pic of a disgusting obese dude working out in the gym with this caption: Told you there are worse distractions in a gym.
She answers almost immediately:" hahaha, happy to be a more positive distraction then !"
I reply: "I'm not the compliments type of guy but I like your profile pic (she changed it from her sitting by a lake, to her full face with a blue scarf). Blue is my favourite colour (with winky)
Her: oh well in this case I am even more flattered, thank you !!
Later on Wednesday I bump into her at the gym, I go to her, give two kisses on the cheek, and say: "this is not gonna work out well. We should exchange schedules so we show up on different days, I need to concentrate !
Her: (small smile) well the gym is big enough for both of us
Me: sure, I'm gonna warm up now, see ya (while putting my hand on her face gently)
Later on, I was doing shoulder presses, she walks JUST BY ME, doesn't give me a look. She speaks to the same dude she spoke to the first time I saw her. Then walks by me again and leaves the gym without even saying bye or looking my way (I was standing next to the exit).
This is where I need your help.
It seems she goes to the gym on Mon-Wed-Fri, just like me, and at almost the same time.
So this Friday I'll bump into her again.
Also we were supposed to make plans for the weekend.
After her cold behaviour on wednesday, I am left a bit unsure of what to do.
Shall I make plans on Friday BEFORE gym time ? After gym time ?
How shall I behave when I see her again in the gym on Friday ?
Shall I wait till Saturday to contact her and set up a date ?
As you can see she was very warm initially, but on wednesday at the gym, she was rather distant.
Advice ?