[Bycicleguy]

So I just had this situation, I was coming on public transportation after work and notice one of my workmates was sitting behind me, I don't talk to her because I don't like her at all and she has this arrogant behaviour that pisses me off, though she knows a lot of people at work.

I put on my headphones, I was thinking my own thing and suddenly I noticed a very hot blonde with a cleavage (seriously I would rather her an 8) gets on the wagon, I looked at her and she looked at me and then I noticed a guy who was with her grabs her and kiss her. I was sitting looking at the window and I noticed they started to get closer and she rubbed her ass on my shoulder, like a little accident, as the trip continued she was rubbing her ass against me more bravely, going to my chest, abs and almost my face, while she was talking with the guy like if nothing was happening, it didn't look very extravagant because the wagon was very full.

I stopped the music to try to know what the hell they were talking about and they were talking about some girl they haven't seen in a while. I was thinking, what the fuck? so I tested her to try to see what she was up to, I put my hand where she was rubbing and she started rubbing on my hand and when the bus stops she almost sits on my hand completely intentional. I don't know if I imagined or I heard it but I thought I heard the guy said "you are almost sitting on his spot". I wasn't doing anything else because I saw my workmate looking at me and I imagined her saying at the office I'm a creep who touches unknown girls asses on public transportation, I was also worried because the guy who was with the girl looked tough, So I was acting like if nothing was happening.

I was wondering, is this girl the kind of hoes who does this to other guys just to make his boyfriend fight with another guy? (I have seen that on clubs) Or maybe the guy was one of those weird bisexuals and does this to find someone to make a threesome? Whatever, none of those two options didn't seem to be worth the risk.

At the end, my workmate went out on the same stop as them, then I saw the blonde girl and the guy kissing while waiting at the stop, I went to the next station (was very close) and thought what the hell, I'm going to confront them, I need to know what the fuck was going on. So I dropped off and then took the train to the previous station but they were already gone.

Have any of you guys experienced something like that? I had girls grinding on me on public transportation before, but not fucking 8's in front of her boyfriends/fbuddies/whatever lol.

[John_Galt]

This really should be in the newbie section.

[Bycicleguy]

(11-03-2016 05:47 PM)John_Galt Wrote:  

This really should be in the newbie section.

I was actually thinking about posting it on the everything else forum as an official thread: "most weird situations when girls have rubbed their asses on you."

[John_Galt]

That would have been a good thread. Maybe a mod will change the title and move it for you.

You should also take a minute to break up the writing you have. It's word-vomit right now. You'll get more people to read it and reply if it's formatted in a way that is easy to read.

Also consider including a TL;DR. Something like, "Girl with boyfriend standing right next to her was grinding her ass against me on the subway for 15 minutes straight. Is this normal? How should I have reacted?"

I've never been in this situation before, so I have no idea what you should have done. She probably just wanted to "be bad" in public. A lot of girls these days get turned on by doing shit like this, then she goes home and fucks her boyfriend.

[Thrill Jackson]

Yeah it happens from time to time to me. She could be just throwing out a IOI and trying to get some shit started. Whether it be her boyfriend and you arguing or her and her boyfriend arguing. Girls loves drama no matter how much they bitch about it. And/or she could be a shameless slut who wants to fuck but giving the logistics she can't. Therefore, shes going to the next best thing and get as intimate as she can with you in public without actually kissing you/blowing you/fucking you, etc. Just imagine if everytime you saw a attractive girl and you can just start shamelessly slowly start to grind on her on a bus. That's the freedom these sluts have these days, so I don't blame these sluts for doing it. Theres a solid chance It was a pretty obvious IOI so just be prepared next time. Meaning have your name/number on a several small pieces of paper in your pocket in public. So when shit like this happens the minute the boyfriend looks away look that slut in the eyes (they should be dilated eyes if she is that horny) and hand her your number. Anything to give yourself a chance. Shoutout to Linux for the number idea when going out to clubs.

[Merenguero]

(11-03-2016 05:47 PM)John_Galt Wrote:  

This really should be in the newbie section.

Now instead of every girl a newbie posts about being a "9" or "10," this guy is posting about an "8." I think he said he lives in Buenos Aires, in which case, there is no shortage of quality girls there and the girl he is posting about may very well be quality.

[John_Galt]

(11-03-2016 06:42 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(11-03-2016 05:47 PM)John_Galt Wrote:  

This really should be in the newbie section.

Now instead of every girl a newbie posts about being a "9" or "10," this guy is posting about an "8." I think he said he lives in Buenos Aires, in which case, there is no shortage of quality girls there and the girl he is posting about may very well be quality.

I guess I misunderstood the purpose of the sections. I didn't think it was about how hot the girls you interacted with are, but more of a general overall level of game. Any guy can have hot girls rubbing his crotch on a subway, especially if he's good looking.

If my assessment was incorrect, than I apologize.

[Kilgo]

(11-03-2016 05:43 PM)Bycicleguy Wrote:  

I was wondering, is this girl the kind of hoes who does this to other guys just to make his boyfriend fight with another guy? (I have seen that on clubs)

It sounds to me like she was trying to make her boyfriend jealous and you happened to be a useful nearby way to do that. Perhaps your workmate being there was a blessing in disguise if the woman was hoping you'd escalate things so she could flip on you and complain to her boyfriend, possibly sparking a fight.

It's also entirely possible she didn't even realize what she was doing on a conscious level and was just excited in an emotionally charged moment. Trying to read any logic into a woman's actions during an argument is usually an exercise in futility.

[Merenguero]

(11-03-2016 07:20 PM)John_Galt Wrote:  

(11-03-2016 06:42 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(11-03-2016 05:47 PM)John_Galt Wrote:  

This really should be in the newbie section.

Now instead of every girl a newbie posts about being a "9" or "10," this guy is posting about an "8." I think he said he lives in Buenos Aires, in which case, there is no shortage of quality girls there and the girl he is posting about may very well be quality.

I guess I misunderstood the purpose of the sections. I didn't think it was about how hot the girls you interacted with are, but more of a general overall level of game. Any guy can have hot girls rubbing his crotch on a subway, especially if he's good looking.

If my assessment was incorrect, than I apologize.

My point was basically that newbie posters extremely often tell stories involving "9's" and "10's," which are maybe one percent of the population or not even that. This guy was at least talking about an "8" of which there is no shortage in Buenos Aires.

[Bycicleguy]

I agree is not exactly a game question, I didn't say a girl rubbing herself on you is an accomplishment, I was just very surprised by the situation (because of the boyfriend issue) and thinking about it I realized something, most of my successful approaches have been with a girl who gave me IOI's even though they denied it. I can remember a couple of approaches on metro and bus stations when a girl looked at me for a moment and then was super receptive when I talked to her. When I mentioned the fact that we had eye contact they always say they really didn't notice me and were just thinking about their grandmas or whatever bullshit, that is why I mentioned that she looked at me.

It might sound basic and stupid, it comes on the PUA playbook and you can understand it rationally, but I'm pretty sure most people don't feel it. At least I didn't for most of my life, but after you approach a shitload of girls you come to a point when you are walking through the street and you know when a girl is looking at you in a certain way, that she is open, you are having lunch with your pal and he casually says hello to a girl and you can see the way she looks at him though he is completely unaware of it and thinks she just want him as a friend.

I'm not too interested anymore on the whole dating game, going out with a girl to convince her have sex with me, sometimes when reading game forums I feel like dudes are doing anything to prove they are worth the pussy and they seem to forget that girls are just like them and sometimes they just want to have fun.
I remember the other day I found a sexual forum were girls used to post their real erotic stories, a lot of those stories where about how they got fucked on an alley after a concert or in a bathroom by a random guy they saw and found him attractive. I took a 18 y/o girl to the bathroom of her university to receive a blowjob and still I haven't managed to make her come out with me on a weekend, why should she go out with me again when she has a boyfriend and also has a huge amount of dick offers all the time? why should I considering that also? but she was open the night I met her, I recognized the moment and took advantage of it.

That is the game for me the ability to recognize when a woman is open for sex and lead her to it.

Of course when a woman is open has a lot to do with your value, also, she can be rubbing herself and not be open for sex, just teasing or seeking for validation. I already had girls rubbing themselves against me on public transportation, I approached a couple of them and they freaked out because for them it was just a release, an anonymous transaction without consequences, I'm trying to know in the experience of other guys, what this kind of indicator means (specially when they do something like this in front on their boyfriends), since in this particular case I couldn't see what could happen for the reasons I mentioned.

[XXL]

(11-03-2016 05:43 PM)Bycicleguy Wrote:  

I was wondering, is this girl the kind of hoes who does this to other guys just to make his boyfriend fight with another guy? (I have seen that on clubs)

Could be but who really cares

(11-03-2016 05:43 PM)Bycicleguy Wrote:  

Have any of you guys experienced something like that? I had girls grinding on me on public transportation before, but not fucking 8's in front of her boyfriends/fbuddies/whatever lol.

Yes, few times but only when it was crowded so it was clear that they did it only because they could get away with it. Again, who cares.

[SegaSaturn1994]

The strangest time for me was when I was in a club wearing a skin tight sleeveless shirt and dancing on a pedestal. A girl dancing with some guy I presumed to be her BF suddenly turned around, squatted and ran her hands down my hips and thighs like she was about to fellate me. The guy was oblivious to this and she quickly turned around and kept dancing with him.

The same night I was also grabbed by the arm and dragged away by a group of girls to dance with them. Unfortunately the girl doing the grabbing, who came from a blind spot of mine, was apparently the chunkiest in the group. She gave me a suggestive look on which I did not act; did not reciprocate the physicality.

[Jason55]

I was getting a haircut once and the girl doing it kept rubbing her tits on my shoulders. More often than accidental I was thinking, it seemed pretty intentional, it was constant. Unless that was just her style while cutting? I don't even remember how my hair turned out. But I really enjoyed that haircut.

[XPQ22]

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I was wondering, is this girl the kind of hoes who does this to other guys just to make his boyfriend fight with another guy? (I have seen that on clubs) Or maybe the guy was one of those weird bisexuals and does this to find someone to make a threesome? Whatever, none of those two options didn't seem to be worth the risk.

Your guess is as good as anyone's. It may just have been she, or her boyfriend, or both were the type of people that get off on making people uncomfortable and creating drama. Best plan is simply to ignore it, chuckle, and eject at the earliest opportunity. If boyfriend says anything, just smile and shrug and be like "hey look I'm just sitting here."

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At the end, my workmate went out on the same stop as them, then I saw the blonde girl and the guy kissing while waiting at the stop, I went to the next station (was very close) and thought what the hell, I'm going to confront them, I need to know what the fuck was going on. So I dropped off and then took the train to the previous station but they were already gone.

If you want to get robbed, punched, stabbed, or shot, confrontation is a fantastic plan. At best they'll just deny it and look at you like you're crazy. And there won't be anyone but you to state any differently.

You don't need to know anything.

(11-04-2016 12:55 PM)Jason55 Wrote:  

I was getting a haircut once and the girl doing it kept rubbing her tits on my shoulders. More often than accidental I was thinking, it seemed pretty intentional, it was constant. Unless that was just her style while cutting? I don't even remember how my hair turned out. But I really enjoyed that haircut.

That happened to me once recently as well. The barbershop I go to had gotten a new stylist and she kept rubbing her tits on me. I definitely think it's a plausibly deniable yet intentional thing - they want their tips.

I've never seen her working there again since that one time, and I get my hair cut pretty regularly. Looks like they canned her for that, or something or other.

[jackal62]

A girl walked around a house party offering everyone weed and a pipe. Then she goes around grinding on all the guys when they're standing up, including me. She did this in front of everyone, including her boyfriend, who was the tenant of the house. They broke up shortly after.

Based on that anecdote I'd guess "conscious attempt to burn the relationship down."

[weambulance]

When I was in the army, shortly before deploying to Iraq, I went to get Chinese at the food court in the mall on base. Saw one of my squad mates, the youngest guy in the squad, eating dinner with a solid 7 enlisted girl. She was about a 9.5 in Army terms, you understand, great body and gorgeous grey eyes but not that pretty. I sat near them with one of my friends and the girl started eye fucking me. I shrugged it off, thinking it sucked to be my squad mate because she was probably using him for a free meal.

Couple hours later, went by the barracks my squad lived in. I was living in another section. So I see the chick hanging out on the porch with my buddies, but she's on the arm of a different guy than she was before, another squad mate. I go on the porch with them and start talking, and the chick comes right up to me, presses her (honestly very nice) tits into my chest and gets real close, and gives me a "come fuck me" look from about 3 inches away. Then just walks back to my buddy without saying a word. I was no stranger to girls coming on to me (it doesn't happen every day, but I have been asked out by girls plenty of times), but that was pretty fucking direct, and right in front of her apparent boyfriend of the night? Pretty weird.

My buddy who she was apparently with didn't care. I was going out to see my Mexican girlfriend anyway, so I bounced, just shaking my head over what a slut she was.

Later on, I found out this chick was a major league barracks slut who was just trying to get pregnant, and I guess she thought I was the best bet until I walked away. She wanted child support and to get out of deploying, and maybe she thought I was a bigger sucker or had the best genes or something. So my buddy basically used her as a complete whore once he figured it out, having her give his friends naked lap dances and telling her to fuck other guys and shit, getting off on the control thing I suppose. I was never around for that, I was too busy with my girlfriend and hobbies, and of course I lived in another part of the barracks so I wasn't around all the time. She ended up going after him for child support while we were in Iraq, but the kid couldn't have been his because the timing was wrong. It never got resolved that I know of because he died not long after we got back to the states.

Army chicks, man. Couldn't pay me to hook up with those hoes.

[RedPillUK]

It's funny I see this today. I was out on my own last night. I made a few friends later, and met up with a girl and her more attractive friend who were late.

However this was the first 10 minutes where I was standing on my own in a small crowded bar wondering who I should talk to.

I started talking to some English gay expat dude, then this... woman.. comes over and he introduces me. She's not huge but she has a large belly like shes pregnant or something, she seemed in her thirties and had some weird lesbian looking mohawk.

So after the introduction she comes over to my side and literally pushes her entire body into me. I felt her leg on my leg, her chest on mine etc. My body was leaning into the bar as far away from her as possible while stilll remaining standing. If the bar suddenly moved I would have lost my balance and fell over. Another guy at the bar was staring at this awkward yet funny spectacle.

I think she felt slighted I returned no voluntary contact back, even though it would have been easier than squirming to get away from her, and after a couple minutes of this, they both left the bar and I never saw them again.

[robreke]

(11-04-2016 08:36 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

When I was in the army, shortly before deploying to Iraq, I went to get Chinese at the food court in the mall on base. Saw one of my squad mates, the youngest guy in the squad, eating dinner with a solid 7 enlisted girl. She was about a 9.5 in Army terms, you understand, great body and gorgeous grey eyes but not that pretty. I sat near them with one of my friends and the girl started eye fucking me. I shrugged it off, thinking it sucked to be my squad mate because she was probably using him for a free meal.

Couple hours later, went by the barracks my squad lived in. I was living in another section. So I see the chick hanging out on the porch with my buddies, but she's on the arm of a different guy than she was before, another squad mate. I go on the porch with them and start talking, and the chick comes right up to me, presses her (honestly very nice) tits into my chest and gets real close, and gives me a "come fuck me" look from about 3 inches away. Then just walks back to my buddy without saying a word. I was no stranger to girls coming on to me (it doesn't happen every day, but I have been asked out by girls plenty of times), but that was pretty fucking direct, and right in front of her apparent boyfriend of the night? Pretty weird.

My buddy who she was apparently with didn't care. I was going out to see my Mexican girlfriend anyway, so I bounced, just shaking my head over what a slut she was.

Later on, I found out this chick was a major league barracks slut who was just trying to get pregnant, and I guess she thought I was the best bet until I walked away. She wanted child support and to get out of deploying, and maybe she thought I was a bigger sucker or had the best genes or something. So my buddy basically used her as a complete whore once he figured it out, having her give his friends naked lap dances and telling her to fuck other guys and shit, getting off on the control thing I suppose. I was never around for that, I was too busy with my girlfriend and hobbies, and of course I lived in another part of the barracks so I wasn't around all the time. She ended up going after him for child support while we were in Iraq, but the kid couldn't have been his because the timing was wrong. It never got resolved that I know of because he died not long after we got back to the states.

Army chicks, man. Couldn't pay me to hook up with those hoes.

^This right here is why women shouldn't be in the military.

[Rang off the Pipe]

I don't know if this could be considered "weird" or not, but I'm going to retell one instance of something that happened to me this weekend.


I'm chilling by a random spot in a bar I'm at this past weekend, and from the corner of my eye, I notice this fat chick staring at me. I turn my head and she starts chatting me up, and although I want nothing to do with her, she gives me a bearhug and tries to kiss me. She's so aggressive that even her friends nearby see this and seem a bit sympathetic to my case. Once she realizes I'm not going to reciprocate her attempts to make out, she stops bugging me and goes and chats up another dude not far from me. This guy is taller and slightly more muscular than myself, and yet, despite being able to do better for himself, he can't resist the temptation of being forced to make out with this ogre. Even his friend nearby can't believe it, and we both look at each other and shake our heads in disbelief.

Unfortunately, for whatever reason, I occasionally seem to be a magnet for fat girls (mainly white) who think that I should waste my time with them, even after they give me hugs, brush themselves on me, grind on me, put my hands on their boobs, etc.