[Vinny]

Here are some recent observations on the power of staying in girls vision.

Met a girl on a top of Monserrate hill during my first visit to Bogota. Exchanged instagrams and I forgot about it all as she had a boyfriend and would not come meet me. A month later few days before going back to Bogota from Cali she messaged me and told me that we should definitely meet up once I am back.

Yesterday I met her for a short date at Crepes y Wafles. Apparently there is no more boyfriend. Today I banged her twice. Really cute girl at least an 8, with green eyes and a doll face.

Same day I get the message from a girl I banged in NY saying that she dreamed of me. The reason in my case is Instagram.

Staying in girls field of vision will keep you in their conscience (or sub-conscience, not really sure). Be it IG or FB, if they see you they think about you. No effort. Lets say you approach 10 girls in a certain city who have boyfriends. Few of them will probably give you their Whatsapp. 8 or 9 of them will probably give you their IG. Few months later there might be no more boyfriend. The chances they will think of that fun foreigner guy who travels a lot a posts nice pictures once in a while.
Lets say you have hundreds of girls like this. The chances are high. It works the same way for the girls you have already banged.

Passive bangs are the future of game

Bogota is same as always. Weather is cold, girls are hot. Weather changes 3 times a day, with it being impossible to pick a right wardrobe.

I judge a city by 3 parameters. Girls, weather, cheapness.

Cali great weather, cheap, but hot girls are really hard to get.
Bogota terrible weather, seems expensive after Cali, but hot girls are plentiful.
Medellin - will find out in four days. But hopefully its a winning combination.

[pressplay]

Excellent thread, inspiring and entertaining. I like how you combine the travel stories with general game observations.
What's your monthly budget for that kind of lifestyle in Colombia?

[rishboy77]

(01-28-2017 09:54 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

Here are some recent observations on the power of staying in girls vision.

Met a girl on a top of Monserrate hill during my first visit to Bogota. Exchanged instagrams and I forgot about it all as she had a boyfriend and would not come meet me. A month later few days before going back to Bogota from Cali she messaged me and told me that we should definitely meet up once I am back.

Yesterday I met her for a short date at Crepes y Wafles. Apparently there is no more boyfriend. Today I banged her twice. Really cute girl at least an 8, with green eyes and a doll face.

Same day I get the message from a girl I banged in NY saying that she dreamed of me. The reason in my case is Instagram.

Staying in girls field of vision will keep you in their conscience (or sub-conscience, not really sure). Be it IG or FB, if they see you they think about you. No effort. Lets say you approach 10 girls in a certain city who have boyfriends. Few of them will probably give you their Whatsapp. 8 or 9 of them will probably give you their IG. Few months later there might be no more boyfriend. The chances they will think of that fun foreigner guy who travels a lot a posts nice pictures once in a while.
Lets say you have hundreds of girls like this. The chances are high. It works the same way for the girls you have already banged.

Passive bangs are the future of game

Bogota is same as always. Weather is cold, girls are hot. Weather changes 3 times a day, with it being impossible to pick a right wardrobe.

I judge a city by 3 parameters. Girls, weather, cheapness.

Cali great weather, cheap, but hot girls are really hard to get.
Bogota terrible weather, seems expensive after Cali, but hot girls are plentiful.
Medellin - will find out in four days. But hopefully its a winning combination.

Vinny this is great reminder to keep a long term play with girls since boyfriends come and go.

However I guess most guys are not as lucky as you to have girls messaging you first... usually it's the other way around

In fact Valentine and Women's day coming I usually send out a quick cut a paste text to past and new potential girls to gauge their current level of interest.

What happened with the girl showed your previous conquests ?

[Vinny]

Bogota currently holds six RVF members boots on the ground. So yesterday we had a meet-up which four of us could attend. Had few beers and enjoyed some bro time.

There was a cute girl sitting alone, an opportunity I could not miss. Approached her, she turned out to be Brazilian. This got me more excited as I did not have a flag. One thing let to another. I captured my Brazilian flag within two hours of meeting her. Thanks to that other dude who was more than 20 minutes late for a date, if he is reading by any chance

It is hard to judge by one girl only, but she was the loudest girl I had in a while. Is this normal in Brazil? The whole ease of things and her behavior in bed (she let me film her blowing me) makes me want to visit this country sooner.

I have come to realize that learning things about a certain country is fastest and easiest through women. You will learn more about a place after one day of banging a girl than from one day of walking around the city alone. If you combine both that is an express course to any culture. I have learned a lot about currently popular brazilian music, cultural aspects of dating and picked up few phrases in Portugese.

[Vinny]

@Pressplay: This was my initial idea, share my travel experiences and some knowledge I accumulated. Glad you like it.

@Rishboy77: As a man you always have to make a move. I did the initial approach, short interaction plus the value demonstrating photos on IG had done it's work. Girls nearly never make a first step, well at least hot girls don't.
Most of the conquests of my previous month stayed in Cali. But here in Bogota, I met my regulars one time each(the two girls who visited me in Cali) and I am meeting (lets call her) "Monserrate girl" tomorrow.

I have been thinking for a while about the fact that there is no real 10 for anyone. Even if you meet a girl that you think is a 10, it is only before you have sex. After the excitement wears off you don't see the girl with the same eyes.
When I first met the "Monserrate girl", I liked her a lot. Partially because I could not have her. Once I got her, I lost part of my interest. It is the same story with most of the girls.
I have yet to find a way around this, if there is one. With every new girl I have I found the idea of future relationship less and less realistic.

[Filbert]

(01-30-2017 10:47 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

@Pressplay: This was my initial idea, share my travel experiences and some knowledge I accumulated. Glad you like it.


I have been thinking for a while about the fact that there is no real 10 for anyone. Even if you meet a girl that you think is a 10, it is only before you have sex. After the excitement wears off you don't see the girl with the same eyes.
When I first met the "Monserrate girl", I liked her a lot. Partially because I could not have her. Once I got her, I lost part of my interest. It is the same story with most of the girls.
I have yet to find a way around this, if there is one. With every new girl I have I found the idea of future relationship less and less realistic.

It's the nature of desire: once you attain it, you feel disappointment. This is a law: pleasure leads to disappointment and disappointment leads to destruction. There is no way around it.

As I guess you know Russian, there is an interesting passage from one of Osho's books (I have only a russian version):

Секс уже не столь уж всесилен, как нам это кажется. Его сила моментальна, это не длится двадцать четыре часа, это моментальный позыв. Если вы можете не содействовать ему и осознавать его, он проходит. И вы будете чувствовать себя более счастливым, чем когда сексуальная энергия вышла через проход, ведущий вниз. Запасание энергии всегда блаженство. Растрата энергии - это лишь облегчение, это - не блаженство. Вы разгрузили себя, вы ослабили то, что тревожило вас. Теперь вы не обременены, но вместе с тем вы опустошены. Вот почему за сексом следует депрессия. Вы разгрузили себя, и теперь вы пусты, вы что-то потеряли, что-то исчерпали. Но запасание энергии дает толчок вверх. Вы чувствуете себя обогащенным. Вы чувствуете внутренний рост, чувствуете внутреннее богатство. Вы чувствуете, что внутри вас что-то есть. Вы не опустошены. Чувство пустоты, охватывающее весь западный ум, возникает только благодаря растрате сексуальной энергии. Жизнь кажется пустой. Но жизнь никогда не пуста! Но она кажется пустой, потому что вы просто разгружаете себя, только облегчаете себя. Если что-то сохранено, оно становится богатством, если открыта ваша дверь, ведущая вверх, и энергия течет вверх, вы не только чувствуете облегчение, не просто ослабляете напряжение, но теперь вместо этого напряжения не возникает опустошенность.

[Vinny]

Approached three girls on the way to the date with the "Monserrate girl". One approach less than hundred meters from the date spot, felt some adrenaline pumping. Got three instagrams, while I was on the date two girls messaged me first. After the date and a maintenance bang I met up one after another with these fresh daygame leads. There was one thing they both had in common, huge tits.

In between these two dates I squeezed a two hour daygame coaching session with a forum member (who will name himself if he wills).
Have been doing this for a while now during my travels. Introducing guys to daygame. I can think of at least 5 guys who I have tried my teaching skills on and 2 more here in Bogota.

I am not a guru, but I approach girls and get bangs and I am wiling to teach how I do this. I might do it professionally later on, but I need to become a professional first. So for now I am offering Free one on one daygame bootcamps

For those of you who are new to daygame and are interested PM me.

[rishboy77]

(01-31-2017 10:42 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

Approached three girls on the way to the date with the "Monserrate girl". One approach less than hundred meters from the date spot, felt some adrenaline pumping. Got three instagrams, while I was on the date two girls messaged me first. After the date and a maintenance bang I met up one after another with these fresh daygame leads. There was one thing they both had in common, huge tits.

In between these two dates I squeezed a two hour daygame coaching session with a forum member (who will name himself if he wills).
Have been doing this for a while now during my travels. Introducing guys to daygame. I can think of at least 5 guys who I have tried my teaching skills on and 2 more here in Bogota.

I am not a guru, but I approach girls and get bangs and I am wiling to teach how I do this. I might do it professionally later on, but I need to become a professional first. So for now I am offering Free one on one daygame bootcamps

For those of you who are interested PM me.

Great idea on the boot camps

[Vinny]

(01-31-2017 11:01 PM)rishboy77 Wrote:  

Great idea on the boot camps

Not my idea BTW But thanks.

[CaptainChardonnay]

(11-24-2016 03:40 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

Just gotten my Irish flag here in Saigon. Met this girl in a gym. She was flaking for few days and yet today after few drinks she ended up at my place.
When she left I had to open my window and run the fan cause my apartment smells like pussy. Irish fiddle is playing on youtube while I am writing this.

Today I had a major struggle with AirBnb. They have cancelled all my host's bookings because apparently he has behaved badly to some guest. He is one of the nicest hosts ever, speaks good English and is very considerate. I don't know what happened but AirBnb said I had to find another place.

Since the moment I rented my place prices have gone up 3 times. And I really would not want to explain to my girls why am I in the different place. Called AirBnb, agreed for a full refund, agreed with my host that I will pay him same rate as when I was booking for remaining days. So I am hoping I was able to turn this around from being a total disaster to actually giving me a big discount on my stay, but an e-mail from AirBnb says it takes 5 days to process the money transactions, so it is too early to celebrate.

Pretty funny but I banged an Irish girl also when I was in saigon. She had an amazing pussy, definitely one of my top 3.

[Onto]

(01-31-2017 10:42 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

Approached three girls on the way to the date with the "Monserrate girl". One approach less than hundred meters from the date spot, felt some adrenaline pumping. Got three instagrams, while I was on the date two girls messaged me first. After the date and a maintenance bang I met up one after another with these fresh daygame leads. There was one thing they both had in common, huge tits.

In between these two dates I squeezed a two hour daygame coaching session with a forum member (who will name himself if he wills).
Have been doing this for a while now during my travels. Introducing guys to daygame. I can think of at least 5 guys who I have tried my teaching skills on and 2 more here in Bogota.

I am not a guru, but I approach girls and get bangs and I am wiling to teach how I do this. I might do it professionally later on, but I need to become a professional first. So for now I am offering Free one on one daygame bootcamps

For those of you who are new to daygame and are interested PM me.

I was one of the guys who Vinny coached in Saigon. While Saigon was more difficult because of the language barrier, Vinny was great and had great success. I learned a lot and had a ton of fun at the same time.

Thanks again Vinny!

[Buakaw]

(01-31-2017 10:42 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

In between these two dates I squeezed a two hour daygame coaching session with a forum member (who will name himself if he wills).

I had a two hour (free!) daygame coaching session with Vinny here in Bogota. Had a good time and received great feedback how to improve my daygame. Also got some new leads.

[Vinny]

Arrived to Medellin yesterday. Went daygaming around a nearby university. Was eating pizza and seeing girls pass by. Saw two girls, extremely close to being dimes, walking together. Think Victoria Secret model kind of girls. Perfect face, perfect body and walking as if they are on a podium.
The sucker I am I kept on chewing on my pizza. After that I walked around for hours trying to find something of a similar quality to approach but no girl came close to this quality.

Still these were the two hottest girls I have seen since I came to Colombia. I can already see that Medellin is going to be harder to daygame than Bogota, but a chance to meddle with this kind of quality will make me stick around and work hard.

While sitting at a bench on a busy street next to uni and waiting for targets I was probing the same uni on Instagram. Ended up with a date from IG.
She looked chubbier in person, but still better than nothing.

I don't really have a pipeline and I will try to abstain from using Tinder to stay motivated.

@Onto and Buakaw: Thanks a lot guys for the positive review. I will be doing this for a while and hopefully improve as well.
@CaptainChardonnay: Eskimo brothers huh?

[fvitterbi]

Yeh dude, Vin is the man. I'm glad he could help you too.

I posted this on another thread but will also say it here , I met up with him in Bogota. Although we met up initially on just a friendly level, he knew so much so I asked if i could pay him to help me update my instagram for a few hours.

Overall, very impressed, we took my Instagram to the next level, using 3rd party software, automation .then we did like 20 approaches on day game, he has a different way of doing things, very relaxed, easy approaches, direct.

If anyone out there wants a seriously new 2017 approach to gaming or would like some basic, easy, low anxiety day game help, I'd suggest contacting him.

[Vinny]

@Fvitterbi: Thanks dude.

Today I scouted 2 university Campuses in Medellin. Here is the breakdown.

UPB, more expensive and modern, hotter but older chicks.
University of Antioqua, cheaper worn and older looking buildings. Chicks are younger but less hot.
Been eating campus food all day.

All you need to enter is an ID. They don't really ask questions. Do it and feel like a fox in a henhouse.

I felt some strange burning while urinating so I decided to visit a clinic and do a check-up. I have been raw dogging more than usual lately.
In the line to the check-up there was a hot girl waiting, so I did not hesitate and IG closed her.

If I don't already have an STD she will probably give me one. But those tits are worth it

[Travesty]

^ EAFIT - step it up.

[Vinny]

(02-02-2017 07:47 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

^ EAFIT - step it up.

My third day in the city give me some time. Will check it out later. Is it any good?


Went out yesterday with the forum members. My first time visiting Poblado.
Decent crowd, quite a few cute girls groups WITHOUT GUYS. That was a first time I saw that here in Colombia.

Decided not to waste any time and approached a cute girl on a next table, right after the first shot. Got some reggaeton grinding and a makeout session. Could have probably taken this girl home, but called it a night early to get some sleep before a 9AM outdoors gym date with a hotter girl.

What a terrible mistake. This morning the girl flaked. So today its just me and my blue balls. Will know the next time that "better one bird in hands than two in the bush".

Anyways there is one thing I have been doing with all the girls lately which has been working as a charm. You have to make them feel small. It helps if the girl is small. Tell her how short she is, tell her she has a tiny palms of hands, tiny feet or something in that manner. Tell her to wear high heels on a next date. Not all at the same time though one of those is enough. I like smaller girls so it is an easy technique for me.

Another huge thing lift the girl up. Under any pretense show her that you can literally swoop her up. For example yesterday when I was ready for a second grinding session instead of taking the girls hand I just lifted her up from a bar stool and put her on the ground. Prepare for some feminine noises. Later on a lifted her by the armpits and sat her on the chair. Girls love this.
I do it while daygaming too. Met a girl, got her Instagram, small chat, goodbye hug, lift her up. Squealing and smiling.

Today I went for the test results. Apparently I caught chlamedia...
It was bound to happen.

Dear diary, 3rd of February, I was diagnosed with my first ever STD...
Nothing serious. 5 days of antibiotics and a calm mind that I don't have anything worse. I will wrap it up more from this day on, I promise.

The hard part is that I have to think about all the girls I banged raw and give them the news. My last 2 weeks I can count at least 7 girls, new bangs and maintenance bangs so it is a big stress for me. Anyway it is life.

[Heart Break Kid]

(02-03-2017 04:45 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

(02-02-2017 07:47 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

^ EAFIT - step it up.

My third day in the city give me some time. Will check it out later. Is it any good?


Went out yesterday with the forum members. My first time visiting Poblado.
Decent crowd, quite a few cute girls groups WITHOUT GUYS. That was a first time I saw that here in Colombia.

Decided not to waste any time and approached a cute girl on a next table, right after the first shot. Got some reggaeton grinding and a makeout session. Could have probably taken this girl home, but called it a night early to get some sleep before a 9AM outdoors gym date with a hotter girl.

What a terrible mistake. This morning the girl flaked. So today its just me and my blue balls. Will know the next time that "better one bird in hands than two in the bush".

Anyways there is one thing I have been doing with all the girls lately which has been working as a charm. You have to make them feel small. It helps if the girl is small. Tell her how short she is, tell her she has a tiny palms of hands, tiny feet or something in that manner. Tell her to wear high heels on a next date. Not all at the same time though one of those is enough. I like smaller girls so it is an easy technique for me.

Another huge thing lift the girl up. Under any pretense show her that you can literally swoop her up. For example yesterday when I was ready for a second grinding session instead of taking the girls hand I just lifted her up from a bar stool and put her on the ground. Prepare for some feminine noises. Later on a lifted her by the armpits and sat her on the chair. Girls love this.
I do it while daygaming too. Met a girl, got her Instagram, small chat, goodbye hug, lift her up. Squealing and smiling.

Today I went for the test results. Apparently I caught chlamedia...
It was bound to happen.

Dear diary, 3rd of February, I was diagnosed with my first ever STD...
Nothing serious. 5 days of antibiotics and a calm mind that I don't have anything worse. I will wrap it up more from this day on, I promise.

The hard part is that I have to think about all the girls I banged raw and give them the news. My last 2 weeks I can count at least 7 girls, new bangs and maintenance bangs so it is a big stress for me. Anyway it is life.

Does chlamedia hurt?

[Vinny]

One day later I eventually got my early morning outdoors gym date. So I might as well get both the bird in my hand and the two in the bush

I assumed a position of trainer which is a position of power. Pushed her around telling her what to do and touched her a lot to show her the right form. Lifted her up under armpits few times as a shoulder exercise and it worked magic as always. She started pointing a finger at her neck saying that it hurts and she needs a rub, so I bounced her back to my place together with her beagle dog.

While she got rubbing and a bit more, beagle chewed on my earplugs he stole from my bedside table.

Good beginning of my day. We scheduled another gym session manana.

(02-03-2017 07:50 PM)Heart Break Kid Wrote:  

Does chlamedia hurt?

Not really. Just a bit of discomfort.

[scotian]

Congrats on getting the clap Vinny, good thing you got it treated quickly or you'd be pissing shards of glass!

[Prince Charming]

Hey man where did you get tested and how much did it cost?

Also was your prescription 1 dose of 500mg of azitromicina?

[Vinny]

Last days were full of events.

Yesterday evening I met for pizza and took back home the girl from the club. Yes the one I thought I lost by not banging her the same night. Got a bang, but I feel that I have no interest in banging her again. 20 minutes after she left my apartment I was on a date with a girl I met a day before.

Here goes the story. Lets call this chapter "Family Game"

Went daygaming with fellow RVFer Prince Charming at Estadio area day before yesterday. My last approach of the day was a cute 18 yo girl with curly hair. It was a hard approach as she was with four female family members.

As always in this case I approached the mother. Told her a compliment on how amazing her job was in producing a beautiful daughter and asked for permission to talk to the girl. Once I had permission the girl had no right to say no as I was approved by a mom. Short chat, Instagram close all as normal.
Next day - yesterday, as my nightgame girl left, the family approach girl came by on a car to pick me up. I thought she was with her friends or driving, but turned out she was with the parents. Young parents pretty cool and very friendly. Now I have met the father.

They took us closer to Setenta and after brief chat we proceeded with the date. After the date they performed the taxi services again.
Today they picked me up in the morning and we spent the whole day together in La Ceja. Small village outside of Medellin with some nice theme park with a mock-up of a Colombian village where specially hired actors walk around and play roles of a village doctor, village widow etc. Pretty funny.

After the whole day I had a dinner with an even bigger family including some relatives from as far as Spain.
Now I don't even know how to proceed, been enjoying the company of these friendly people. Falling ever more deeply in love with Colombia. We drove in a car while the girl played ukulele and sang songs. The view was a shifting image of greenery, mountains and a blue sky without a single cloud. I felt at home with these people. And don't want to be an ass.

The question is. If I go on and have sex with their daughter and then leave after 4-5 weeks will they be offended? If I stop seeing the girl will they get offended that I have lost interest in their daughter?

I was pretty straight forward with them, telling that I am visiting Colombian cities learning Spanish and Learning about the country to later on decide where to move once I am finished with selling all my possessions at my home country. They realize I am not here forever, at least this time. They also know the nature of my on and off work.

@Prince Charming: I would say with diagnostics and the price of the pills it was about 50-70$ did not really count that well. I got a prescriptions of 10 Etidoxin100(doxiciclina) pills. 3 days and 6 pills later I feel totally normal, I will finish 10 pills as prescribed.

[BrewDog]

(02-05-2017 10:23 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

The question is. If I go on and have sex with their daughter and then leave after 4-5 weeks will they be offended and how will she react. If I stopped seeing her will they get offended that I have lost interest in their daughter?

Dude, if that Paisa has any fucking chance of ripping out your heart and stomping on it, she will. I wouldn't give one shit about what a Paisa thinks nor her family. Those chicks are brutal.

Great stories. Thanks for the updates.

And I had a nice time with a date recently on Montserate, too. I have mixed feelings about Bogota, but that mountain is a nice place to visit and something I'll remember.

[Prince Charming]

Respect on that approach I saw the girl and wanted to go myself cause she was fine but with the family there was just too much for me. I dont think you should care what the family thinks. Though I think you should be open and straightforrward with the girl and let her make her choice.

is that 50-70USD? seems super expensive. where did you get to get tested? I had chlamidia just 3 weeks ago and bought the meds for it for maybe 1USD at a pharmacy with out a prescription thought I am not 100% certain they were effective. Ive read you can get testing done for about 5-10USD in colombia but not sure where. When I tried to google clinics here to get std testing I ended up at a clinic for erectile dysfunction lol

[natas305]

Props for getting the club chick, she was definitely hot.