Quote: (11-04-2016 07:28 AM)Ouroboros Wrote:
Quote: (11-03-2016 10:48 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
But if you look at your own life, you know this belief is yours is not true.
Go to the gym.
How many men are there compared to women?
How many are doing free weights?
When women want shoes or to meet a celebrity. They'll line up around the block.
So it's not like they don't go after they want.
How many single women go to bodybuilding contests? Power lifting...Minor league basketball events? Investment banker conferences?
That should tell you that women don't actually value those things, or guys with those things.
That's why I'm always telling guys to stop focusing on bullshit to attract and retain women. Yet most of this site is about that bullshit.
This is no doubt a controversial topic on here, so as a newcomer I'll try to tread lightly...
Are you saying that women don't value guys with muscles or money? Because otherwise they would actively pursue gym goers and white collar professionals the way they pursue celebrities?
The difficulty I have with that argument is that (in my country at least) there's a large supply of fit guys with money, so they don't need to do much to get those things. Celebrities, on the other hand, are by definition a minority. Girls need to pursue them to have any chance...
Don't you think it might be more a question of supply/demand?
It's a question of how do women behave.
How do they think?
What is their psychology?
When you start going out, really pay attention to how women act around guys that have these traits.
Don't just focus on when the guy has success. If a cute girl walks by Tyrone Mandingo or Chad Thundercock - what does she do? What does he do?
You will see with your own eyes, how often she doesn't notice all of his external qualities. She doesn't approach. She doesn't make eye contact. She doesn't stop and linger.
She's in her own world. It's rare that a cute chick, much less a hot one, will do much to go after what she likes. That's why you can find groups of very successful men gathering, and hot bitches are not there.
And often times a guy can look good visually, or have the right stuff on paper, and when he approaches the cute girl, he loses all that currency by not being able to handle her.
Fuck some chicks and ask them about guys they thought were cute, but didn't end up fucking. They'll tell you all sorts of stuff that you NEVER pay attention to, but it's all she pays attention to.
And at a certain level of hotness, every guy around her is rich, tall, good looking, good body. If she thought like a man, she'd just pick the best one and call it a day. That's never the case.
But please, do not take my word for it.
Start going out and talking to chicks, and getting them in bed, and then start asking
Start observing the world. Why does this blond 6 foot dude not get the chick, but that dark haired 5'9" dude get her. How come you have all these guys in expensive cars going home alone? Why does the testosterone crew come to the bar in a group and leave as a group?
Why does the bartender get so much female attention?
Why does the bouncer barely get any attention?
Why does the break dancer draw a crowd, but never pull a chick?
Reading about game, asking questions about game, is only 10% of the battle.
You need to go out there and observe, experience.
A lot of the stuff you thought about the world is wrong.
You'd only know it was wrong if you tested it.
Most of the guys don't test their assumptions.
When you realize a lot of that get educated, get fit, get dressed stuff out there actually
does not bring the girl of your dreams to your bedroom,
Then you'll start to take this shit seriously, instead of it being some intellectual curiosity.
WIA