I have just encountered a problem which I've seen before, but it doesn't come up very often. I'm talking about the woman who hugs insincerely.
Over a month ago, a woman invited me to join a book club. The book club has actually been useful, and I plan on continuing my attendance there. I have no romantic interest in the woman who invited me, but have expressed my gratitude many times.
Often at the beginning and the end of the meeting, we would hug. And she certainly seemed cool with it.
It wasn't until I got a phone call from another woman there that I learned the truth. This female is "uncomfortable" with my hugs. She has never said a word to me about them. Nor has she said no or tried to prevent them. She has simply accepted them and has given me the okay.
Such women do trash reputations. Their gossip kills any social circle game.
So, how do you identify phony huggers? How do you know when a woman is giving a phony hug and giving a real hug?
I'm going to be as cold and indifferent as possible when I see this woman in the future. I have no patience for women who lie in this manner. Unfortunately, this kind of horse shit is not uncommon at all.
Over a month ago, a woman invited me to join a book club. The book club has actually been useful, and I plan on continuing my attendance there. I have no romantic interest in the woman who invited me, but have expressed my gratitude many times.
Often at the beginning and the end of the meeting, we would hug. And she certainly seemed cool with it.
It wasn't until I got a phone call from another woman there that I learned the truth. This female is "uncomfortable" with my hugs. She has never said a word to me about them. Nor has she said no or tried to prevent them. She has simply accepted them and has given me the okay.
Such women do trash reputations. Their gossip kills any social circle game.
So, how do you identify phony huggers? How do you know when a woman is giving a phony hug and giving a real hug?
I'm going to be as cold and indifferent as possible when I see this woman in the future. I have no patience for women who lie in this manner. Unfortunately, this kind of horse shit is not uncommon at all.