I thought a thread analyzing our first dates could be a useful resource to us new members. We can dissect what went well and veterans could shine a light on what we could have done better, or share their successful first dates.
I just finished a date with an 18 year old. My logistics are bad so I took the interaction as far as I could, attempting to weasel my way into her dorm, but her roommates are female IRT's.
I'm rusty so I paced myself, meeting at a cafe and building comfort over a Perrier. I relocated to a nice park and we talked for a while before I began a make out. She wanted to come to my place but it wasn't fitting so I escalated as far as I could, displaying value subtly by sharing my travels. I spoke too much but we both shared intimate details that increased attraction, strategically shifting between listening and sharing. It went well. Looking forward to other members accounts.
I just finished a date with an 18 year old. My logistics are bad so I took the interaction as far as I could, attempting to weasel my way into her dorm, but her roommates are female IRT's.
I'm rusty so I paced myself, meeting at a cafe and building comfort over a Perrier. I relocated to a nice park and we talked for a while before I began a make out. She wanted to come to my place but it wasn't fitting so I escalated as far as I could, displaying value subtly by sharing my travels. I spoke too much but we both shared intimate details that increased attraction, strategically shifting between listening and sharing. It went well. Looking forward to other members accounts.
