Hi there guys. I've been a longtime reader of rvf, rok, and the manosphere in general. A lot of what I read here really resonates. It's refreshing to go to a place where guys can be guys without worrying about what everyone else thinks.
However, when I read of all the guys who've gone from nothing and made something of themselves, it makes me depressed instead of inspired. Just read that rok article about 10 loser signs, and well, I've got most of them.
It's a terrible way to live. Not even living, more like existing. It's awful, and I really do want to make my own way in life. But things don't seem to work out whenever I try, and just fall back into comfortable misery. Am I screwed? Or is there a real way out?
I'm not looking for a quick fix or a pity party. I just want a solid plan to not feel like crap everyday and make something of myself. This seems like a good place to start. Any advice?
However, when I read of all the guys who've gone from nothing and made something of themselves, it makes me depressed instead of inspired. Just read that rok article about 10 loser signs, and well, I've got most of them.
It's a terrible way to live. Not even living, more like existing. It's awful, and I really do want to make my own way in life. But things don't seem to work out whenever I try, and just fall back into comfortable misery. Am I screwed? Or is there a real way out?
I'm not looking for a quick fix or a pity party. I just want a solid plan to not feel like crap everyday and make something of myself. This seems like a good place to start. Any advice?