Quote: (10-12-2016 11:28 PM)Putin Closes Wrote:
All night game and online game ONS, many within the first 3 hours of meeting. This shame spiral is quite interesting, thing is day game time wise is just a killer, I simply don't have the time to go out couple hours a day and get a few leads.
Tried Pokemon Go when it was hot and got a couple contact info and went nowhere.
But I will look into how to increase performance I'm typically real aggresive, choking, hair pulling, but position wise very vanilla, anyone have a good list of resources on how to actually have good sex. My buddy use to powder viagra, said snorting it made the effect faster, but can't tell if he's bullshitting or actually true.
Just hate the fact spending so much money on booze, much easier on the wallet and health wise to have a couple plates to concentrate on my income. Last night banged this pretty solid 6.5/7, but that's a $100 gone + a nasty hangover. Fully expect ghosting even after making her squirt.
Consider ZMA instead of powder Viagra. If I ever have trouble getting hard, two ZMAs and I'll be rock hard in about 20 minutes. It's more natural than "powder Viagra" or regular Viagra. Again, it works for me. What works for me might not work for you.
Yes, Sex God Method by Daniel Rose is a good place to start. Shoot me a PM, I'll send you a copy.
Sounds like your sex game isn't bad. Remember 90% of sex is psychological, try dirty talking more. It's not only about choking and pulling her hair, it's about telling her all the dirty things you're going to do to her.
Also if you don't like $100 gone + a nasty hangover, don't spend money on booze. You don't have to drink to meet girls. You can go out sober. I do it all the time. The best gamer I know on this forum doesn't drink at all. Goes out all the time and he tears up the bars.
If she asks you why you aren't drinking, the easiest thing to say is "taking a little break." I'm sure there's a more creative thing to say that communicates your standards that you don't need "liquid courage to talk to people you think look interesting", but for now just tell her you're taking a little break.
If you think you need to drink booze to meet girls...
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To address things said earlier on this thread. A maxim of game I've come to accept is:
Girls do not want to date their one night stands.
Don't expect your one night stand to come back for seconds. Of course, exceptions to every rule, but this is how I operate when I get the ONS. Plan for success, but don't expect to see them again.
After the ONS or first date bang, here's what to consider texting:
Before you have sex, make sure you know what to text her next
I've never met up with a girl for a second bang if she neglects to respond to the text: "We should meet up again some time". Even if she's friendly in a restart a few days afterwards, it means nothing. She's crossed you off her list.
Also, many girls don't want to date guys who bang them on the first date. Of course, exceptions to every rule. More advanced players are sometimes better at pre-screening girls who aren't down for a FB type of setup, if you've read any of BlurredSevens' threads on zero date bangs and harem management.
Earlier this year, I recall a girl I banged on a first date, after rough, hot sex where she told me:
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You are filling me up, I love how good your dick feels inside me." And kissing goodnight and telling me, "See you soon, love."
Then, a week later she texts me to say "I'm sorry Jagnum, I'm seeing someone now...". Lol yes, I'm sure she
just started seeing someone a week after we banged.
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Here's the other thing about ghosting.
I've gone on three, sometimes four or five dates with a girl, before the bang. Obviously, it's not my base case. But sometimes it happens and if I like the girl enough, I'll continue to hang out with her and move the ball up the field.
What gets to me is going out on a few dates with a girl, and you finally have sex, and THEN she ghosts.
It's one of the most frustrating things I've had to deal with in game this year.
Made me realize the traditional narrative of "men are just using women for sex" is false. In this day and age, it's "women are just using men for sex." Women have a plethora of available options.
If she doesn't see you as being a boyfriend for whatever reason, she won't stick around.
In your case, girls do not think of guys they met at a bar/club or online as potential partners.
The best text or sex in the world won't change her mind.
That's okay. Don't get hung up on it. Be persistent over text after the bang, but don't push too much. If she doesn't want to meet up again, go out and approach other girls. It's that simple.
That's post #100. Thanks guys on this forum for being with me on this journey. Onward.