First time poster but long time reader..
About me: Eastern European living in UK, 29 years old
Situation: Have long time girlfriend (3 years) - Latin american, 23 years old, raised in Italy butt in Latin family. Extremely family oriented. Been with her for 3 years (met her as my customer) and we live together. She never has cheated on my is a paranoiac quite a bit but has bailed my ass out trouble multiple times. Also her parents have helped me multiple times and still offer their support while I'm trying to get my life together after my gambling addiction.
As soon as she left visit her family.. I accidentally met pretty hot latina and had sex with her. Meanwhile I suggested my gf about breaking up. Today she found out by login in my fb about me and that latina. And thinks she is reason why I'm breaking up with her but despite that is ready to forgive me even if I haven't asked for that
I'm pretty sure that I want my freedom and this is not first time when I have cheated on her but on other side I'm massively in debt.
Dilemma: What I think smartest would be to stick with my gf at least till I get my life back but on other side she is definitely a keeper and I don't think she should be treated how I do. She is definitely wife's material and deserves better
What would you gentlemen do?
About me: Eastern European living in UK, 29 years old
Situation: Have long time girlfriend (3 years) - Latin american, 23 years old, raised in Italy butt in Latin family. Extremely family oriented. Been with her for 3 years (met her as my customer) and we live together. She never has cheated on my is a paranoiac quite a bit but has bailed my ass out trouble multiple times. Also her parents have helped me multiple times and still offer their support while I'm trying to get my life together after my gambling addiction.
As soon as she left visit her family.. I accidentally met pretty hot latina and had sex with her. Meanwhile I suggested my gf about breaking up. Today she found out by login in my fb about me and that latina. And thinks she is reason why I'm breaking up with her but despite that is ready to forgive me even if I haven't asked for that
I'm pretty sure that I want my freedom and this is not first time when I have cheated on her but on other side I'm massively in debt.
Dilemma: What I think smartest would be to stick with my gf at least till I get my life back but on other side she is definitely a keeper and I don't think she should be treated how I do. She is definitely wife's material and deserves better
What would you gentlemen do?